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@reutaahdut
February 14, 2025 at 5:54 pm
Everything with Orna i click immediately
@RetNemmoc555
February 14, 2025 at 6:05 pm
No amount of couples counseling would have changed the fact that my former partner and I were simply not compatible. The relationship is now history, and the only regret I have was not staying in the friend zone.
@jliller
February 14, 2025 at 6:08 pm
I think a lot of people, especially young people, focus on how attracted they are to someone and not enough on whether the relationship should fall apart if they stopped and thought rationally about it at all.
@mitacestalia7532
February 14, 2025 at 7:14 pm
yeah, this remind me of a couple who bf is basically down to earth while the girl wants to be free. People point it out how they’re just not compatible and it’s better to break up.
@freeshrugs63
February 14, 2025 at 6:07 pm
Best way to tell you’re not gonna make it: you’re seeking couples counseling. That might be where most people go to get instruction on the best way to split up.
@lafandenuel5605
February 14, 2025 at 6:07 pm
she has a great physicality to be a therapist. Neotonous and non-threatening.
@qwaqwa1960
February 14, 2025 at 6:08 pm
Two words: Bifocals. Progressives. Oy.
@MageshSridhar_55
February 14, 2025 at 6:12 pm
“Chipotle lover” *long pause* “asks” 😂
@ItsKittyOG
February 14, 2025 at 6:16 pm
Wish I was this wise and kind
@sita487
February 14, 2025 at 7:35 pm
you are
@carlaa3623
February 14, 2025 at 6:25 pm
Now do family parent child therapist
@imawesome6137
February 14, 2025 at 6:26 pm
the first question … one of my favorite Taylor Swift lines “being casually cruel in the name of being honest” ooof
@invox9490
February 14, 2025 at 6:26 pm
I don’t see a weeding ring, so… I don’t trust her.
But the dog was a nice touch. It almost fooled me.
@awurschmidt
February 14, 2025 at 8:21 pm
Not everyone wants to be in a couple or married. Not every married person wears a ring. Every marriage is different, so I wouldn’t assume a counselor’s personal experience should guide their practice.
@NowhereNear42
February 14, 2025 at 6:51 pm
Learned so much today. Thank you.
@dwidana2574
February 14, 2025 at 6:57 pm
2:45 agree!!
@meggle12
February 14, 2025 at 6:57 pm
Truth hurts needed something more exciting Bom bom bi dom bi dum bum bay
@jt4351
February 14, 2025 at 7:11 pm
I love seeing her read these meme usernames, then proceed to give very thoughtful answers!
@b43xoit
February 14, 2025 at 7:25 pm
Not in realtime.
@jujuhirai8169
February 14, 2025 at 7:27 pm
is it normal to want to cheat on my partner with dr. orna? asking for a friend
@feelthejoy
February 14, 2025 at 7:30 pm
This woman has some major unintentional asmr vibes! Very calming and the glasses clicking is the cherry on top lol
@aydogank45
February 14, 2025 at 7:30 pm
I liked her.
@cathy265
February 14, 2025 at 7:55 pm
27:01 I love that. Help your wife’s! They want to be with you too !
@NostraBloom
February 14, 2025 at 7:56 pm
I hope the lady who thinks about another man during sex’s huband also thinks about another lady for his sake lmao. If I ever learned that, I would honestly end it. If the relationship is strictly monogamous and the opposite has never been hinted at, then that is such a brutal thought to have…
@brittany_geneva
February 14, 2025 at 7:56 pm
Wow she preached at 7:00
@peeshie8763
February 14, 2025 at 8:09 pm
My husband and I have a deeply loving, happy relationship, and we regularly try to help other people experience love the way we do. A big part of that is teaching people the things we do to support one another, grow together, how we treat each other day to day, etc. It is so reassuring and fulfilling to listen to a specialist reiterate the things that we do naturally, and I’ll continue to encourage people to be open and flexible with their partners or potential love interests.
@albertobueno7805
February 14, 2025 at 8:18 pm
She does really well, excellent at communicating, and a sweet video. However, I feel the names of the chapters may not be treating some of these topics with the seriousness they may deserve.
@katherinerichardson2273
February 14, 2025 at 8:26 pm
that second one is exactly what mine does he says he doesn’t want a sugar coat something which means he’s kind of blunt and hurtful at times
@PocketInquires
February 14, 2025 at 8:26 pm
1:37 _”The truth is not whatever comes to your mind. The “Truth ” is what is constructive to the relationship.”_ Talk about _oversimplifocation_ ?!?! To limit “Truth” to being wholly constructive, whether in the context of it’s nature or it’s function, would surely be the single most harsh condemnation of every individual on Earth over half the time. Within the psych community, there is this unspoken challenge present with every leisurely ingestion of MHT content on the internet. It’s called, _”Tell me your practice is located in California without actually telling me your practice is in California.”_ .
No purchase necessary to win, though. You can spot them too.
@GorunenileGorunmeyen-mt7qr
February 15, 2025 at 1:34 pm
This woman looks like she needs a lot of therapy
@lalala247-la
February 15, 2025 at 1:54 pm
I love her show ‘Couples Therapy’ on Showtime. I was honestly HOOKED.
@ethereal8888
February 15, 2025 at 2:07 pm
I love how she reads ever single username completely hahah
@ickess
February 15, 2025 at 2:12 pm
I would not like it at all with my wife was thinking of another man while we were being intimate. It would make me feel self-conscious, that I’m not good enough to excite her, really a whole range of emotions.
@AceHBK972
February 15, 2025 at 2:48 pm
❤ her case conceptualizations. Hope they get Esther Perel one day. 🫡 to my fellow couples therapists.
@kumismith5925
February 15, 2025 at 2:55 pm
When is a new season coming out??? 😭💗
@marshac1479
February 15, 2025 at 2:56 pm
Love her
@WhskyTangoFxtrot
February 15, 2025 at 3:12 pm
8:40 what you’re saying is very presumptive. It may be the primary way to think, feel, and experience affection for some men, but suggesting this all or nothing attitude about it is disappointing. Why do you focus on the man in this situation instead of the woman to better cherish those intimate moments? There are also women who are like this as well. The right answer is probably closer to working with both. Your answer kind of puts this 100% on men.
@notthisjenn
February 15, 2025 at 3:46 pm
I love the show couples therapy!
@deeb3272
February 15, 2025 at 4:10 pm
this isnt a couples therapy, we are having therapy as a group 😂
@ajkity
February 15, 2025 at 4:13 pm
I wanna know the dog’s name
@rizzornot
February 15, 2025 at 4:50 pm
OMG I loved you in Couple Therapy series!! 💘💘
@tonybrown5425
February 15, 2025 at 5:08 pm
Yes and you should be ashamed and get a divorce. Stop leading another innocent human being along.
@abbylax1984
February 15, 2025 at 5:25 pm
YUUUP love my girl Orna
@capybarawarrior1
February 15, 2025 at 5:39 pm
she dipped her toes in the mother lake
@pro100olga
February 15, 2025 at 5:35 pm
I hope that a woman whose bf says mean things because “it’s the truth” will find another boyfriend. Really, you deserve better.
@spinellim5410
February 15, 2025 at 5:43 pm
I love Dr Orna! She’s so amazing, so glad I caught this.
@thedolhaze
February 15, 2025 at 5:47 pm
It’s so nice to see psychoanalysis being taken seriously! Thanks for the vid, Wired ❤
@OneAndOnlyTrop
February 15, 2025 at 5:53 pm
Came for the Couples therapy wisedom
Stayed for the dog
@Findpype
February 15, 2025 at 6:21 pm
@7:27 what king of “advice” is this?? Lmaooo
@MitchellColbert
February 15, 2025 at 7:07 pm
As a fact driven person, her repeatedly saying facts don’t matter irked me to no end.
@SeaWitch115
February 15, 2025 at 7:21 pm
Lady biologist here, men go though weekly to bi monthly testosterone cycles that effect mens mood and libido. I understand that fem cycles are easy to blame but men also go through testosterone cycles.
Let’s Destigmatize hormonal cycles 🎉
@JT-di1uz
February 15, 2025 at 7:36 pm
Just wanted to say this helped me more than anything in validating me ending my last relationship. Thank you.
@dawert2667
February 15, 2025 at 7:41 pm
All feelings are valid, but not all actions taken on behalf of those feelings are valid.
Definitely something lots of people seem to misunderstand.
It’s not always easy, and sometimes impossible to control our feelings, but we can always control what actions and decisions we make. That’s why one should always accept how someone else feels, and not try to change that, but we can still have (reasonable) expectations as to how someone should behave even when emotional
@BagOCheetos
February 15, 2025 at 7:43 pm
If I just went around saying every hurtful thing that came to my mind because it is the “truth” I would have been murdered years ago lol.
@johnstanson3479
February 16, 2025 at 12:46 pm
Video/sound Editor: please get rid of the typing/clicking sounds on these videos.
@nicholasherbert4263
February 16, 2025 at 12:55 pm
One of the GOATs. I love your ShowTime series.
@jfrish1
February 16, 2025 at 2:07 pm
Apparently her main message: “you want true love…get a dog…” ❤🐶
@MontieAdams
February 16, 2025 at 2:11 pm
good therapist– can tell she’s trained or at least knowledgeable in Internal Family Systems therapy.
@FierceFashion
February 16, 2025 at 2:46 pm
Dr. Orna yay I love Couples Therapy!!
@TheSkinnyZ
February 16, 2025 at 2:58 pm
Not to put her expertise into question, but I’m pretty sure I’ve heard people say that pheromones are not a thing for the modern human. It might even have been mentioned in an installment of this very series. 🧐
Anyone got any insight?
@JDMimeTHEFIRST
February 16, 2025 at 3:12 pm
I suggest not seeing a couples therapist. My partner acted completely differently around her and I was very emotional and she blamed me for caring about the relationship. I was also undiagnosed autistic and making all the effort. My partner ended up not putting in the effort. And he started seeing the therapist for solo therapy. I feel like that’s unethical. Message: both people need to make the effort for a relationship to survive. One person can’t do it all. And both people need to communicate and keep up affection. If you don’t prioritize each other, nothing will change.
@JDMimeTHEFIRST
February 16, 2025 at 3:19 pm
The physical touch thing is so true. I don’t want to be afffectionate towards men because they will reject me and make me feel desperate as a woman
@forgottenperson5352
February 16, 2025 at 3:14 pm
Why are the transcripts like that. I came to this video to look for specific advice but it’s literally just random stuff towards the end 😭
@vernaute2803
February 16, 2025 at 3:19 pm
on average the person you end up with is average because on average you’re average. the person you think about is the best result among all the average people you’ve met or seen in your life. it makes total sense.
@bcoda
February 16, 2025 at 3:20 pm
“the truth is what is constructive to your relationship”
you heard the psychologist, cheat and lie because it wouldn’t be constructive to tell them
@bcoda
February 16, 2025 at 3:22 pm
anyways my point is that she agrees to not oversimplify but seconds later oversimplifies bc entertainment content is inherently not educational content and smashing them together leaves holes
@starlitsky4156
February 16, 2025 at 3:26 pm
People always think of someone else when they’re with me haha 😅
@avagreen1487
February 16, 2025 at 3:51 pm
6:40 “I like to support couples in their attempt to find each other.” That’s beautiful.
@Mozzarella-and-Tomato
February 16, 2025 at 3:51 pm
Thanks for modeling this wisdom and empathy<3
@mitchelnext1
February 16, 2025 at 3:53 pm
I found the mic touching at 21:00 or so funny
@adegcr
February 16, 2025 at 4:15 pm
really great video!
@wassabied
February 16, 2025 at 4:39 pm
Incredibly interesting episode. Thank you❤
@anahirodriguez4890
February 16, 2025 at 4:52 pm
I have a question about relationships and social media. How can I stop comparing my relationship to the couples I see online? Especially when it comes to Valentine’s Day. I saw a lot of couples getting each other beautiful gifts and going on dates and having the man plan it out for his women. It makes me feel envy and also happiness for that couple. I suppose I am just wanting to experience something as magnificent as what I see online.
@johnsonken96
February 16, 2025 at 5:02 pm
Thanks for the intrusive ads. Yay. Good video otherwise.
@Choolio94
February 16, 2025 at 5:13 pm
I love Orna! She was phenominal in Couples Therapy on Showtime. If anyone watching this loves this format, that should is a 1000% recommended watch for everyone!
@XxdextriousxX
February 16, 2025 at 6:03 pm
Psychologists and therapists are so emotionally intelligent I often wonder what it would be like to date them
@shundiin8
February 16, 2025 at 6:16 pm
Omg you flew through so many questions! So grateful (:
@KZesty
February 16, 2025 at 6:47 pm
I really enjoyed hearing this therapist share her knowledge!
@trestenspruell1214
February 16, 2025 at 7:23 pm
Loved watching her in Couples Therapy
@rodrigocurtyp
February 16, 2025 at 7:41 pm
AMAZING please bring more psychoanalysts
@Cocktails-and-Craft
February 16, 2025 at 7:46 pm
Bring this lady back for like 3 more seasons please 🙏🏼
@gowrinaidu921
February 18, 2025 at 1:39 pm
Where is the tumbnail question??
Someone keep the time stamp plz
@irfanmansuri1073
February 18, 2025 at 1:48 pm
I am single. Why am i watching this?
@family.nutrition
February 18, 2025 at 1:52 pm
Another season please! We love Couple Therapy on BBC!
@Gregavision
February 18, 2025 at 2:00 pm
I used to say hurtful things in my relationship because I thought “the truth” was the highest good. It isn’t.
@jerrysilva8227
February 18, 2025 at 2:02 pm
I loved how calm and confident she sounded the entire time. It was so relaxing just hearing her talk about these dilemmas
@rolfefeutz2105
February 18, 2025 at 2:05 pm
My ex wouldn’t let me have any female friends but she had guy friends, she eventually cheated on me with one of them.
@adamco42
February 18, 2025 at 6:43 pm
it’s often projection. they feel guilty about how they feel about their friend so instead of confronting the problem they let it build up and take it out on you. hope you find somebody better
@Jess-pp4xb
February 18, 2025 at 2:20 pm
This made me feel very good understanding that we’re all little complicated beings
@patriciakilgo23
February 18, 2025 at 2:56 pm
Relationships are all about communication and understanding. I recommend reading all books on Mindbloomery because I realized how much assertiveness and knowing your worth truly impact relationships. It was eye opening, it’s like learning to stand strong in your own identity, which truly makes a world of difference in how you connect with others.
@giananoel008
February 18, 2025 at 3:25 pm
Thanks for the advice 🙂
@lyd6530
February 18, 2025 at 3:36 pm
29:49 Her answer to the very last question made me so happy because i have a partner with a lot of trauma and illnesses that can distort his reality sometimes, but she perfectly described why it doesn’t matter to me when facts or stories dont “add up”
@i-i7722
February 18, 2025 at 3:45 pm
The amount of wisdom in the video is amazing. And it’s free …
@ReeUnit
February 18, 2025 at 4:11 pm
Watching this made me feel love and appreciate my partner ❤
@diannaprince9779
February 18, 2025 at 4:27 pm
does anyone else find their faces when they read the usernames out loud so funny
@Travieso8
February 18, 2025 at 4:42 pm
“I think people carry within them a lot of intense fantasies that sometimes get in the way of being in reality.” True in many if not all aspects of life not just relationships.
@wforall-p5l
February 18, 2025 at 4:51 pm
❤
@kimstolz8880
February 18, 2025 at 5:50 pm
I love how succinct she was, lots of good info and answered what felt like three times the questions of other videos.
@SpecialK199
February 18, 2025 at 5:55 pm
More of this please ❤
@godsgif232
February 18, 2025 at 6:08 pm
This woman has such a way with words!! Great advice !
@mklinger23
February 18, 2025 at 6:11 pm
About validateling emptions, a lot of people think this means “the feelings i have are appropriate and i should act on them.” In reality, to “validate” someones emotions is more like “acknowledge”. Validating your emotions looks more like “i am feeling x. I am allowed to feel x.” And stopping there. It doesnt mean “i feel x, so i have the right to act on it.” Or even “i feel x so that means that is the appropriate response.” Sometimes youre angry or sad and thats okay. Whats not okay is blaming those emotions on someone else or acting however you want because of them.
@huh3249
February 18, 2025 at 7:09 pm
Love seeing the psychologist, sociologist videos.
@UmbertoDavidPanda
February 18, 2025 at 7:12 pm
Drivel
@theArtIssssFake
February 18, 2025 at 7:21 pm
I wish this video was out a couple months ago 😢
@AliveBoldTV
February 18, 2025 at 7:55 pm
She is truly a gem
@zeroalphaser
February 18, 2025 at 7:57 pm
Why is that dog a cat?
@seanlems
February 18, 2025 at 8:09 pm
I love whomever created the chapter titles
@sarahnoll9018
February 18, 2025 at 8:23 pm
Orna, if you’re reading this, your sweater is incredible
@michaelbarrett9061
February 19, 2025 at 1:21 pm
Can you have an Analyst/Therapist for your next video?
@Alex_..C
February 19, 2025 at 1:45 pm
This therapist has me spinning in confusion. It’s a lot of word play and mental gymnastics and flare.
She basically either helps people find an ending or continuation in a relationship.
@lindasilina4806
February 19, 2025 at 1:46 pm
I absolutely love…. How she explains something without using “aggressive” words.
Like the husband, who does not understand that wife will be tired after taking care of kids, if he doesn’t help 🙄 ir the boyfriend, who is “distorting facts”, which we would just call lying 😂 I was listening to her answer and thought, “yep, yep…. so basically lying…. wait… she didn’t mention that word, did she??”
@ahetzel9054
February 19, 2025 at 1:55 pm
Favorite quote:
Theres no such thing as being “brutally honest”. Youre just an Ahole.
@Lorentz_Driver
February 19, 2025 at 2:01 pm
This isn’t couples therapy. This is “ego boosting for females,” the video. Notice how the man is always the villain? What a joke.
@RaviStar108
February 19, 2025 at 2:09 pm
Omg that pup
@memy3087
February 19, 2025 at 2:14 pm
I may never get in a relationship but I can appreciate how calmly they answer these questions.
@btb297
February 19, 2025 at 2:24 pm
Looks like she needs therapy
@daniellerenner8383
February 19, 2025 at 2:35 pm
PUPPYYYY
@DiutoAjoku
February 19, 2025 at 2:46 pm
WHAT ARE THESE NAMES plsss??😂💀
People are so cheeky with their social handles.
@clearyourthirdeye
February 19, 2025 at 2:50 pm
My question would be: how do you find a couple therapist that doesnt show incredible female bias?
@nellytgm
February 19, 2025 at 3:03 pm
Wow. Super helpful. And such a wise person she is… Also, I fell in love with her taking off her glasses when answering.
@lunaraurora1755
February 19, 2025 at 3:05 pm
I heard once “If you are 1 in a million there are 9000 just like you. You choose “the one” out of them.”
@Rift.x2
February 19, 2025 at 3:14 pm
10:47 whats helpful is not your words but your presense. Many dont want advices but only wants an ear to speak to, a shoulder to lean to, and a heart to cry to.
@sashimi2759
February 19, 2025 at 3:33 pm
Klee Kai baby?
@flowersforme375
February 19, 2025 at 4:01 pm
I love the Couples Therapy show.
@nhanlenz
February 19, 2025 at 4:09 pm
28:26 question in the thumbnail
@Woodsaras
February 19, 2025 at 4:11 pm
What a lpad of croak
@rogerthevirgin7592
February 19, 2025 at 4:18 pm
If that’s how I feel than it is the truth. That 2nd one made further understand that I will never go see a therapist 😂
@levyloup-noe6187
February 19, 2025 at 4:32 pm
I think you misunderstood what she said
@bjkarana
February 19, 2025 at 4:45 pm
If I can pretend to enjoy her stories about her female coworkers, she can pretend that it’s the biggest.
@Ryzza5
February 19, 2025 at 5:19 pm
28:37 if you came here only for the thumbnail
@smolboyi
February 19, 2025 at 5:31 pm
she has some decent advice at times.. but she says she doesnt know if there is “the one” is a thing, and she’s a couples therapist. u jokin
@ceton1843
February 19, 2025 at 5:41 pm
????? thats actually a very good thing ? i dont think you know much of the psychology of realtioships…its more science than fate or destiny
@mirmalchik
February 19, 2025 at 5:45 pm
the chapter titles are so sassy lmao <3
@Reefraction
February 19, 2025 at 6:07 pm
Her reading the usernames might be my favorite part of this!
@searain1573
February 19, 2025 at 7:07 pm
I don’t think romantic relationships are a good thing and I think this world would be a much better place without them. Most fathers hope that their daughter never finds a partner and remain single for her whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships.
It seems nearly all fathers don’t ever want their daughter to have a boyfriend/husband. The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a better place without them.
Most fathers seem to get upset whenever their daughter dates someone, and that proves that romantic relationships are a bad thing. Being single is far safer than being in a romantic relationship. People (especially women) should avoid romantic relationships and be single.
@hridayevyas8906
February 20, 2025 at 3:53 am
Yeah this one is not objective at all. She is not even trying to be objective, keeps imposing personal views in her responses. So many instances of complete bias. Strange
@jerQCote
February 20, 2025 at 6:25 am
We want another season of Couple’s Therapy!!!!
@tsu6341
February 20, 2025 at 7:07 am
“I accidentally tracked my wife’s period and realized my life revolves around her cycle” Just say you’re ignorant and only care about yourself
@Solanaar
February 20, 2025 at 7:11 am
I LOVE her take on intercultural relationship! As a socio-pedagogian I can attest to the scientific accuracy of her statements
@bennymountain1
February 20, 2025 at 7:55 am
Just had a fight with my wife over cleaning, so this is very handy 😁
@ilhan691
February 20, 2025 at 8:07 am
Her show Couples Therapy is soo good!
@savannahfoote592
February 20, 2025 at 9:15 am
25:34 Abed would like a word 😂
@mzeena7
February 20, 2025 at 9:35 am
actually kinda stung to hear her say idk what it means to really to e the one ):
@RobotGman
February 20, 2025 at 10:32 am
I need more of her she’s so articulate! father I crave more pls
@TheDOOMSHADES
February 20, 2025 at 10:36 am
So you reached out to a psychologist instead of a marriage and family therapist. 👍
@RockJohnson2000
February 20, 2025 at 10:45 am
9:10 woman marries a man and then complains about how he shows affection. Women are never happy about anything. Don’t get married gents. She will always be complaining
@lourichards8055
February 20, 2025 at 11:03 am
The second poster was exactly the kind of thing my ex abusive fiance was like. He would say mean things and tell people private conversations because ‘they should know they are being talked about’ when all it does is hurt those people and everyone else.
He became abusive VERY quickly after two years together, and those were his excuses for those two years before the words turned into physical violence.
@NewsforThought-English
February 20, 2025 at 11:27 am
This was mostly standard up until the last question. Sorry, but if someone is distorting facts they need help with coming back to reality, not to be enabled to “experience” things however they want. Yes some situations can be interpreted differently but mostly facts are called facts for a reason, because they don’t care about you feel or experience them, otherwise that’s the root of toxicity.
@AcrossTheSea12
February 20, 2025 at 12:10 pm
I think the ‘valid feelings’ one deserved more nuance. You can have feelings that are valid (the bar is simply ‘do you feel them?’) that aren’t JUSTIFIED. Unwarranted jealousy is a common one.
@Rattenhoofd
February 20, 2025 at 12:12 pm
I got turned off after she said she does psychoanalysis, but she seems to have valuable insights and be a wise and genuine person.
@lillie-n2b
February 20, 2025 at 12:23 pm
some of the captions under each section caught me by surprise lol
@ivyspeakeasy
February 20, 2025 at 12:34 pm
I LOVE HER!!!!
@oscarbizard2411
February 20, 2025 at 1:03 pm
Psychoanalysis is a pseudoscience…. Very upsetting that wired didn’t do their research.
@chloequalls1662
February 20, 2025 at 1:10 pm
I loved to hear her talk and get to know her answers to these questions awesome vid!!
@TehKhronicler
February 20, 2025 at 4:19 pm
The wisdom in this lady is off the charts and powerful. It really warms my heart to see any humble-yet-cogent non-narcisstic therapists working out there.
@bomorris5050
February 20, 2025 at 4:45 pm
She is almost emotionless… why would I take her advice on multiple people’s emotions?
@Erdf3542
February 20, 2025 at 4:49 pm
She has an amazing series on bbc Iplayer. Highly recommend
@Redflowers9
February 20, 2025 at 6:27 pm
I disagree the truth is NOT necessarily always constructive to the relationship.
@Emmasechochamber
February 20, 2025 at 7:35 pm
“It’s rare for us to be able to offer something that is really helpful to another person” she says, after offering about 12 things that were really helpful to me lol
@coltonreed4488
February 20, 2025 at 7:59 pm
MALE PARTNERS NEED TO CARE AND KNOW ABOUT FEMALE PARTNERS HORMONAL CYCLES. seriously fellas, it’s like a cheat code for a happier like for all parties.
@mobbs8229
February 20, 2025 at 10:56 pm
Key & Peele comedy skit idea: perfectly psychologically healthy couple goes to a therapist and the therapist loses it over them having no issues.
@ssccglselfstudy
February 20, 2025 at 11:11 pm
We all have those vulnerable , needy small parts that need to be taken care of 😐
@Study-l1z6w
February 21, 2025 at 12:24 am
“I like to support couples in their attempt to find each other” is so beautiful. As someone working in the mental health space, I’ve seen how guided therapy can help couples break the cycles, find each other and way to communicate and heal. That’s why we offer a free first session—to help people explore these patterns and improve their relationships.
@CommodoreBlubbers
February 21, 2025 at 12:24 am
Wow. What an amazing and articulate woman.
@ishaantiwari8969
February 21, 2025 at 1:23 am
I just have to say this – introducing yourself and not introducing the dog is just rude.
@JeanElmore-z7i
February 21, 2025 at 1:29 am
You have such unique perspective! Love it! Honestly, I’m really struggling since he left. I cry myself to sleep every night, missing him so much. I poured my heart out to him in a message, but I haven’t heard back. It’s been really tough.
@GloriaStenium
February 21, 2025 at 1:31 am
Aw, my heart goes out to you! You’re clearly hurting deeply. I’d recommend you reach out to father abulu a renowned relationship a spiritual counselor he offers expert advice and guidance on love, relationships, and heartbreak. He can help you heal and get your ex back.
@GloriaStenium
February 21, 2025 at 1:31 am
His handle is FatherAbulu. He specializes in rekindling the spark in broken relationships
@JeanElmore-z7i
February 21, 2025 at 1:32 am
Tnx for ur help I hope it works out
@billdoesjudo
February 21, 2025 at 4:40 am
OK but he didn’t play as a winger with Ronaldo acting striker. That just didn’t happen. Ronaldo was a winger ar Utd and became a more centrally located player at Madrid
@shaylabasilio4419
February 21, 2025 at 5:31 am
The green of your sweater really suits you, it brings out the rich brown tones in your hair 👌🏽
@christabellaaugustin3864
February 21, 2025 at 5:47 am
This really validates my feelings and experiences.. thanks.
@lamontowens1655
February 21, 2025 at 6:22 am
I could watch hours more of this!
@VannApragal
February 21, 2025 at 7:11 am
Who gave this woman a medical degree? I got through less than 2 minutes to come to that conclusion.
@VannApragal
February 21, 2025 at 7:12 am
Wow, women are really waste of space and time.
@HankseyHill
February 21, 2025 at 9:20 am
How many times are you going to take off those glasses, only to put them back on seconds later?
@Kritikanbringer
February 21, 2025 at 10:33 am
1:36 Women. ☕️
@Kritikanbringer
February 21, 2025 at 10:38 am
8:30 A blind leading the blind: She has no idea what men think or want.
@Kritikanbringer
February 21, 2025 at 10:39 am
11:06 Women: feelings > truth. ☕️
@purplebandana3538
February 21, 2025 at 11:02 am
Ye I don’t believe in “the one”cuz a lot of people they ended up with the one.then break up or get cheated on.even down the line of years with them or oh 17,25,30,35.people divorce all the time.i just say to myself u end up with who u end up with!
@fx-modding
February 21, 2025 at 12:12 pm
3:09 I believe its once the oracle identifies them
@MsSidra11
February 21, 2025 at 12:26 pm
I love orna
@anastasiawisteria
February 21, 2025 at 1:44 pm
16:30 I don’t really agree that a grown man not wanting to participate in any cleaning should be answered with, “how else do you want to contribute?” Cleaning is an absolutely fundamental task of living and takes so much time and effort. For one part of the couple to maintain ALL cleaning of the household? You can’t make up for that in other areas.
@johannaliceaga5936
February 21, 2025 at 2:32 pm
If you think kids are going to ruin your relationship than it’s not as stable as you think
@AliciaNavarreteAlonso
February 21, 2025 at 3:54 pm
I’m not even in a relationship anymore and really enjoyed this video
@JRDS214
February 21, 2025 at 4:34 pm
Awesome ❤❤❤❤❤
@padzevans3194
February 21, 2025 at 4:47 pm
These are rudimentary aspects of any relationship that until today I thought was the most obvious it’s crazy
@gothgod10
February 21, 2025 at 5:59 pm
She’s has a lovely presence
@Feyra.z
February 21, 2025 at 8:33 pm
3:06 one general rule of knowing someone is good for you is getting into tooting competitions
@serenityy1-s4s
February 21, 2025 at 9:09 pm
The dog look just like her
@chameleonarcher85
February 21, 2025 at 9:53 pm
I think my parents are both prone to regress to their inner 16 year old selves. They recently divorced at nearly 70 years old, despite both of them saying its not what they wanted and neither of them thinking they need couple’s therapy or therapy generally. It has me pulling my hair out listening to them both.
@YashVardhanGhildiyal
February 21, 2025 at 10:50 pm
The thing that’s weird about the “Don’t want them to have male/female/other genders las friends” is that the couple are not tying the knot upon entering the relationship and getting shipped off to a remote island.
It’s just dating. The life either of them has built up till that point is not going to vanish all of a sudden. Live with it or leave. It’s simple.
@SmilezFrownz
February 21, 2025 at 11:58 pm
I need some advice. I’m in a wLw relationship and I’m monogamous. My gf just told me she thinks shes poly and wants a bf. I’m devastated and crushed. I keep searching for answers. What should I do? I’m trying to be understanding and read up about polyamorous relationships. I am aware that these dynamics exist but I can’t bring myself to do this. I don’t want to lose her. We want to get married and start a family. But she wants a man in our relationship and to be the father of our kids. I’m torn. Should I just do it and will learn to be comfortable with it? Or just end things?
@mcuBbluBB
February 22, 2025 at 2:13 am
How much time has passed, since she opend up about this? Have you told her, that her pursuing a relationship with a man/new person, could possibly result in you ending the relationship? If so, how did she react?
@siobhanhenry9094
February 22, 2025 at 12:08 am
Im so impressed by the insightfulness of the comments, when i was starting my degree this stuff wasnt common knowledge and it was very challenging to get people even remotely on the same page but now i see everyone being genuinely curious and insightful about relationships and the common dynamics
@thenosebleedkid
February 22, 2025 at 3:57 am
A truly excellent speaker – every answer was informative and succinct. Incredible.
@sarahrivers9623
February 22, 2025 at 4:58 am
13:40 I find this interesting because I will never not love my husband. I go through phases of not liking him but will always love him. He’s family at this point 😂
@Blafard666
February 22, 2025 at 6:50 am
28:27 its here. You are welcome.
@molloyjh
February 22, 2025 at 8:17 am
One of the best in the series so far.
@BossBellini
February 22, 2025 at 8:17 am
Ok, so she mostly listens and charges 700 USD/hour. I think something is seriously wrong.
@emmakinzian539
February 22, 2025 at 8:39 am
Never really got the whole “my partner can’t have opposite gender friends!” Like dude I’m bisexual, am i simply not allowed to have friends at all?
@ML-di8lt
February 22, 2025 at 9:05 am
Why does the person who wants space always win? Why is it never “you want space but your partner needs closeness so give them closeness instead of getting what you want right now”
@norabatungbacal6636
February 22, 2025 at 9:28 am
Do you know, you look just like our corrupt vice president of the Philippines Sarah Duterte? The similarities are uncanny.
@aria5527
February 22, 2025 at 10:55 am
My fav part was Dr. Guralnik reading the usernames
@unifromhokkaido
February 22, 2025 at 11:38 am
Internal weather? Is that a scientific term?
@bwooee
February 22, 2025 at 12:10 pm
Oh man, that question about emotional regulation is so relevant to my relationship.
My partner is quick to frustration (he likely has adhd) and when he gets loud or grumpy e.g. because he’s running late and has lost his keys again, i can find it very distressing. But he carries so much shame about it that it’s hard to have a conversation about it without him shutting down or getting defensive.
Very hard to find the line between being understanding of his emotions/ helping him avoid triggers, and slipping into trying to control his environment as a way to avoid my own discomfort or just neglecting my own emotions because i don’t want to shame him for his
@Daiyuki117
February 22, 2025 at 12:25 pm
Ok but does she have a successful marriage?
@andreav2175
February 22, 2025 at 1:59 pm
❤
@tutudsquishbo8381
February 22, 2025 at 3:38 pm
The clickbait title card question was saved for the second to last one.
Yall can skip to that one
@eiaboca1
February 22, 2025 at 3:44 pm
I really like thinking of emotion and the world around as the weather! You largely can’t control the moment to moment flow of these things.
@vvvvaaaacccc
February 22, 2025 at 10:09 pm
23:30 I think that this characterization of parenthood is a bit too sympathetic. we can take care of others and feel good about it without passing on our genetic material, and I would love to see more of it. the compulsion to create new humans in our own image can be a bit twisted and selfish.
@deec3561
February 22, 2025 at 10:39 pm
This lady has no idea what she’s talking about
@Rezzims
February 22, 2025 at 11:38 pm
2:21 the commenter is right. Everyone knows if male has female friends that problems and feelings will initiate. It’s not control it’s security for the sake of the relationship. Men and women cannot be friends.
@Rasphigi
February 23, 2025 at 11:35 am
How would you deal with evidence to dispute your claim?
@FreeRangeBunnies
February 23, 2025 at 6:46 am
If you have time and energy to fantasize then you are not pulling your weight!
@Ran-c7d
February 23, 2025 at 8:41 am
1:56 wow that’s so validating
@KgoshiInama
February 23, 2025 at 8:52 am
Thanks for being so open bro. I think I might also start taking this YT this seriously but I’ve always been scared
@petermeter4304
February 23, 2025 at 9:18 am
22:23 why is the timestamp of the question labelled “how about you check your ego and take some feedback, buddy?” 😂
Girl who edited the video got some bad experiences?
@madelynecuaselppa351
February 23, 2025 at 10:32 am
this person was very soft spoken, even at full volume I couldn’t hear her.
@OmegaSeraphim
February 23, 2025 at 11:06 am
why is it that most women who go to therapy state that they feel worse after going?
@Rasphigi
February 23, 2025 at 11:33 am
What evidence, other than your own anecdotal evidence, do you have to support this claim?
@OmegaSeraphim
February 23, 2025 at 11:38 am
@Rasphigi i can’t submit to you all the facebook, tik tok, and youtube public diaries that these women post.
@raleighnoel
February 23, 2025 at 11:32 am
The fact that men don’t realize they also have a hormonal cycle, is a complete failure in the school system. How about track your own cycle
@Jigglypowerpuffgirl
February 23, 2025 at 11:37 am
The truth isn’t whatever comes to your mind. And people who are brutally honest enjoy the brutality just as much as the honesty.
@Rasphigi
February 23, 2025 at 11:46 am
Yes! It’s such a defensive strategy to hide behind the fact that your words are causing harm to others because you’re not being intentional about what you’re saying.
@Watch_over_us
February 23, 2025 at 12:39 pm
If the couple break up they stop coming back and paying those sweet sweet dollars
@Itwasonlytime
February 23, 2025 at 2:04 pm
Bruh the menstrual cycle question 😂
@lesleywhelan5904
February 23, 2025 at 2:07 pm
She’s Great!
@henrypowell3496
February 23, 2025 at 2:09 pm
if you truly love someone unconditionally, you wont need a therapist
@Bloodyshinta1
February 23, 2025 at 2:19 pm
last question “facts aren’t important” holyshit this person needs to have their license revoked.
@MrPunisher2u
February 23, 2025 at 3:20 pm
I like your advice in general and I enjoyed watching your show. I do however find therapy itself to be a bit contradictive. There are times when an individuals personality and character when an issue arises should be considered, but there are other times a more idealistic point of view is the driver than viewing people as individuals. The flexibility should be there for every aspect in a relationships issues.
@evelynsoares3081
February 23, 2025 at 3:38 pm
I miss you Orna and Couples Therapy!! I want to see more seasons!! It was so nice to have you here ❤️
@olivetree9920
February 23, 2025 at 4:41 pm
26:20 she didn’t address a single aspect of that post
@SimpleModo
February 23, 2025 at 5:11 pm
Men and women cannot be friends. A trained psychologists should know this. Men only want to be reproductive with women whom they are friendly with.
@kateburcroff5209
February 23, 2025 at 6:33 pm
One thing I don’t really agree with is her response to the ‘what do I do if my family doesn’t like my partner’ question. Just because your family doesn’t like someone, it doesn’t mean they’re jealous. Ask them why. Maybe your family sees something you don’t, they may see red flags. They might see controlling behavior or something that you don’t because you’re starry eyed. I know some people have crazy families who are jealous or bitter and will try to break you up, but always ask for an explanation. It might be a good one that saves you a lot of heartache later on.
@Blondiee777
February 23, 2025 at 7:48 pm
Ugh when I questioned a guy I was dating over his female best friend, I got dumped and suddenly they got together. Then she dumped him 6 months later for her ex so i heard. So no sorry, no female friends and I don’t do male friends either.
@rubenlopez8591
February 23, 2025 at 8:24 pm
I do think there should be limitations in relationships, like sacrifical love. Bc when I get married I will not be trying to have friends whi are girls that my wife doesnt kniw. Bc the many stories if affairs even when they never thought they would. Limitations, like boundaries showcases respect and honor to her