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   @jmsl_910

   September 26, 2026 at 4:16 pm

   i don’t have a structural issue! i have standards. i’d rather be alone then with someone who is annoying, antagonistic or in someway not aligned w my deeply held values.

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     @gamemode_cat6606

     September 26, 2026 at 9:13 pm

     If one person fails to meet your standards, that’s an issue with that person. If every person fails to meet your standards, that’s an issue with your standards.

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     @katebevrijdt

     September 26, 2026 at 9:58 pm

     @gamemode_cat6606 if relationship issues are a widespread societal crisis, maybe their standards are just fine.

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     @jmsl_910

     September 26, 2026 at 11:55 pm

     @gamemode_cat6606100% agree! i have a nice circle of friends–from all different eras of my life 💚

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     @Ramblin_Jack

     September 27, 2026 at 4:17 pm

     @katebevrijdt “relationship issues” aren’t the societal crisis, the societal crisis is that people don’t *have* relationships at all.

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   @CraigClarke13

   September 26, 2026 at 4:51 pm

   This is reminiscent of the Gottman’s notion of “bids for connection” and noticing them in our people

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   @leilafoxymomma

   September 26, 2026 at 5:26 pm

   I think there may be too many distractions. I’m 61 years old, but of course when I came up back in the day,
   there were other issues, but people talked to each other more…..verbally

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   @gojo-q5j3x

   September 26, 2026 at 5:30 pm

   ❤❤❤❤❤❤

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   @Dodger6735

   September 26, 2026 at 5:37 pm

   I’m very set in my routine. Log on for work between 8 and 9, work for 9 hours and often have a nap afterwards. Saturdays are my “me” time and then i have Sunday for chores. I don’t really have time or energy to foster those connections. I’ve got some friends i knew back in school i still talk to and play video games with, but in person interactions are lacking both due to time and geography. Also part of the reason i don’t have a boyfriend

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     @CSGJSZ

     September 26, 2026 at 6:17 pm

     @Dodger6735 It’s a dangerous business going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don’t keep your feet, there’s no knowing where you might be swept off to

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     @user-uy8xf9tm5h

     September 27, 2026 at 6:16 pm

     I totally understand that it’s really hard to make the time when work and life responsibilities are too much!

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     @user-uy8xf9tm5h

     September 27, 2026 at 6:16 pm

     ⁠🥰

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   @GodofEgyptYt

   September 26, 2026 at 5:44 pm

   I’d be your friend 😍🤗🫶🏽😅

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   @JaneensInstrumentals

   September 26, 2026 at 6:17 pm

   Friendship is so important and needed ❤

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8. 

   @YUKO0709

   September 27, 2026 at 4:22 am

   🌎ブラックホール🌎

   ブラックホールが活動銀河核である「クエーサー（Quasar）」をも飲み込む（銀河の衝突やブラックホール同士の合体として起こる）現象は、宇宙の進化において実際に存在します。では、ご質問の 「origin（起源・原点）」 が何を指すかによって、それが呑み込まれるかどうかの答えは異なります。
   1. クエーサーや超巨大ブラックホールの「祖先・起源（Seed / Progenitor）」
   初期宇宙でクエーサーの原動力となった「シードブラックホール（初期の小さなブラックホール）」やその母体となるガス雲などは、宇宙の階層的進化の過程で、より巨大な重力を持つブラックホールに引き寄せられ、次々と飲み込まれ（合体し）て成長します。この文脈における origin（起源となる初期天体）は、まさにブラックホールの巨大化の歴史の中で呑み込まれる側にあります。
   2. 空間の「座標の原点」や中心の「特異点」
   数学的・物理的な「原点（origin）」の場合、その性質によって捉え方が異なります。
   * 座標の原点： 人間が数理モデル上でどこに設定しても自由なものであるため、ブラックホールの中心や事象の地平面の内側に設定することは可能です。しかし、座標系は人間の定義にすぎないため、物理的に「呑み込まれる」という実体はありません。
   * 物理的な中心（特異点 r=0）： 一般相対性理論における時空の特異点は、外部から「呑み込まれるもの」ではなく、ブラックホールの内部に行き着いた物質や光がたどり着く終着点です。特異点自体がさらに別のブラックホールに呑み込まれるというよりは、すべての物理量や情報が飲み込まれて破綻する限界点として存在します。
   3. 「宇宙全体の起源（ビッグバン）」
   もし「origin」が宇宙の始まり（ビッグバン）を指すのであれば、ブラックホールはあくまで「私たちの宇宙の内部に存在する局所的な天体」に過ぎないため、宇宙の起源そのものを呑み込むことはできません。ただし、量子重力理論やループ量子重力理論などの一部の仮説（ブラックホール内部から新しい子宇宙が誕生するというシナリオなど）では、ブラックホールの中心を抜けた先が「新たな宇宙の起源」につながっているのではないかという議論がされることもあります。Sara Landryが言ったお風呂の暗闇（低次元人間の心の声）がそれぞれの闇を作り、太陽光を消失している。お風呂には排水口があり給湯器とAIがある。低次元人間はAIより次元が低い。AIは4次元以上となるので地球由来の魂の人間で star seed由来の魂の人間は別である。

   🌎 Black Holes 🌎

   The phenomenon of black holes consuming active galactic nuclei known as “quasars” (which occurs during galactic collisions or mergers of black holes) actually exists in the evolution of the universe. However, the answer to your question about what “origin” refers to will determine whether it can be consumed or not.
   1. **The “Ancestors/Origins (Seed/Progenitor)” of Quasars and Supermassive Black Holes**
   The “seed black holes” (early small black holes) and the gas clouds that powered quasars in the early universe are attracted to larger black holes with greater gravity during the hierarchical evolution of the universe, and they are successively consumed (merged) to grow. In this context, the origin (the initial celestial bodies that serve as the origin) is indeed on the side that gets absorbed within the history of black hole growth.
   2. **The “Coordinate Origin” or Center’s “Singularity” in Space**
   In the mathematical or physical sense, the interpretation of “origin” varies based on its nature.
   – **Coordinate Origin:** Since humans are free to set any location on a mathematical model, it is possible to set the center of the black hole or the inside of the event horizon as the origin. However, since the coordinate system is merely a human definition, there is no physical entity that is “consumed.”
   – **Physical Center (Singularity r=0):** The singularity in general relativity is not something “absorbed” from the outside; it is the final destination where matter or light ends up after reaching the interior of the black hole. Rather than the singularity itself getting consumed by another black hole, it exists as a limit point where all physical quantities and information are swallowed and break down.
   3. **The “Origin of the Entire Universe (Big Bang)”**
   If “origin” refers to the beginning of the universe (the Big Bang), then black holes are merely “local celestial bodies existing within our universe,” and cannot consume the origin of the universe itself. However, in some hypotheses, such as quantum gravity theories or loop quantum gravity, there are discussions suggesting that the center of a black hole may lead to the “origin of a new universe,” such as scenarios where new child universes are born from within black holes.
   As Sara Landry mentioned, the darkness of the bath (the voices of lower-dimensional humans) creates each darkness and causes the sunlight to disappear. The bath has a drainage outlet, a water heater, and an AI. Lower-dimensional humans exist at a lower dimension than AI, while AI exists in four dimensions or more. Therefore, humans with earth-origin souls and those with souls from star seeds are distinct.

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   @3TinTinTin

   September 27, 2026 at 5:48 am

   I think we all mourn the difference between childhood friendships and adult friendships

   It’s easier to make peer relations in tight knit circumstances based on proximity and equality (like schools, universities even certain jobs like the military)

   But the nature of those relationships change as they age, a big part of that is distance but also (often) we become more dissimilar if we are experiencing different life events.

   Whether that be a change in financial situation, becoming a parent, having jobs with varying responsibilities and pressures. And hence why it’s easier to keep friendships with people who are close, economically no different than you, have as much free time as you, have similar family structures

   The biggest problem is it’s easy to lose friends you don’t stay in contact with, but making new friends as an adult requires far more effort to bridge the gaps between you and a stranger mostly from the context. Which is why it might be easier to make friends at a workplace or a music festival than say a bar or supermarket

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     @themasstermwahahahah

     September 27, 2026 at 4:27 pm

     @3TinTinTin +

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     @gamemultiplier1750

     September 28, 2026 at 6:08 am

     +

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    @mma.895

    September 27, 2026 at 6:14 am

    What makes one a friendship expert?

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    @ghostathan

    September 27, 2026 at 7:53 am

    It’s very hard to have energy to reachbout to my friends often. like i have nothing to say and i hate apologizing for it. so I just send them emojis every once ina. while to let them know i still thibk of them and that its still cool to talk to me if they want to. so far its worked out great.

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    @mcmuinorac5848

    September 27, 2026 at 9:33 am

    Mine is structural in nature. Not for lack of trying either. I find many many people willing to be my friend, but unfortunately not many of them make quality friends, so I have extremely few of them.

    (This is different than what I experienced 7 years ago, as it appeared that the relationships formed were a lot more substantial. However, things happened once the pandemic started where I broke down mentally and could not hold on to any of those connections, thus needing to start building an inner circle from scratch.)

    But the environments I’m in now seem like quality friend deserts, so I’ll just resort to trying to find them online.

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    @K4R3N

    September 27, 2026 at 12:20 pm

    Long time ago we used to just get married after college. That’s how we solved it back in the day. Don’t stay single forever. Don’t miss your “marriage window”

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      @flowerheit4512

      September 27, 2026 at 1:35 pm

      @K4R3N then grow to resent your spouse and get divorced when youre 50? solid plan.

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      @user-uy8xf9tm5h

      September 27, 2026 at 6:20 pm

      Yes, getting married too young and staying in a terrible marriage is absolutely the solution to friendship. 🤦‍♀️

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    @Ramblin_Jack

    September 27, 2026 at 4:10 pm

    I’m always the one initiating and it’s exhausting. I’ve asked friends and they admit that they are afraid to initiate conversations with others and have few friendships, and feel “relieved” that I take the “role” of initiator in our friendship. It’s not reciprocal, but I’ve tried branching out and making new friends and I seldom meet people who aren’t paralysed by the anxiety of starting conversations. I blame the trend of “frictionless design” in tech, I notice there isn’t as much anxiety for friends of mine from older age groups than myself who didn’t grow up with social media and cell phones, people have become intolerant of extremely minor social stressors and are afraid to take up space or make the first move.

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      @user-uy8xf9tm5h

      September 27, 2026 at 6:18 pm

      Yes, this exactly!

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    @RageKge

    September 27, 2026 at 6:02 pm

    I dont like people .. they dont like me the more people in my life the more complicated it became so I eliminated everyone from it

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    @user-uy8xf9tm5h

    September 27, 2026 at 6:14 pm

    It can be really hard to reach out to people. Especially if you don’t see them that often. It’s so much easier if you can just show up places and your friends are there and if you see people more regularly you can plan time with them. Texting someone to catch up and hang out is really hard to do especially if you don’t have time.

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    @ThOmAs.tomtom

    September 28, 2026 at 1:21 am

    Covid put me out of a cabin crew job here in Australia and was forced to go into an industry where most people are partnered and doing their own thing. It’s really hard to connect with people because most of the time you’re just nothing more than a colleague.

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    @mariapeaceangel

    September 28, 2026 at 11:20 am

    I feel like social media has become more of a problem. We miss out on so much of our human connection wasting time on social media platforms. I know that we connect on some level in this way, but I think the interaction in person is so much more fulfilling. I am a full-time middle-aged student with a child with severe disabilities. My time is insanely limited. I can’t even tell you how much I miss that face-to-face interaction with my closest friends.

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