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@bishop51807
May 13, 2025 at 7:06 pm
Dating for women is like shopping at a crappy cheep discount store. Dating for men is like trying find a job in a recession.
@taint_misbehavin
May 13, 2025 at 7:21 pm
except in both those scenarios, people have control… over where they shop, and how they look for/prepare for the interview. yet most people keep going to k-mart expecting balenciaga, and showing up to the job interview in gym clothes. you get out what you put in
@MiracleMan9978
May 13, 2025 at 7:07 pm
It’s giving feminist
@paulstevenkelly
May 13, 2025 at 7:11 pm
“Sexuality professor”? Good grief. What a clown.
@tpop3723
May 13, 2025 at 7:15 pm
Considering how the dating environment is it would be nice if the female would sometimes reach out first to show interest.
@saltycrunch
May 13, 2025 at 7:22 pm
“the female” 🙄
@theworldbreakseveryone
May 13, 2025 at 7:46 pm
As a guy I’m gonna advise you to not use that word.. women usually don’t like it when you refer to them as “female”. Just be normal and call them women or ladies.
It gives creep incel kind of vibes.
@painaukemal
May 13, 2025 at 7:25 pm
So… we have “sexuality professors” now?
@Lee-fw5bd
May 13, 2025 at 8:46 pm
Yeah. They aren’t new. People have been battling with the “game” of dating, attraction, commitment, and marriage for a very long time
@kalo6661
May 13, 2025 at 7:30 pm
the man doesn’t need to put much in, except they have no say in whether the kid gets aborted or not most of the time, and they are almost always on the hook for child support for 18 years if the woman deems it so.
@theworldbreakseveryone
May 13, 2025 at 7:57 pm
It’s literally your fault for not wrapping it up 🤷♂️
@psyrolz1626
May 13, 2025 at 7:35 pm
Despite me having completely accepted that Im never going to play the dating game again, this was quite informative. It was fun.
I am fully aware of my shortcomings but, I no longer have the energy to deal with frustrations, deciphering codes and play a game that Im most certainly bound to lose.
@LadyButtStuff
May 13, 2025 at 7:46 pm
i love her look, especially the choice of the red sweater. it looks like she mixed metals in her rings too. très chic!
@lowbudgetmic
May 13, 2025 at 7:54 pm
Breeding apps 😮😮😮
@theworldbreakseveryone
May 13, 2025 at 7:58 pm
I wear an “I’m single” shirt when I go out sometimes and I get hit on usually when I do.
You people need to advertise your availability 🤷♂️
@Eric-lr3zj
May 13, 2025 at 8:01 pm
Ironic that this person is so dreadfully unattractive and with a grating personality.
@pooshpoosh9232
May 13, 2025 at 8:04 pm
situationship = gen z & millennial girl cope word for being someone’s “booty call”
@aleroxit
May 13, 2025 at 8:13 pm
Physical attraction never stops being important
@AYVYN
May 13, 2025 at 8:30 pm
Men say they like my jacket and women buy me drinks. I look like a potato.
@scottbaron121
May 13, 2025 at 8:30 pm
LOL! She makes it sound like it’s because men are “more aware” of making women “uncomfortable. COMPLETELY glossing over the fact that men are really quite tired of being ACCUSED of such things by women. ESPECIALLY in public (the gym, etc.) MGTOW is a THING for a reason.
@Virginiaa-n6i
May 13, 2025 at 8:38 pm
Looking forward to Dr. Z’s appearance in this show. She has been genuinely assisting people for a very long time 👏.
@aaroncooper4237
May 13, 2025 at 8:41 pm
The person doing the chapter titles has once again hit it out of the park. Please keep doing them this way, it’s so funny
@12thDecember
May 13, 2025 at 8:51 pm
So glad I’m done with all this. I had my fun decades ago and settled down into what is a basically predictable life. I can’t begin to imagine the stresses that young people go through now. They have to deal with rapidly evolving tech, the pervasive influence of social media, conflicting geopolitical messages, an incredibly uncertain financial future because things are changing so fast that nothing appears dependable as far as career choice. To be faced with all that and still try to find someone with whom you’re compatible and want to share your time with on an intimate level, whether it be temporary or permanent, is a challenge that prior generations were spared, for better or worse.
@avapatino6058
May 13, 2025 at 8:51 pm
Hot take. Ghosting is okay if you’ve had one date or less. Is it mature? No. But are some people creeps that you dont need to give any time to? Yes. Totally justified. You don’t owe anything to them.
@ToddJones-h1b
May 13, 2025 at 8:57 pm
Men aren’t approaching women anymore because it’s not worth the risk.
@PvtPartzz
May 13, 2025 at 8:57 pm
It’s not personal to be rejected? I mean sure, sometimes it truly isn’t but the other times it is and it is the most personal thing I can think of, being rejected because you weren’t good enough for them.
@warriorway5287
May 13, 2025 at 9:10 pm
Is it “Bam, wam” or “Wam, bam”?😮
@ToddJones-h1b
May 13, 2025 at 9:22 pm
You should figure out if you’re both into threesomes, or whatever, pretty early on.
@thanhnguyen-ht2zv
May 13, 2025 at 9:25 pm
is 3some the most common among femalle or just American in general
@NewNew-cp7wn
May 13, 2025 at 9:28 pm
This woman literally is simply beating arpund the bush.
@Missteree87
May 14, 2025 at 1:56 pm
That necklace… iykyk
@ArrowofDarkness
May 14, 2025 at 2:03 pm
This was a hetero-focused video and just a waste of time.
@prestonochsenhirt1246
May 14, 2025 at 2:11 pm
“Sexuality” expert? More like “hedonism” expert. Threesomes are a HORRIBLE idea! 100% of the time!
@factualopinion4275
May 14, 2025 at 2:50 pm
im 32 years old & still never been in a relationship. am I cooked?
@NotFourResale
May 14, 2025 at 5:02 pm
yes
@javojavojavojavo
May 14, 2025 at 3:24 pm
I don’t think flirting with strangers in real life will ever be normal to me haha. Living among strangers is not the way it has always been right?
@mediawolf1
May 14, 2025 at 3:30 pm
I’ve only ever heard the term f*ckboy used by women referring to a lover they keep around because he’s good in bed, but feel torn b/c he’s not long term relationship material.
@takamak4502
May 14, 2025 at 3:38 pm
Interestingly enough the last question was an eye opener for my life as a single man, i want it to be filled with more travel and activities and maybe, eventually find someone to share it with, but just maybe
@claudiacat4249
May 14, 2025 at 3:50 pm
I found this video very informative, thank you. It was very interesting hearing about multiple perspectives and the various social norms and standards one might need to be aware of now and then.
I personally have never experienced sexuality, so its helpful anytime I can get a few relatively objective opinions about whats going on in the allo world. I do wonder though, does she know about the ace spectrum? I suppose its irrelevant, I know who I am, this video was just meant to tell me about others. Anyways, thank again
@limaa222
May 14, 2025 at 3:58 pm
i want her to be my therapist
@lauracgc
May 14, 2025 at 4:01 pm
Soo thankful I met my husband in real life. If it ever ends, I’m becoming a bog witch.
@jsullivan2112
May 14, 2025 at 5:23 pm
Her answer about going with your gut is completely out to lunch. This sexuality “professor” knows next to nothing about physiology and should stick to what she knows, allegedly.
@LB-il3se
May 14, 2025 at 6:04 pm
Not gonna finish the video, right off the bat she encourages men approaching women on the street FFS.
@nubconnor
May 14, 2025 at 6:13 pm
first seconds man… dating apps show intent upfront as opposed to just organically hitting on people at coffee chops…
@michaelsaggio2767
May 14, 2025 at 6:16 pm
Oh girl please fill me in I’m confused
@Delectatio
May 14, 2025 at 6:17 pm
So, women would like the approaching to come back? – then approach guy, dummies
@violetgoesshopping
May 14, 2025 at 6:24 pm
not the most inclusive sculpture you could have chosen, wired!
@vanessaissa3577
May 14, 2025 at 6:44 pm
I hate when men approach me in public
@keithgraber
May 14, 2025 at 7:20 pm
I’m genuinely shocked that there wasn’t one question about age gaps.
@simon8katz
May 14, 2025 at 8:17 pm
Also, the sky is blue
@jackprice4959
May 14, 2025 at 8:36 pm
If rejection isn’t personal, what qualifies as personal?
@WhiskeyNixon
May 14, 2025 at 8:43 pm
1:00 Where are these ‘designated flirting areas’, and who decided upon this? May I designate an area for flirting? Why, or why not?
@marrionette234
May 14, 2025 at 8:46 pm
No one notices the vibrator necklace she’s wearing
@amertume_x
May 14, 2025 at 8:54 pm
“bam wham thank you maam” is the best thing i’ve heard of all day hahahaha
@Ghostrider-ul7xn
May 14, 2025 at 9:06 pm
Constant rejections and likelihood of false allegations are the main reason why men have stopped approaching women altogether. If you’re not the right “type” (which most of the time you’re not), you’re risking not just rejection, but ridicule, verbal abuse or even aggression in front of the public crowd. Which sane guy wants to put through that? Its a low benefit, high risk activity. Its low benefit cuz even if you get a positive interaction out of it, its not likely that it’ll culminate in a long term relationship or marriage.
@fredkrawczun5554
May 14, 2025 at 9:23 pm
I really would love to see a Dating Support part 2.👍
@haripatel1939
May 15, 2025 at 3:07 am
Super interesting but I feel this was very focused around heterosexual relationships
@Tob1Kadach1
May 15, 2025 at 8:29 am
Well most people are heterosexual
@necronicles
May 15, 2025 at 5:53 am
Next text support idea: Electrical Engineer! Bring ElectroBoom!
@dalegallacher7074
May 15, 2025 at 6:13 am
That’s the end of that relationship 😅
@MasterBathingBear
May 15, 2025 at 9:09 am
1:15 the good men that got the message have stopped. The men that made it a problem, have they stopped?
@FrostytheWicked
May 15, 2025 at 9:26 am
Wow…by making this statement you are clearly not “one of the good men”.
@flintwestwood3596
May 15, 2025 at 9:41 am
Rejection not personal? Rejection in this context is the very rejection of a person’s personhood. At least a job rejection is rejecting just a transactional skill set, not the whole person’s very being.
@yobogoya4367
May 15, 2025 at 9:59 am
I have to disagree with your definition of orbiting. It’s not that at all. An orbiter is some vulture sitting in the “on-deck circle” waiting for your relationship to tank, often times actively sabotaging your relationship, designated as the “friend you don’t have to worry about,” so he can use his “shoulder to cry on” to manipulate your woman into dating him instead.
@Richard-r2o4j
May 15, 2025 at 10:13 am
Well this question’s for women. Same scenario, same situation, same time. A guy flirts with you.
He looks like Brad Pitt. How do you feel?
He looks like Harvey Weinstein. How do you feel?
@Thatsclassicaly
May 15, 2025 at 10:44 am
I’ve seen game changer and that necklace looks familiar….
@ichigoclips98
May 15, 2025 at 1:45 pm
BAM WHAM THANK YOU MA’AM 😭😭✨️
@longlivedio3498
May 15, 2025 at 1:47 pm
Interesting
@0Midas0647
May 15, 2025 at 2:00 pm
In my experience ghosting is almost 100% of the time because the person doing the ghosting doesn’t want to have to actually explain themselves or provide any closure. It’s almost never a question of the recipient’s wants.
@averybell4273
May 15, 2025 at 2:13 pm
Yes, finding a date is easier for women, but getting to a relationship almost impossible
@henriquea.h.7449
May 15, 2025 at 2:48 pm
Okay, idk how these tech supports are actually produced, so no shade to the specialist… But this video felt incredibly straight-centric and a good chunk of the info felt surface-level and not really high value… Yikes
@killjoyredux8361
May 15, 2025 at 3:00 pm
Women don’t get what they are looking for because they are delusional in terms of their expectations because of the amount of options
@lavener100
May 15, 2025 at 4:14 pm
YES YES go with your gut. I’ve had some pretty bad relationship experiences and one of the things they’ve taught me is to actually listen to my gut. For me, I get a very clear tension above my navel when something is off. It was always there in the past when I got myself into bad situations, but I intellectualized it, ignored it, or just labeled it as anxiety. It didn’t help that I had some generalized anxiety and I couldn’t parse what was what. Now I know better and if someone gives me that feeling, even if they appear fine, I am OUT OF THERE!!! you gotta figure out your own signals for yourself through trial and error.
@arnezargarian4583
May 15, 2025 at 4:30 pm
As a man who is looking for a long term relationship and eventually marriage and a family, I disagree with that part about having a good experience lol
@ScottAyersStuff
May 15, 2025 at 4:40 pm
-Women complained about being approached
-Men listened and complied
-Women then complained about not being approached
-Woman feels “oppressed”
-Woman says “I don’t need no man”
-Woman’s car, furnace, AC, computer breaks
-Woman scrambles to hire a man to fix them using their “I’m just a poor helpless woman. Please help me”
-Guys look into dating. Notice the above behavior an say “No thanks”
-Women then complain that men are weak for not chasing them
-Guys realize they just dodged a huge bullet and get into video games and other hobbies
-Women retreat into box wine and cat land
@Frozix-0
May 15, 2025 at 5:14 pm
It’s funny that although she says in the beginning that the approaching people on the street should come back, but she doesn’t mention at all the possibility of women being the ones doing it.
@faisalaaa5700
May 15, 2025 at 6:29 pm
Always pick the sweatheart over the looks… I have made this mistake several times and I regret it a lot now…
@daveorama3188
May 15, 2025 at 6:33 pm
In a post feminist world why are women still not stepping up when it comes to initiating contact with the men that they are interested in? And why are women still fixated on men’s status and income?
@redhairedviking2657
May 15, 2025 at 7:09 pm
I am a self proclaimed feminist, but I think the mix of men no longer approaching women is a mix of women’s safety and also the potential to be recorded and used for views. I think the recording is more of a gen z thing because of the influencer era.
2:15 I think you’re correct. I will add that as a guy who puts “no casual” on his dating profile and means it, it isn’t easier for me. This isn’t the woman’s fault. This is other men blatantly lying and knowing that if they put “conservative” or “intimacy without commitment” on their profile, they will get less matches. Men blatantly lie so they can get wet. It may be easier for women to get matches, but at least for us guys, we don’t have the FOMO of choosing two profiles that say “long term relationship” but accidently picking the one who lied about it and missing out on the real thing. With that said, I have had a lot of matches play games so they don’t miss out on either.
As far as ghosting goes, I think it is a legit option IF you unmatch them. If not, tell the person its not working out. You don’t need to tell them why, unless you feel like it is an objective red flag and maybe they should know, but still, I feel like giving a reason is only needed if there is a relationship involved, so it gives closure. I hate it when ghosting happens without any communication or unmatching. You’re just left wondering until you move on.
@DuchessofEarlGrey
May 15, 2025 at 7:12 pm
If someone gives you a rude rejection, be grateful that person showed their true colours right out of the gate so they don’t waste any of your time, money or energy.
@brunolopes7311
May 15, 2025 at 8:36 pm
I dont know why the WIRED team put that woman talking here… she doesnt have a clue about what’s going on in this planet… or maybe she knows but the WIRED team doent allow her to say ….
@oventi_
May 15, 2025 at 9:11 pm
I think that men approaching less and some people missing the old way is just a growing pain of a better, more equal society. Yes, approaching before was a free for all and there was a lot of harrasment and worse. Feminism and social justice advocacy and awareness reduced this, and now we have to come up with a safer and consensual way to do it. Dating apps are just one way. Speed dating is another. In Argentina, I had some success with tango classes.
@woulditwork7356
May 16, 2025 at 2:02 pm
The optimal female mating strategy is to secretly get impregnated by the tall bad boy and tgeb let some provider softie care for the child.
I guess we will see a lot more of such “relationships” in gen z.
@lepidoptera9337
May 17, 2025 at 2:37 pm
No wonder that you are lonely. 😉
@bry8500
May 16, 2025 at 2:31 pm
So funny to hear her say that she wishes that guys would approach women in public more because there’s a key component for why guys don’t do that anymore that she didn’t even mention. It never worked! Never! I met a woman who was a waitress at a restaurant on Melrose and well known actors would come in and hit on her back in the day. I asked her how many of these guys did she actually go out with? I knew it was going to be zero and yep it was zero! Even Stephen Pinker did research. Where an attractive male undergraduate propositioned 100 females in public and zero agreed to the proposition. So approaching women in public was going to die anyway because it just never got any results.
@kylieross5498
May 16, 2025 at 3:16 pm
I think dealing with rejection should be taught in schools- there so many recent examples of people (particularly men) killing their ex partners after they rejected them
@lepidoptera9337
May 17, 2025 at 2:35 pm
Most homicide victims are men (typically by a 2:1 to 5:1 ratio compared to female homicide victims) but you are correct that 40-50% of female homicide victims are being killed by former or current romantic partners. While homicide is a comparatively rare phenomenon, it is typically being committed in high stress environments by people who are under the influence of peer pressure (gang violence, (civil) war, drug trade etc.). Schools can not be made responsible to solve those kinds of societal problems. In domestic settings men who are committing violent acts against their female partners are typically violent to begin with, which means they have severe psychological disorders that are hard to control even by the most intense forms of therapy. That we need to have high security prisons for violent offenders is not a failure of the system. It’s the result of a genetic variability of the human mind that can not be remedied by school councilors that may have a few minutes per kid per year.
@fatusopp4739
May 16, 2025 at 4:07 pm
missed out on dating in high school since i was mentally unwell and autistic. its a red flag now that im 20 and have never had any of those experiences. at least i have really good friends that are there for me but man does it feel isolating.
@parl_hd
May 16, 2025 at 4:40 pm
At 12:09 she states its absolutely possible while shaiking her head signaling “no”, a nonverbal contradiction.
@katabatica
May 16, 2025 at 5:48 pm
Excellent, well-informed answers.
@reyna5476
May 16, 2025 at 5:50 pm
Very informative video! I loved it : )
@JohnSchley
May 16, 2025 at 6:23 pm
On the ghosting vs being told: I personally prefer being told straight up, all the facts, no BS or flowery language. I assume this mainly comes down to how people handle information and anxiety.
@luanpsiquiatra9461
May 16, 2025 at 7:00 pm
parece a janja
@meteeroglu5046
May 16, 2025 at 7:33 pm
I love the way she pronounces “shu” and “zhu” 🙂
@heatherlxnn
May 16, 2025 at 7:52 pm
On an attachment style quiz I scored equally on Anxious and Secure. So I’m not sure what that says about me LOL
@NTav540
May 16, 2025 at 8:21 pm
I think it is great if men are no longer approaching women in public. Finally! It is so creepy to have a stranger show up and send you a drink. It’s only romantic in movies, and ONLY when is the ‘right’ guy.
@trashleigh87
May 16, 2025 at 9:25 pm
I feel like I knew all of this already, which is disappointing 😂
@angierox6964
May 16, 2025 at 10:02 pm
Thanks! I’ve been single for about five years and asking myself a lot of questions such as ‘how do you know if you’re settling,’ ‘can you grow into loving someone,’ and a few other important questions. It was funny too hear you read these big questions of my life and answer them so scholarly. Lol thanks though it helped.
Quick thought- That our attachment styles can change depending on the partner in addition to age and experience . Also love languages change depending upon the partner. I had found through doing assessments with different partners that wherever I felt that partner was lacking seem to come up where I had the highest needs to feel love.
@legzfalloffgirl5148
May 16, 2025 at 11:11 pm
“Men are nolonger approaching women in public” i wish that was true
@spamgarbage6999
May 16, 2025 at 11:26 pm
I will always feel unsafe when a random man comes up to talk to me and hit on me
@seantobin4960
May 17, 2025 at 2:58 am
curious and surprised that a video like that seems to assume straightness as a default/norm. and its consistently throughout… don’t think it would have taken much to make this more inclusive. maybe the answer is in changing the heading to clarify that its focused on cis het relationships.
@toastandplants
May 17, 2025 at 10:55 am
The quality of matches for men is not that much better on dating sites either. I find thar argument pretty weak. It’s hard for everyone.
@fatima_asslam
May 17, 2025 at 11:08 am
Does she have some stats for the first answer?
Feels like men approach women all the time, personally.
@kurteisner67
May 17, 2025 at 11:55 am
I was wondering about that as well. I assume her statement to be true because many studies worldwide show that less and less people in a relationship answer that they met first in person (even more pronounced among younger people), but technically by itself this is no conclusive proof that women are approached less by men than they used to.
@lavar580
May 17, 2025 at 1:46 pm
this lady an idiot, a relationship is a mental committed unconditional, not dependant on attraction
@izzdee
May 17, 2025 at 2:14 pm
5:30 but the”gut” isn’t the gut, it’s the subconscious ain’t it ?
@eddie6447
May 17, 2025 at 3:15 pm
You can’t bring back asking people out in public without some women feeling unsafe. The idea that you can create as society where everybody can feel totally safe is absurd. Ironically being asked out in public is probably safer than being asked out on a dating app where the person approaching you can carefully curate a false image.
“We will bankrupt ourselves in the vain search for absolute security”, Dwight D. Eisenhower, we will destroy all our relationships in the search for no woman ever feeling unsafe.
@marceelino
May 17, 2025 at 6:19 pm
probably in usa
@davevt04
May 17, 2025 at 3:28 pm
for the so-called dating gurus out there, this is one of the better ones
@Morcap
May 17, 2025 at 4:04 pm
@4:45 the biggest baloney ever heard about anything, really” “Try not to take it personally”. Really? If it is about one’s life – and especially here talking about relationships and intimacy and whatnot -, It IS personal. Period.
@DerpRulesAll
May 17, 2025 at 4:49 pm
But the answer is NO.
@warmak4576
May 18, 2025 at 4:30 am
Short out to Stalin for making this possible o7.
@vulzes
May 18, 2025 at 5:23 am
video has a typo she said physical attraction increases when you like someone not that emotional does
@NewtralHuman
May 18, 2025 at 6:41 am
Very nice! What a gynocentric view of why guys are no longer approaching women. Because women feel unsafe about being approached by guys. Please continue with this false gynocentric narrative portraying women as innocent victims, because they “feel” unsafe. Basically, a women who is approached by a guy who is not attractive is “dangerous” or “unsafe”. Watch how feminist women are going to destroy themselves. The ugly results are going to show in the 2030s, especially in the Secular West with experts like Dr. Zhana Vrangalova spreading this deceptive one sided narrative.
@Tanyathestoryteller
May 18, 2025 at 9:25 am
I was just approached by man at a party not too long ago and he was very nerdy but also very smooth, almost like he was trained or took a class or something. Perhaps some education on flirting and not making people feel uncomfortable could help bring back the approaches irl
@Thenegrowhoisfree
May 18, 2025 at 9:36 am
I think the definition of low quality relationship depends on the people’s preferences. You can meet an out going person who os abusive and controlling. Some people are just introverts by nature.
@codingrules
May 18, 2025 at 10:40 am
It is not easier for men seeking long-term love. The problem is that regular and even above-regular men are buried underneath the top-shelf men that non-top-shelf women still want. And they are not ready to settle for someone at their own level.
Also, she can’t know if that is truly what you are looking for. Even if that is what you both are looking for that definitely does not mean that is what is going to happen for the two of you.
@cseptember6562
May 20, 2025 at 6:10 pm
100% true
@DaMatrixArchitect
May 18, 2025 at 12:28 pm
9:54-9:57 and this is why most men say a lot of women don’t know what they want.
My two cents to all women are;
If you don’t want a nice guy in your prime years then don’t look for nice guy in your declining years. Two, marriage is a liability for a men in general because there is no incentive for men to get the get the government involved, but marriage is an asset for women because women a financial security without prenup and still can get that with prenup with some men. You’re the seller so if you can’t sell marriage to men between 18-28 then you’re going to have harder times to sell marriage between 29-39, never mind 40+ .
@MrRatMommy
May 18, 2025 at 1:02 pm
aaaawwouuueeeh, my man got so crazy after our first deep long talk of 6 hours, before this he didnt consider me among attractive. just an average good looking girl, yea😂 but also, he is sexually verrryyy self controlled. one of the REAL good guys.
@dotmatrix9818
May 18, 2025 at 3:54 pm
That is not what orbiting means lol
@beroughwithlove
May 18, 2025 at 8:04 pm
She lost me with her very first answer being that men don’t approach women in public anymore. GOD I wish this were true, but alas, I am harassed everywhere I go.
@cseptember6562
May 20, 2025 at 6:09 pm
45% of young men have never approached a woman and the number will rise.
@Plug042
May 18, 2025 at 11:39 pm
Dating is a nightmare fr
@Lancelot2000Lps
May 19, 2025 at 1:37 am
Thanks i learned much.
@marcustulliuscicero5443
May 19, 2025 at 8:31 am
What went completely unmentioned during the explanation of the cost of reproduction for women is the rather noticeable increase in risk of death.
@colonthr3
May 19, 2025 at 10:05 am
wtf is up with that first tweet of hers????post me too???whats wrong with her
@sarahbear9482
May 19, 2025 at 10:47 am
All the women agreeing with the magical experience of being approached by strangers in the street…. BYE!
@kkin3751
May 19, 2025 at 12:04 pm
So bluepilled and woman centric it kind of make sense why young men lean towards alt right pipeline
@lilachodan4941
May 19, 2025 at 2:51 pm
Good video. Quite fascinating
@procrastinator41
May 19, 2025 at 5:23 pm
This is very good.
Real common sense here.
@EllaABo
May 19, 2025 at 6:05 pm
Prof Dr Vrangalova feels like a Meryl Streep performance in the best way
@Myst109
May 20, 2025 at 1:26 am
get rid of the racial genocide dogwhistle statue you got in front of you lady, before you go preaching anything to anyone
@MayWanderer
May 20, 2025 at 1:50 am
On rejection: how to handle that when the person refuses to admit they’re rejecting you? 🤣 like I would say it’s ok if you don’t wanna go further than the first date. The person says that they do wanna keep getting to know each other and meeting. But then they really stop showing interest in talking or meeting again … it drives me insane. And this especially happens with people who would say we had such a great connexion on that first date.
@MayWanderer
May 20, 2025 at 1:52 am
Is the gut reliable when you can get a bit anxious?
@UncleTonyGuitar
May 20, 2025 at 11:25 am
Arranged marriage: two people that are strangers, gradually falling deeply in love. Western marriage: two people that are deeply in love, gradually becoming strangers.
@Y_arkar
May 20, 2025 at 6:28 pm
Or Arranged marriage: Don’t care (or even hate) each other and have side relationships.
@Nimbus2000s
May 21, 2025 at 12:55 am
how do you know they would fall inlove? and could that love aslo change as well?
@UncleTonyGuitar
May 21, 2025 at 12:58 am
@Nimbus2000s It’s an old saying.
@szymonbaranowski8184
May 20, 2025 at 1:22 pm
it’s always personal. Rejection often comes after some time being together. So comes with reasons that overweight feelings. So it always means feelings werent strong and its personal. If it comes earlier it’s not a rejection it’s just swiping farther
@TracyLynn75
May 20, 2025 at 1:48 pm
There’s a lid for every pot 😂
@jpuc5568
May 20, 2025 at 2:02 pm
I gave up
@phaseshifter3d455
May 20, 2025 at 4:51 pm
If men don’t approach you, then YOU approach them. No one ever gets anything by waiting and doing nothing. You can wait for someone to guess that you’re thirsty, or you can get up and get a glass of water.
@cseptember6562
May 20, 2025 at 5:49 pm
63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women and a higher amount of young men want a serious relationship than young women do. Specifically wanting to seriously date doesnt give a man an advantage at all
And most men cant even get a situationship. Thats a majority women thing. In my age group most are dating older men or are sharing guys. Some are dating men their age
@Solid_rtx
May 20, 2025 at 5:50 pm
would be nice to stop shaming men for what evolution has given us at some point and instead of such nonsense feminist-leftist tones in describing our behaviors have a more honest approach to help us better understand our differences and grow.
@Nimbus2000s
May 21, 2025 at 12:53 am
she didnt shame men?
@TalulaSeb
May 21, 2025 at 11:08 am
You could learn more about breastfeeding. The world average is far above a few short years, and we can and do get pregnant while nursing, sometimes nearly immediately after birth!
@Ice_Karma
May 21, 2025 at 7:09 pm
5:07 Eh, really, the brain is a second gut, as far as the nervous system goes. It came along later and co-opted the existing neural architecture and signalling molecules. (Yes, it’s a lot more complicated, but saying the gut is a “second brain” puts the cart before the horse.)
@Liusila
May 22, 2025 at 10:34 am
This whole topic is making me sick by now.
@kallepikku4991
May 22, 2025 at 5:07 pm
Men don’t get to choose, they get picked up.
Women cannot choose, they’re overwhelmed by the abundance.
Having said that, I’d choose abundance over scarcity any day.