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You Don’t Actually Know What Your Future Self Wants | Shankar Vedantam | TED

“You are constantly becoming a new person,” says journalist Shankar Vendantam. In a talk full of beautiful storytelling, he explains the profound impact of something he calls the “illusion of continuity” — the belief that our future selves will share the same views, perspectives and hopes as our current selves — and shows how we…

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“You are constantly becoming a new person,” says journalist Shankar Vendantam. In a talk full of beautiful storytelling, he explains the profound impact of something he calls the “illusion of continuity” — the belief that our future selves will share the same views, perspectives and hopes as our current selves — and shows how we can more proactively craft the people we are to become.

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78 Comments

  1. Rita Taylor

    October 24, 2022 at 2:58 pm

    Awesome 👌

  2. Akif Muhammed

    October 24, 2022 at 3:10 pm

    This message will be more understood by experienced people in Life.

  3. Anna Dobysh

    October 24, 2022 at 3:45 pm

    Wow, it’s such a gripping speach. I heard lots of others advice, but yours are the most thought-provoking. To expand our horizon we should be curious, convey humility and be brave. Actually, it doesn’t sound so difficult, we can change our lifestyle in accordance with you piece of advice. Let’s see what happens after 5 years. Thank you!

  4. Chandra Tyler

    October 24, 2022 at 4:01 pm

    You are one of the most brilliant people I have ever met. I first met you when I picked up your book “The Hidden Brain” by accident and started to read it. Immediately I loved your style of writing and I deduced that you were incredibly brilliant. Today by accident I watched your Ted Talk and was indeed very ecstatic to see you in person, just like I imagined you would look like. Thank you for being the person you are and sharing with us.

  5. Alexis P

    October 24, 2022 at 4:03 pm

    I lived on my own for a decade ..the impact of COVID 19 and Coup d’etat
    I moved in with my parents …..
    I somehow feel I hate it I have to live esp with my dad someone who is very a very judgmental on everything I do.
    I want to move out as soon as possible. But I don’t want to leave my mom here .Will my future self say I have to bear with the situation and try to enjoy the time you have left with your dad and Mom…..but now it pains me to live with those who are so much important to me see me so small .

  6. metta8

    October 24, 2022 at 4:13 pm

    I wish the supreme court would listen to this.

  7. igol aguila

    October 24, 2022 at 4:41 pm

    We know Ship of Theseus because of Vision.

  8. Amirreza Shakori

    October 24, 2022 at 4:50 pm

    Finally some high quality ted talk to watch. Really enjoyed this one.

  9. entrepreneur mindset 🧠

    October 24, 2022 at 4:55 pm

    🇮🇳 India’s biggest festival today Deepawali, Happy Diwali to all of you from my side! 🥰🥰🤩🤩

  10. Christann Chanell

    October 24, 2022 at 5:45 pm

    Beautiful Wisdom.
    Be Curious.
    Practice Humility
    Be Brave!

    I am grateful! ✨

  11. Young's Discovery

    October 24, 2022 at 5:55 pm

    That’s a life lesson.

  12. Atreyee Chakraborty

    October 24, 2022 at 6:14 pm

    Woww🙏🌈

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  13. Areeb Irshad

    October 24, 2022 at 6:51 pm

    One of the most thought-provoking, well-presented and well-crafted TED talks out there!

  14. None believing Believer

    October 24, 2022 at 7:09 pm

    CAP this man hasn’t met star celebrities. They knew they were gonna be great from a specific moment… And they became famous

  15. WhiteSpatula

    October 24, 2022 at 8:11 pm

    Very well said. This is why I believe it is not appropriate to take pride in the deeds of our ancestors without also feeling ashamed of their misdeeds. Or better yet, refrain from both of these vicarious practices and instead honor them by learning from their mistakes. Because our ancestors lacked enough foresight, as we can clearly see in hindsight, to imagine how different we could and would become, we should take care to bequeath to our progeny opportunities instead of boundaries: think, political term limits instead of oxymoronic lifetime incumbencies; temporary laws to be compulsorily and periodically redrafted instead of edicts and mandates; arterials broad enough to accommodate traffic we have yet to conceive of instead of channels constructed for the purpose of preferential profit alone; as well as properly humble and honest distinctions between axioms, observations, hypotheses, and facts.

  16. Ehmed Qadêrpûr

    October 24, 2022 at 8:25 pm

    This is a good one!

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  17. maab maab

    October 24, 2022 at 10:21 pm

    That’s very mind blowing

  18. Abdel

    October 24, 2022 at 11:08 pm

    I really enjoyed this video. It’s something I had been thinking a bit about lately, and even more after watching Dark.

  19. Fuzzy Green

    October 24, 2022 at 11:14 pm

    That was a good one. If you have ever come across comments you wrote on youtube, or in a journal, or elsewhere from 10+ years ago, you know exactly what this guy is talking about. I sometimes stumble on such previously written messages, that no longer align with my thinking at all. It’s a strange thing, that my digital ghost and I are not the same, or at least we have significant differences psychologically.

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  20. StiX

    October 25, 2022 at 12:03 am

    Love listening to Shankar.

  21. ESL with Tas- Tasnim Salah

    October 25, 2022 at 12:06 am

    I highly recommend his podcast Hidden Brain! It makes my boring long commute to work way more interesting. 🎧💬

  22. Marta Tavera

    October 25, 2022 at 12:10 am

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  23. Erda Dz

    October 25, 2022 at 12:10 am

    So relatable & i felt touched😢❤ Thank you to my old self for not giving up❤❤

  24. Jamie Cecilie Lange

    October 25, 2022 at 12:59 am

    At first when I saw the title, I was a bit sceptical, since I thought of very basic things. I still want money and I still want good food. There are a lot of changes in my life I didn’t see coming though.

    When I was younger, I hated school, and people who had normal jobs seemed exhausted all the time, so I wanted a ‘fun’ job: I wanted to become a musician. I had to realize that it wasn’t actually as fun as I thought, and money was difficult to earn too. Then I went in the direction of graphic design and I had a bit more luck with that, but creating for others just wasn’t any fun at all, and I dislike talking to people too.

    I sought out information on my other options (since I was poorly informed,) and chose a horticulture tradeschool education. It is not perfect, but I’m definitely going in a better direction now.

  25. Meg Christensen

    October 25, 2022 at 2:23 am

    this is one of the best TED talks i’ve seen

  26. Maths 26

    October 25, 2022 at 2:51 am

    I share this comment: “Yes, we change.But we also have history to lead us in the right direction.Blind trust is toxic.Dont repeat the mistakes of the past.”

  27. Chess games

    October 25, 2022 at 2:57 am

    Thank you

  28. Zachary Mao

    October 25, 2022 at 3:16 am

    that was an amazing talk. Be curious, Be brave. Practice Humility

  29. Alfred Fischer

    October 25, 2022 at 3:33 am

    I HAVE INCURRED SO MUCH LOSSES TRADING ON MY OWN…I TRADE WELL ON DEMO BUT I THINK THE REAL MARKET IS MANIPULATED… CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT OR AT LEAST TELL ME WHAT I’M DOING WRONG ?

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  30. smdanny1

    October 25, 2022 at 4:25 am

    Im now a new person after watching this 🥰🥰🥰

  31. Shuqb

    October 25, 2022 at 4:53 am

    Oh, man! Great talk. I just begin to listen to podcast. And it’s a surprise that the man I listen to most frequently delivered such a wonderful talk!

  32. rasha al

    October 25, 2022 at 5:03 am

    That is JUST AMAZING!! Thank you so much for sharing ❤

  33. Alve Grande

    October 25, 2022 at 5:19 am

    bruh opened my mind on infinite possibilities

  34. Hank Bowman

    October 25, 2022 at 7:09 am

    Today and tomorrow is different

  35. brick pid

    October 25, 2022 at 7:09 am

    I really love this inspiring talk,
    also Shankar’s podcast Hidden Brain is great.

  36. ψ Ɖǟʀӄηεζζ ψ

    October 25, 2022 at 8:12 am

    Such a profound talk .. wow

  37. АV Bolt

    October 25, 2022 at 8:32 am

    There was an urgent need for a such idea in me before!
    I was afraid of my own ambiguity in the field of interests! Back in a school a dreamed of one thing in college time of another! And that tremendously simple idea of remembering of my future self eliminates that fear and clears up almost everything!

  38. Abhishek Agrawal

    October 25, 2022 at 10:40 am

    Amazing talk & amazing thaught.
    I always used to think that, the things that I wanted in the past, why don’t I want them now.
    You have answered that question wonderfully.

  39. Centameta

    October 25, 2022 at 10:52 am

    Remarkable coincidence, Hidden Brain is not hidden anymore. Great topic, excellent touch by Shankar Vedantam. Future myself should thank me. Today is our past, let’s change it.

  40. Cabdullaahi Bootaan

    October 25, 2022 at 3:08 pm

    Where he put “Thank you” is another level. Thanks Shankar.

  41. Ed Arm

    October 25, 2022 at 3:47 pm

    How can you craft your future self if you don’t know what your future self is going to be 😂😂 very puzzling isn’t it?
    What’s the take away?
    Be curious, humble and brave – great qualities, but not good advice.
    I would give him credit for naration skills.

  42. Mia

    October 25, 2022 at 3:56 pm

    This is gold 😍😍😍😍🌹🌹🌹🌹

  43. Lamonro

    October 25, 2022 at 4:45 pm

    Yeah tou absolutely right!
    Everyone person need to understand all these things, because it is at least important.

  44. RAJAN SAHU

    October 25, 2022 at 5:39 pm

    Nice

  45. Rocco6161

    October 25, 2022 at 6:28 pm

    This one gets millions of views

  46. DM KINGDOM'S GAMING

    October 25, 2022 at 7:12 pm

    💯💯💥

  47. Vale Franco

    October 25, 2022 at 8:07 pm

    I needed to hear this today! Thank you

  48. John BEE

    October 25, 2022 at 9:59 pm

    A very interesting talk. And a talk that makes one think. I love it. I have long tried to not fix time and space, for those two things are constantly changing. I did not consider that it was also myself that would be a different person in the future – thank you ever so much for opening my mind further.

  49. Nada

    October 25, 2022 at 11:01 pm

    When will you talk about the real TEDDI and LO?

  50. Doug Pham Texas

    October 26, 2022 at 3:25 am

    WOW i was down and thought i was heading towards the wrong road……and after listening to this …..HE IS SPOT ON…….GOD SENT HIM TO ME at this moment…I NEEDED THAT …THANK YOU SHANKER VEDENTAM

  51. Silent boy

    October 26, 2022 at 3:36 am

    Great session sir ❤😍🤗

  52. ivlivs.c

    October 26, 2022 at 4:48 am

    youtube needs more of this. society needs more of this. beautiful.

  53. Dancing Alone wRentals

    October 26, 2022 at 10:51 am

    Makes good sense. I hope my future self likes doing dishes.

  54. Tech Champ

    October 26, 2022 at 11:27 am

    message was a W

  55. Miggy Caido

    October 26, 2022 at 1:58 pm

    Wow

  56. Бижан Садвакасов

    October 26, 2022 at 6:37 pm

    Be brave👍

  57. waqar ahmad

    October 26, 2022 at 7:51 pm

    That’s why I can’t decide what I want actually 😂 because the thing that I am craving for today I might hate that tomorrow.

  58. Nada

    October 26, 2022 at 8:18 pm

    Why are you connected to LO and other false reality propaganda?

  59. Exethanter

    October 26, 2022 at 11:49 pm

    Captivating story: ✅
    Compelling problem statement: ✅
    Backed by science: ✅
    Actionable insights: ✅

    “You’re going to be a different person sooner than you think. So you might as well be in charge of who you’re going to be.”

    Not often do I find a TED talk that gave me chills and lit a fire inside of me at the same time. Saved this in the hope that my future selves will go back to it from time to time.

  60. mentallandstreet

    October 27, 2022 at 12:44 am

    💚💚💚💚💚

  61. José Polanco C.

    October 27, 2022 at 12:46 am

    Nice to see Shankar on TED, I’m a huge Podcast listener and It’s all because of Hidden Brain, Shankar shape my taste for all the pods I listen to, he delivers thought provoking questions, Hidden Brain is full of good research and amazing guests!

  62. Donald Frederick

    October 27, 2022 at 1:27 am

    I haven’t changed. Was isolated and had suicidality years before the pandemic, during it, and now… Only change is burning the remaining social bridges from back then, which weren’t large to big with. Yeah, I get, Ted Talks are meant for those already existing.

  63. Tsz Wing Chiu

    October 27, 2022 at 4:05 am

    It is one of the most inspiring video I watched. It tells us how reality is and how we can do better in live, but we aren’t doing it consistently. Thx for the advice

  64. Serena Chen

    October 27, 2022 at 10:16 am

    I love this TED so much. Believing myself could be the one I wanna be, cause everyday I am changing 💪

  65. Fotter

    October 27, 2022 at 10:56 am

    Couldn’t agree more with this. A wonderful talk.

  66. DutchQuan

    October 27, 2022 at 11:51 am

    Every day is a new day with unknown opportunities and unlimited changes which shape us today.

  67. Lab-Jerry

    October 27, 2022 at 12:11 pm

    Great speech! I remember a book, namely secret. future depend on considering your own!

  68. Anonymous Philosopher

    October 27, 2022 at 12:51 pm

    The concept of disliking our past selves hits home hard. Thank you. I needed to hear this.

  69. danhyoyo

    October 27, 2022 at 2:53 pm

    This will change me. Thank you.

  70. Esther Nantana

    October 28, 2022 at 1:05 am

    Enlightening

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