Relationship expert Amy Chan believes we’re in a “relationship recession,” fueled by modern daters constantly looking for what could go wrong. But what if your dealbreakers are the very thing keeping love out? In this relatable talk, she reveals how to discover true connection — and why the right person for you might not be who you expect.
(Recorded at TEDxVancouver on March 8, 2026)

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