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When it comes to talking about money with your significant other, most of us … just don’t. But the fact is, if you share a life, you need to discuss your finances now, says behavioral scientist Wendy De La Rosa. She explains why and shares 3 tips to get you started. Managing your money can…
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February 3, 2021 at 1:00 am
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February 3, 2021 at 1:01 am
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February 3, 2021 at 1:01 am
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February 3, 2021 at 1:02 am
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February 3, 2021 at 1:02 am
just get a joint account for the expenses and keep private accounts for yourself…et voila!
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February 3, 2021 at 1:03 am
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February 3, 2021 at 1:04 am
Hello how are you..?
TheJumper
February 3, 2021 at 1:05 am
if women live longer then man they should have to work longer then them too
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February 3, 2021 at 1:11 am
That a strange conclusion
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February 3, 2021 at 1:25 am
damn female privileges!
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February 3, 2021 at 1:07 am
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PRAVEEN KUMAR
February 3, 2021 at 1:07 am
its not easy as you think it is.
I have tried it. How much ever I ask my partner to learn basic of finance, it never happens.
And also knowing my partner, If i happen to reveal 10% of what I have, the first demand will be to spend all that.
Sara Kaddar
February 3, 2021 at 1:12 am
She must see this video
J B
February 3, 2021 at 1:08 am
Mind your own bank account.
Artis ngapak
February 3, 2021 at 1:14 am
Thankyou
RedCapitalist
February 3, 2021 at 1:15 am
no money no talk
MountJoyPa
February 3, 2021 at 1:20 am
this has to be a Fake TED ; she talks Dumb, and I Learned Nothing.
Terry Wheelock
February 3, 2021 at 1:23 am
The solution to the “money” issue is, ….. GET A JOB so BOTH of you make enough money so it is NOT an issue! 😆😜👀👍😁🤣
Ryan Ambrose
February 3, 2021 at 1:23 am
Stay single guys, marriage is a bad deal for us.
Chulumanco Giyose
February 3, 2021 at 7:25 am
How do you begin having this conversation if one of you is unemployed or is an intern?
stormlord121
February 3, 2021 at 9:55 am
I think the 1st conversation starter could be very useful there: “What are your long term financial goals?”
That person is unemployed today, but tomorrow might get a job. That person is an intern today, but tomorrow might get a job so it is a good exercise to talk and see what that person would do IF they had access to money. You listen, you talk and you figure out your similarities and differences from there.
E con
February 4, 2021 at 6:56 am
Never be the comeup woman. Get someone established.
Chulumanco Giyose
February 4, 2021 at 7:12 am
@E con I’m the intern in the relationship which is just like being unemployed tbh because it’s a very short contract. He is established. I dont know how much ground I have to start this conversation when I’m the one who has a dependence on him
manfred schmalbach
February 4, 2021 at 9:00 am
@Chulumanco Giyose Simple answer: You are the one who has to start the conversation should You want to keep the relationship while feeling dependent. Feeling dependent while pretending somehow You aren’t (usual mistake today) does ruin Your relationship faster than You might think.
Do not pretend an independency You don’t have (that’s the biggest mistake feminists constantly make by the way) – talk openly about Your reality of feeling/being dependent and see how You both think about it, and feel about it. There’s no problem in having less money, the problem starts the moment You _pretend_ financial equality where there is none.
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February 3, 2021 at 7:53 am
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Nawroz Zahan Preety
February 3, 2021 at 8:20 am
WOW!
I had thought that it’s important to talk about how money should be spent ,
But never thought of these 3 most important questions. After getting hearing these 3 questions, I really feel that these questions sums up a lot of other questions and heads aboveboard to the goal. Thanks.
Ashish Deharia
February 3, 2021 at 9:33 am
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Kapil Dev Tiwari
February 3, 2021 at 9:38 am
Save More, Spend Less
xybp942
February 3, 2021 at 10:01 am
Nice try, ladies
you’re not finding out my wealth and targeting me
gold diggers aren’t getting “a dolla outta me” as fitty would say
E con
February 4, 2021 at 7:00 am
Yes, you should stay single
manfred schmalbach
February 4, 2021 at 9:08 am
@E con Nope, that’s not what he should. He should stay careful, probably as careful as experience has made him.
xybp942
February 4, 2021 at 11:08 am
@manfred schmalbach the worst date I ever had, the blonde sitting across from me asked me “what’s the most expensive thing you’ve ever bought” – blatant gold digger. Probably wouldn’t love her own father if he didn’t give her money.
Happily married now to a genuine and caring woman. We only talked about money after being together for about 4 years.
manfred schmalbach
February 4, 2021 at 12:02 pm
@xybp942 How nice that it seems to work out for You two. Have a nice day!
NizarShows
February 3, 2021 at 10:11 am
nice video
Дэльмурат Дэльмурат
February 3, 2021 at 10:16 am
Short and useful talk,thank you🤩
MrXenoOfficial
February 3, 2021 at 12:07 pm
Iguess that me and my partner never had to take the talk as we just share the information of the finance no matter what. It’s not hard to do to begin with. I guess most of this in the video is focused on the americans? It’s hard to see how it fits outside of US
Niffler At Heart
February 3, 2021 at 3:56 pm
Well, I don’t know where you are coming from but cultures outside of the states are quite different so I would think it could apply to many other people/cultures as well.
MrXenoOfficial
February 3, 2021 at 3:59 pm
@Niffler At Heart Well I’m from Denmark where it’s normal to share eco details when you’re with a person
Raunak Lanjewar
February 3, 2021 at 12:59 pm
Money is the first thing they talk about in Indian arranged marriages. Look at the divorce rate.
Namritha Maniyodath
February 3, 2021 at 4:49 pm
Indian arranged marriages have lower divorce rate because of the stigma of divorce and not because being open about finances.
Raunak Lanjewar
February 3, 2021 at 6:47 pm
@Namritha Maniyodath i know these factors exist. Like reputation and submission to societal thinking. But here,i was just wrote that to lighten the mood, as a joke ofcourse.
manfred schmalbach
February 4, 2021 at 9:12 am
@Namritha Maniyodath Western divorce rates decrease increasingly fast with the reasonable plummeting of marriage rates … not risking the wedding-mistake is the sensible decision in the actual situation western jurisdiction brought to male divorcees.
Akshay Varma
February 3, 2021 at 1:39 pm
yep, Mrs. Bezos would be proud.
Electro Cola
February 3, 2021 at 1:44 pm
MGTOW is also solution, don’t want to have any talks about my money
舞音manon
February 3, 2021 at 2:51 pm
I always study English in your video!
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February 4, 2021 at 4:01 am
Да, английский у неё шикарный!)
Sunny Bates
February 3, 2021 at 6:43 pm
Clear talk about money with your partner — and yourself is great for building trust. thanks Wendy and TED
Dark Soul
February 3, 2021 at 7:10 pm
If you live with somebody and don’t disclose the amount of money you have, it’s simple:
1. They love to spend too much and you’ll end broke 😅
2. No trust in the relationship.
If it’s 1, either consider if you’re just stingy and need to open your wallet a little bit, or if it’s possible to sustain such a relationship.
If it’s 2, hopeless
lindersi
February 3, 2021 at 7:42 pm
Now that sounds like a shitload of crap.
A M
February 3, 2021 at 8:31 pm
So where are the rest of the 10 conversation starters?
E con
February 4, 2021 at 7:10 am
Damn money videos really bring stingy men to the yard…
manfred schmalbach
February 4, 2021 at 9:19 am
Define “stingy” in that context …?
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February 4, 2021 at 9:03 am
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February 4, 2021 at 12:55 pm
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Jan Tißler
February 4, 2021 at 11:08 pm
Great video. I personally recommend YNAB, because it changes how you think about your money. It is not just budgeting. It is a whole system. For me it has been extremely helpful.
Prasad Birajdar
February 5, 2021 at 2:29 pm
Women outlive men because they don’t have to live with a woman.
Amu Uy
February 6, 2021 at 4:13 am
I’m just looking for the 7 other questions…
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February 7, 2021 at 9:35 am
that thing is always true ……..! How about you all ………?
rmns987
February 7, 2021 at 2:19 pm
I completely agree. My significant other has a crucial role in my spending. Just spends. lol
B.S
February 7, 2021 at 10:14 pm
Mostly the money talk is embarrassing
Buut the questions you suggest are really smart love them
Fam Fam
February 7, 2021 at 11:32 pm
Very little information or value
K S
February 11, 2021 at 12:23 am
Wells Fargo!!! Nooo…. don’t want to see that name anywhere I’m disliking this video because of that. Don’t put Wells Fargo anywhere next to people’s money.
Cassia Chloe
February 11, 2021 at 11:15 am
Why did she point out that woman outlive men? Her assumption men will have the key financial control as opposed to women in the relationship is stupid and outdated.
MsOnTopOfTheWorld
February 21, 2021 at 12:05 pm
In most parts of the world, it’s true; but you do make a point for a majority of white folks in the West.
Rob Hughes
February 11, 2021 at 12:37 pm
Interesting documentary on Netflix all about Wells Fargo … called “Dirty Money”
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February 14, 2021 at 12:24 am
BITCOIN. DEAL WITH IT.
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February 27, 2021 at 9:05 am
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David Adams
February 19, 2021 at 4:51 am
The trouble I’ve always found is that women tend to buy things (from joint funds) for the house, home or children and then claim that such purchases are from ‘both of us’. Then, when I want to buy something, it’s somehow just for me, making me out to be the spendthrift when I profoundly believe that we didn’t need a new rug, or set of curtains and the kids definitely didn’t need a new pair of trainers just because the old ones look tired and “Janis at school looked disparagingly at them last week”. Men and women _think_ differently and no amount of ‘talking that through’ is going to solve that*. Successful couples embrace their differences and don’t fight to change the other.
* _edit: nor does it need to be solved._
MsOnTopOfTheWorld
February 21, 2021 at 12:07 pm
Switch roles for a month and see if you can do a better job.
David Adams
February 21, 2021 at 12:24 pm
@MsOnTopOfTheWorld I think you kinda missed my point, but thank you for the comment.
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Mrs Wellness
February 21, 2021 at 10:58 am
We have a daily walk in which we discuss all kinds of things, and a lot of the time it is the three questions you listed. My advice to all couples is to never stop walking together – much safer space to discuss matters as sensitive as money
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Halil Halil
February 27, 2021 at 4:35 am
If you found your soulmate , you wouldn’t discuss the money or precious things . Soulmate meaning that is , Although you don’t have enough money to take or buy something for your partner , If you buy something makes her happy . It’s inevitably something for your partner . As long as I live with my wife , We’ll be happier than we think . Because we don’t live for money , appliances, tools or buying a home. We live each together for being happy on eart . 😊
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February 27, 2021 at 9:33 am
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Sample Name
March 3, 2021 at 4:40 pm
So according to the thumbnail in order to financially well off I just need to become 1/2 of an interracial hetero couple. Got it.
Adrian Bunea
March 4, 2021 at 6:38 pm
Considering that in the US, 50% of couples get divorced, and women initiate 80% of those , and in the majority of cases, they take your kids, your house, half of your money and income, I think the best thing is to never get in a position where you can lose your money to your partner, and keep your finances separate. You both have only your money, and you do your finances for your part only.
E con
March 5, 2021 at 4:27 pm
Don’t marry anyone please
Adrian Bunea
March 5, 2021 at 4:34 pm
@E con that’s what I’m suggesting, the current marriage system and family court in most European countries, and especially in America, is heavily biased against men, and encourages women to take advantage of it. Marriage is failing in all of these western countries and it shows. Men are already more and more reluctant to marry or even commit to a relationship.
Akhil 90s
March 5, 2021 at 5:38 pm
Me, who have zero bank balance and no job years after finishing college, watching this video.
Ricardo Charriez
March 6, 2021 at 1:40 am
Great video Wendy.
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March 11, 2021 at 10:12 am
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March 14, 2021 at 1:50 am
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