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5 Practical Ways to Take Control of Your Life | Jim VandeHei | TED

You can’t control the world — but you can control you. That’s the mantra that took Axios CEO Jim VandeHei, a once “unremarkably unremarkable 20-year-old,” all the way to launching companies and interviewing presidents. He breaks down a career’s worth of observations into five deceptively simple things you can control, and explores why mastering them…

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You can’t control the world — but you can control you. That’s the mantra that took Axios CEO Jim VandeHei, a once “unremarkably unremarkable 20-year-old,” all the way to launching companies and interviewing presidents. He breaks down a career’s worth of observations into five deceptively simple things you can control, and explores why mastering them can change the trajectory of your life. (Recorded at TEDNext 2025 on November 11, 2025)

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46 Comments

  1. @imthelonely

    May 15, 2026 at 11:11 am

    Necessary

  2. @apodartho9ro

    May 15, 2026 at 11:14 am

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  3. @HKAMILAH

    May 15, 2026 at 11:42 am

    I really needed to see this today, thank you 🤍

    • @TardigradeTough

      May 15, 2026 at 12:22 pm

      Jesus christ if I went on stage and took a massive dump I’d get an audience of people like you who’d give me a round of applause 👏👏

  4. @ChrisWMF

    May 15, 2026 at 11:46 am

    that line about “doom and gloom” comes from privilege.

    • @AdityaMehendale

      May 15, 2026 at 12:43 pm

      Persons in a position of privilege are often blind to the fact. Alas. That death-bed story is poignant, though.

  5. @wagwanbennydj6003

    May 15, 2026 at 11:57 am

    Let’s go

    • @TardigradeTough

      May 15, 2026 at 12:19 pm

      Let’s not he a shill who seems to be giving insights but is actually saying nothing new or groundbreaking or even helpful

  6. @IAMsterdam1071

    May 15, 2026 at 12:12 pm

    This is the story all successful people like to tell. That it is a mindset and everybody can get there. It’s simply not true. The son he adopted is the prime example. Maybe he can flourish now he is in a better environment. Before it was probably about survival.
    This message here is really toxic, it’s basically saying that everyone that isn’t successful isn’t trying hard enough

    • @abemore

      May 15, 2026 at 1:54 pm

      Yeah, his message is to just do it, but the problem is achieving the mindset to do it.

    • @lauravazquez5652

      May 15, 2026 at 2:49 pm

      Concur

    • @mennasoliman4794

      May 15, 2026 at 8:10 pm

      the best comment

    • @MisterMusaafir

      May 15, 2026 at 11:31 pm

      You see guys, this is what you shouldn’t be doing. The people who just don’t want to work hard, will keep saying that this is toxic, this is not true etc. But the people saying these things are just looking for easy things to do and get successful. But everyone knows life isn’t like that. The reason China is successful and independent is not because they were “non toxic”. They simply worked hard.

      Working hard has many benefits. Fitness, health, prosperity. Lazy people will tell you it’s wrong. But don’t fall into that trap.

      You can either spend your life working hard and build something big. Or you can keep complaining about toxicity in the message and keep crying throughout the one and only life you have got. The choice is yours.

    • @Schmidtelpunkt

      May 16, 2026 at 10:44 am

      @MisterMusaafir Or you can spend your life working hard without questioning it and then get spat out with nothing at the end. Which btw. is what normally happens.

  7. @TardigradeTough

    May 15, 2026 at 12:17 pm

    “You control you”? Jesus what amazing insight lol and you can be just as great as he is lmao TED what are you doing? So sad to see this channel die a sad death

    • @CalicoCooperFan

      May 15, 2026 at 6:55 pm

      There are people that spend all of their time, effort, and energy thinking about big problems that are outside of their control. They get overwhelmed, anxious, and are highly reactive. No good comes from obsessing about the stuff on the news that you can’t move the needle on each day. This speaker is right. Your life can improve by magnitudes if you focus on taking action on what is inside of your direct control. He’s giving a message of personal empowerment.

    • @TardigradeTough

      May 15, 2026 at 10:16 pm

      ​@CalicoCooperFan exactly my point TED used to be about thought provoking interesting scientific breakthroughs and discussions now it’s all just garbage feelings based therapy sessions look at TEDs analytics over the past 10 years, it’s fallen off and this is why

  8. @sevasocialite5265

    May 15, 2026 at 12:42 pm

    This is one of the few Ted talks that in really finding something of value in. 10/10 , great presentation!

    • @TardigradeTough

      May 15, 2026 at 12:59 pm

      Wow if I ripped a big stinky fart I’d get an audience for it coz there’s people like you that’d like the most garbage content

  9. @sevasocialite5265

    May 15, 2026 at 12:42 pm

    This is one of the few Ted talks that im really finding something of value in. 10/10 , great presentation!

    • @MrDreepy

      May 17, 2026 at 2:50 am

      @TardigradeTough Then don’t watch? If even one person gets something positive out of this TED Talk, it’s fulfilled its purpose.

    • @TardigradeTough

      May 17, 2026 at 2:59 am

      ​@MrDreepy but I like to watch the decline of once great companies who turned great content into therapy sessions its good entertainment plus theres this thing called freedom which says I can do and say whatever the fk I want ok sunshine? 🤗

    • @MrDreepy

      May 17, 2026 at 4:00 am

      @TardigradeTough Yeah, and they have the freedom to get whichever speakers they want. You’re sounding hella boomer right now.

    • @TardigradeTough

      May 17, 2026 at 4:10 am

      ​@MrDreepy thats true and Im free to call them garbage, isnt freedom just wonderful? 😃👌

  10. @yahyanoshad1067

    May 15, 2026 at 1:02 pm

    hey stranger can we talk

    • @ΟυρανόςΣάμαα

      May 15, 2026 at 3:44 pm

      Are you okay?

  11. @rrvillareal2011

    May 15, 2026 at 1:28 pm

    Theres alot of junk information on the internet and its like finding a needle in a haystack

    • @hea7en__

      May 15, 2026 at 4:53 pm

      Not always. Somehow I found this TED talk:)

    • @kangkangfoever

      May 15, 2026 at 10:57 pm

      so do TED misinformation😜

  12. @cpsocara

    May 15, 2026 at 1:46 pm

    The illusion of control can do amazing things. Just act as if you had control of anything, and many good things can be made by you.

  13. @doubleuenbeeeh

    May 15, 2026 at 1:55 pm

    This guy pauses at the most awkward times

  14. @doubleuenbeeeh

    May 15, 2026 at 1:55 pm

    “than I were” 😂

  15. @lauravazquez5652

    May 15, 2026 at 2:52 pm

    Like nobody thought of that 🤦‍♂️. So many circumstances…

  16. @kimpettersson6605

    May 15, 2026 at 7:41 pm

    The philosophy of Nietzsche and Aristotle summarized in 10 minutes ❤️

  17. @chuat1279

    May 15, 2026 at 8:16 pm

    Đạt đã xem 16/05/2025

  18. @Andy-ct2ut

    May 15, 2026 at 8:20 pm

    Wheres the peter lee’s ted talks? 🙁

  19. @sangre3

    May 15, 2026 at 9:10 pm

    Bueno, Pero si te quedas sentado en una silla esperando que caiga el mana del cielo, cómo que muy bien no te va a ir tampoco…

  20. @mrs.becomes1234

    May 16, 2026 at 10:50 am

    Proverbs 16:25 YHWH will tear down the house of the proud ones, and He will make stand the boundary of the widow

  21. @vortbio

    May 16, 2026 at 10:56 am

    Excellent advice. Thanks, Jim!

  22. @LucasPrry

    May 16, 2026 at 11:21 am

    I used to think I knew how money worked until I picked up “Rise Beyond Riches.” It’s almost scary how much we aren’t told. Arlen Viorra really pulled back the curtain with this one.

  23. @pawtleopard

    May 16, 2026 at 12:53 pm

    Each little decision is very big even if they’re small. It’s easy to make bad decisions but you feel unhappier in the long run though in theshort run the dopamine usually feels good. That’s why I’m exhausted by life. Every single day i wake up and have to re-regulate myself, make hundreds of small choices every day. Man, I’m tired.

    When he talks about when it gets really bad and still doing the right thing he’s super right, that’s when it counts the most. Especially during addiction

  24. @ClaudiaSüsstrunk

    May 16, 2026 at 3:19 pm

    I think it’s stupid to copy other people in any way because every person is entirely unique.

    • @Spud_E_Buddy

      May 17, 2026 at 11:10 am

      I also think it’s stupid to copy other people in any way because every person is entirely unique.

  25. @AIANDROBOTICS-l4h

    May 17, 2026 at 4:49 am

    I ARUP ALL THE TIME MOST DANGEROUS PERSON IN THE WORLD 🌎 LEADER SILENT VIOLENT

  26. @bert36783

    May 17, 2026 at 6:55 am

    Thanks for your 10 minutes 👏

  27. @sriikanth2002

    May 17, 2026 at 12:10 pm

    This season was truly spectacular.

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