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The Secret to Lasting Love | Eli J. Finkel | TED
Social psychologist Eli J. Finkel has spent decades studying what makes partnerships successful. In a practical talk drawing on lessons from pop culture, he explores why so many of us struggle to be true to ourselves in our relationships — and what the happiest couples do differently. (Recorded at TED2026 on April 16, 2026) Join…
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When there’s a whale, there’s a way
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For more than two decades, sleep health educator Lindsay Scola attributed her never-ending exhaustion to long hours and demanding jobs. When she was diagnosed with narcolepsy, she finally got the wake-up call that transformed her life. In this rousing talk, she discusses the epidemic of undiagnosed sleep disorders and encourages you to ask yourself: Is…
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@blessyGelJournal
October 19, 2026 at 11:06 am
🙌🏻🙌🏻👍🏻👍🏻✨💯
@BelievE-li
October 19, 2026 at 11:16 am
Love how this is beginning!
@MehjabinPriya-e8f
October 19, 2026 at 11:17 am
it’s a kind of personal issues and perspective, no matter how much world or different books try to explain it with definition, not all people will believe on marriage, child and so on! and people who think that, i need to talk with that certain person before i die, may be that’s persons muse of life!But that doesn’t mean all people will believe or felt that away!I don’t know from my adult time, it’s kinda complicated for me to believe on soul to soul connection! let’s say once i felt that that,than after that person i got issues to accept anyone like that!That doesn’t mean i hate others to see their partner or child! and for about love,this world actually believe on Money or business, there no love and soul to soul concept in real,It’s a lie! i’m in love with you, can be the most lie word in the world! It can be anything we find peace, it shouldn’t be any person to believe! and people who think, yeah yeah,how people live alone! ohh, common all people actually alone in their self side! after deaths that’s how we will be alone!So what’s the issue, if you accept and enjoy your life in your own away! 💙
@XX-lx4mr
October 19, 2026 at 1:54 pm
I don’t see a world full of honesty, commitment and love. I do see the opposite though
@MehjabinPriya-e8f
October 19, 2026 at 2:00 pm
@XX-lx4mrsame!
@h_a_n_s_i_l_u
October 19, 2026 at 11:49 am
loving kindness>love
@Xelastic
October 19, 2026 at 11:57 am
You know, when you really look at it, men and women aren’t these separate, rival forces trying to strike a deal. They’re really just two halves of the exact same living organism, built to function together. When a guy and a woman drop their armor and start building those little daily rituals and secret codes, they create a whole private world. Once that shared world takes root, doing right by each other isn’t some exhausting chore or loss of freedom. It’s literally just taking care of your own shared identity, because you’re both in the exact same boat. But when a person stays completely isolated and tries to run life on their own, everything gets totally out of whack. It’s like being a captain without a ship, or a boat drifting without a rudder—you’ve got all this hardware, but zero direction. Without that partner or purpose to anchor you to real life, your mind just turns inward and starts picking itself apart. You end up stuck in your own head, tracking every move and building heavy armor against threats that aren’t even there. But the moment you link up and build that shared reality, all that internal friction disappears, and you finally start actually navigating life together.
@XX-lx4mr
October 19, 2026 at 1:53 pm
Except ninety percent of one group can always get what they want and only about twenty percent of the other group can
@Xelastic
October 19, 2026 at 1:56 pm
@XX-lx4mragreed, perhaps I’m talking about some utopian world where both parties understand this and act on it equally.
@XX-lx4mr
October 19, 2026 at 2:00 pm
@Xelastic People do win the lottery, and even then they take half
@StoriesWithEvelynHart
October 19, 2026 at 12:03 pm
That Post-it note from Alison that you carried through a move a decade later — ‘to the outside world, looks trivial; from the inside, it’s sacred’ — that line will stay with me. My husband and I have our own ‘ditto,’ a lyric from a song we loved when we were young, and I never had a word for it until you said ‘lovemotif.’ Compatibility isn’t found, it’s built in tiny moments… what a comforting thought. Thank you for this one. 💛
@paulo1940
October 19, 2026 at 12:34 pm
I love the new perspective, and I am suprised with how you explained such a critical dilemma, and provided an answer to it. I am concerned about the oversimplification of it as I realize that sometimes, people’s priorities aren’t the relationship, as much as what they have been working to accomplish since their childhood, and maybe long distance didn’t cut it for them, so they would be better off starting from scratch wherever that new place may be, and because it isn’t a soulmates approach to relationships, they both can find someone else that can share a private world with them and mesh with them properly. I do see lovemotifs as a critical factor in every relationship that strenghtens their joint identity and makes every hardship an us against the problem kind of situation
@drumbum3.142
October 19, 2026 at 12:35 pm
– There’s (Many times, perhaps) More to it than this, but Give A Damn. ❤️🔥🤝🫂❤️🔥
@newyorkian889
October 19, 2026 at 12:49 pm
took us a minute but im glad we finally discovered how love works!
@Themoonrainbow
October 19, 2026 at 1:19 pm
This is such a beautiful lesson.
I have created this with my two daughters and dad.
Bless your heart Eli J. Finkel
@XX-lx4mr
October 19, 2026 at 1:33 pm
If you’re a guy, it’s just your turn. No matter how above the standard you are, how many bills you pay, how many sacrifices you make, how important you make her and the relationship, she’s going to move on. She’s going to put those dms above you, above the relationship, above her kids, above the life she’s going to cry about when she loses it. There’s always a guy in their dms. And there’s always a point and time they give in. You can be perfect; they would make that the problem. They’ll find some excuses that puts their self-righteous behavior on you instead of them. And will probably push your kids against you with lies (because her actions aren’t about to be her fault). And if you do make it till the end, you want to know the difference between the sexes after one passes? I bet you don’t. I’m tried of seeing my friends left heart broken, and tossed like scrap. I got out years ago. Quit being door mats for these women. If they want to commit, let them. But if you see you’re anything less than a human to them, a dk, a benefactor, a babysitter… then give up your feelings, your turn is over. Hope you haven’t invested too much. And with America, it’s hilarious. They whine and complain and self-righteous, deceptive politicians and ceos like they’re not the same birds of feather.
@Sudhanva_0
October 19, 2026 at 1:34 pm
Beautifully explained 👏👏👏
@CEREVITY
October 19, 2026 at 3:06 pm
The La La Land read is sharp. That relationship didn’t fail for lack of love. It failed because in every me-versus-us moment, the “us” never got a vote. Driven couples do this all the time, treating each career move as a solo decision and then wondering where their private world went.
@amachtinger
October 19, 2026 at 3:47 pm
Wow, so profound. Thanks
@AdityaMehendale
October 19, 2026 at 5:29 pm
Also very useful against scammers and AI-slop.
@RicardoCarvalho_1996
October 19, 2026 at 6:14 pm
Correlation doesn’t equal causation, the fact lovemotifs are associated with relationship happiness doesn’t mean one causes the other, it’s just as possible they are both the result of something else
@LoveFactorySweatShop
October 19, 2026 at 8:32 pm
This isn’t Tim Roth?