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Desire doesn’t just happen – it’s created with intention. #TEDTalks

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire?

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In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire?

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  1. @nisimmakov4172

    June 14, 2025 at 2:07 pm

    тодА бокУ=)

  2. @maduonyema5940

    June 14, 2025 at 2:08 pm

    This is so true ma’am. Being very intentional about love making moves you beyond spontaneity, being conscious of each other’s needs… committed and intentional to being very happy. I totally relate.

  3. @hayeonkim7838

    June 14, 2025 at 2:22 pm

    Hi!

  4. @Iamsatyendraarya

    June 14, 2025 at 2:28 pm

    🇮🇳

  5. @luke-space

    June 14, 2025 at 2:36 pm

    Plenty of baby oil is the answer 😂

  6. @TrườngTranvan-t4i

    June 14, 2025 at 2:46 pm

    *Anyone in 2678?* 💖

  7. @JeremyLMarquez

    June 14, 2025 at 3:12 pm

    Is this the 12 year old content remix 101 for us marketers? We love Ted everything

  8. @melw5880

    June 14, 2025 at 6:14 pm

    I’ve been saying all of these things for years. Well stated and extremely accurate!

  9. @OnondagaDawn

    June 15, 2025 at 1:42 am

    👏👏👏

  10. @john_creates

    June 15, 2025 at 6:57 pm

    Too fast! Slow down. Your loosing half your audience with your rehearsed speech

  11. @MisterE42

    June 16, 2025 at 4:30 pm

    💯

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Why We Should Design Cities Like Disney | Zach DeBoer | TED

Where you live shapes your relationships, your emotions and even how long you live, says community designer Zach DeBoer. After studying what a century of building cities around cars has done to downtowns in the US, he turned to lessons from some of the most walkable, carefully designed streets in the country: the ones inside…

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Where you live shapes your relationships, your emotions and even how long you live, says community designer Zach DeBoer. After studying what a century of building cities around cars has done to downtowns in the US, he turned to lessons from some of the most walkable, carefully designed streets in the country: the ones inside Disney theme parks. With ideas ranging from narrower roads to buildings that pull you around the next corner, he offers a practical guide to turning ordinary downtowns into magical places people want to explore. (Recorded at TEDxSioux Falls on May 5, 2023)

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The real danger isn’t the technology itself, but rather the communities it leaves behind #TEDTalks

Social entrepreneur Van Jones believes a new human civilization is being born in real time — and that our technology is racing ahead of our wisdom. In this urgent and hopeful talk, he reframes the AI debate, showing why the real danger isn’t the technology itself but rather the communities it leaves behind. His solution?…

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Social entrepreneur Van Jones believes a new human civilization is being born in real time — and that our technology is racing ahead of our wisdom. In this urgent and hopeful talk, he reframes the AI debate, showing why the real danger isn’t the technology itself but rather the communities it leaves behind. His solution? A new deal between big tech and humanity, built on a different kind of “AI” that we desperately need.

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