“Every conversation has the potential to open up and reveal all the layers and layers within it, all those rooms within rooms,” says podcaster and musician Hrishikesh Hirway. In this profoundly moving talk, he offers a guide to deep conversations and explores what you learn when you stop to listen closely. Stay tuned to the end to hear a performance of his original song “Between There and Here (feat. Yo-Yo Ma).”
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R Nedlo
November 22, 2021 at 4:40 pm
LISTENING . . . . . wait, can we do that?!
Ross
November 22, 2021 at 4:54 pm
Please.. Please tone down the vocal fry.
Falk Mathes
November 22, 2021 at 5:04 pm
There is no government in Western Europe. Passports and ID cards are prohibited.
Armageddon: The ultra-criminal pharmaceutical dictatorship and its thugs in police uniform will lose the war against us humans!
Dr. Ricco Lindner
November 22, 2021 at 5:08 pm
Just wonderful! Thank you for sharin thus moments and reminding to actively listening
Homestead Engineering
November 22, 2021 at 5:08 pm
I think its more like a rental house. Yes, there is the story of the person who wrote it but there is also the many stories of everyone who rented it. Each renter has a unique memory of there time spent in that house and the memory they think of when the song plays. When someone says they like the song, you really have no way of knowing what that really means on its face.
Huong Nguyen
November 22, 2021 at 5:12 pm
This talk is so therapeutic to me.
Gelgrem Queen
November 22, 2021 at 5:20 pm
I know what it feels like to be so happy when someone is actually interested in what I’m talking about
Maximilian Kohs
November 22, 2021 at 5:42 pm
As a thought that might make you happy as a songwriter: the people that listen to your music link that music to memories of their own. In some way adding to the song or making it their own home. And you renting it out to them, collecting all those moments.
nimmy j
November 22, 2021 at 5:45 pm
Really like it…. Vibrant….. 👍
phenry515
November 22, 2021 at 6:40 pm
I understand the different forms of communication, owl, energy, and sight. While trying to maintain focus. While Listening to music will help maintain focus.
AsheqProductions
November 22, 2021 at 6:51 pm
Unfortunately…While this is valuable and well said. Most people who are watching you are not listening, just hearing. Comment done…. Next video… Repeat… Made a video recently about how you can help end pandemic and decrease some future increase of global debt in our small way (TR Episode 2)… even people who watched it…didn’t listen… saw the first 15-20 minutes and they assumed they knew what I was going to say… and moved on…
Donald Auguston
November 22, 2021 at 7:16 pm
What a beautiful song and such a fine voice. Thank you for posting. DA
That Guy
November 22, 2021 at 7:21 pm
I shit you not, but I actually imagined someone morning the loss of their mother when he played that 20 second clip.
Ligia Sommers
November 22, 2021 at 7:31 pm
Beautiful 🙏🏻💖🌹
Tom Nook
November 22, 2021 at 7:42 pm
His mum must be very proud
dawn whitmore
November 22, 2021 at 7:56 pm
When I hear this it almost takes me to a time and I was walking down a path at one of my lowest points in life, it’s almost like I can feel the sway of emotions the hurt the anger the sadness very beautiful Melody.
Koseph
November 22, 2021 at 8:15 pm
Ted Talks is evil. The Bible is the truth.
Cynthia Diane Carey
November 22, 2021 at 8:22 pm
Wonderful talk. Thank you ❤️
Shadevi S
November 22, 2021 at 8:55 pm
His voice… so calming 😌
Lancelot kamaka
November 22, 2021 at 9:29 pm
I love it. I am a musician who used to play piano in a restaurantbar, and I really appreciate who would come and listen, while eating or drinking.
ля какой пень
November 22, 2021 at 10:23 pm
i got those goosebumps while listening to his song
Ana Herrera
November 22, 2021 at 10:58 pm
Thanks to Toastmasters, learnt the VALUE of listening 👂 + realised am an AUDITORY learner … 💡📚
Gemma Salmon
November 22, 2021 at 11:05 pm
It’s so odd seeing him talk after listening to his dulcet tones on the west wing weekly… ironic.
Manohar Venkat
November 23, 2021 at 2:04 am
Anybody else thinks this guy looks like Kanan Gill?
Paras Agarwal
November 23, 2021 at 4:18 am
Is it just me or the track feels far more intense at 1.25x speed? Also, great learnings about truly listening and discovering.
Afthab Iqbal
November 23, 2021 at 6:17 am
Wow…
Majur Aciekamal
November 23, 2021 at 7:21 am
What a therapy! 🥰
Salt Sister
November 23, 2021 at 1:45 pm
I think its more like a rental house. Yes, there is the story of the person who wrote it but there is also the many stories of everyone who rented it. Each renter has a unique memory of there time spent in that house and the memory they think of when the song plays. When someone says they like the song, you really have no way of knowing what that really means on its face.
Geraldine Gaggia
November 23, 2021 at 1:54 pm
Calming
Raptor Ravioli44
November 23, 2021 at 2:57 pm
Has he listened to Martin O’Donnell?
Randi Beal
November 23, 2021 at 4:56 pm
You made me cry! That was beautiful!
Leslie Ch
November 23, 2021 at 9:14 pm
nop
Jitamanyu Sumitran
November 24, 2021 at 6:16 am
❤️❤️❤️
Clerisa Varghese
November 24, 2021 at 7:22 am
This was so beautiful ❤️
Dipon Bikash
November 24, 2021 at 9:49 am
What a combination! 🥰.
Unimaginable masterpiece ❤️
Reema Gul Sha Ali khan
November 24, 2021 at 1:39 pm
It’s so interesting to much
tsering sonam
November 24, 2021 at 2:44 pm
@10.02👌❤️
Lula Hummingbird
November 24, 2021 at 11:52 pm
A deeply insightful talk. Your beautiful lyrics and music resonated deeply with me as I too lost my Mother recently and she has returned to me in dreams. My father also, who died last October, has appeared in my dreams. How comforting an experience to ‘see’’ one’s loved one again and who are now ‘part of a dream’. I am grateful to have come across your talk this evening. I very much needed it. I did not know what I was looking for but I found your talk! Serendipitous indeed. Profound gratitude Hrishikesh. You use your talents well, and generously. 🙏💜
Jauhari Al-Fath
November 25, 2021 at 4:24 am
Thank you for sharing… 🙏
Love you voice…very smooth