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How to Get People to Do What You Want | Barry Sonnenfeld | TED

As a film and television director, Barry Sonnenfeld had millions of dollars riding on his ability to get his cast and crew to play along — and much of what he learned along the way applies to everyday life. Here, he shares nine bits of wisdom and whimsy gleaned from 40 years in entertainment. So…

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As a film and television director, Barry Sonnenfeld had millions of dollars riding on his ability to get his cast and crew to play along — and much of what he learned along the way applies to everyday life. Here, he shares nine bits of wisdom and whimsy gleaned from 40 years in entertainment. So the next time you encounter a screaming bully, you too will know what to do. (Recorded at TED2025 on April 11, 2025)

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39 Comments

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    August 5, 2025 at 11:25 am

    How is the funniest TED Talk one from a leading Hollywood director?
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    August 5, 2025 at 3:42 pm

    Simple clear with jokes metaphors fantastic delivery of actionable every day wisdom, fighting our ego the biggest challenge THANKS 😊

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