Author Gregg Ward spent decades grappling with guilt from a personal tragedy before recognizing a different path forward — where purpose replaced self-punishment. What he learned about transforming regret into positive change might make you rethink your own mistakes. (Recorded at TEDxSanDiego on February 20, 2025)
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@rajeshsahoo-c7h
August 4, 2026 at 11:05 am
Hello sir
@x-raycat323
August 4, 2026 at 11:12 am
Her head came off and you’re the victim ?? 😵
@underscorejojo
August 4, 2026 at 11:36 am
I bet you have big regrets and that you are lashing out against him because of your own inner hate toward yourself. 🥀
@DemureDelight8055
August 4, 2026 at 12:12 pm
@x-raycat323 he never said anything that even remotely implied that
@Bikucc-b2n
August 4, 2026 at 11:27 am
Heyy guise from 🇳🇵🇳🇵
@fksctynlysis
August 4, 2026 at 11:31 am
Interesting.
@fksctynlysis
August 4, 2026 at 11:31 am
💯✊️
@fksctynlysis
August 4, 2026 at 11:31 am
Oaky
@fksctynlysis
August 4, 2026 at 11:35 am
👍
@QuietLife1234
August 4, 2026 at 11:46 am
Powerful!
@rosalinark-aarmateam8056
August 4, 2026 at 11:54 am
Thank you ❤❤
@AssafatIslamNuhad
August 4, 2026 at 11:58 am
❤❤❤
@SkinnyDevilMusicLab
August 4, 2026 at 12:20 pm
Hmmm….not entirely sure how I feel about this. The message is a good one (re: making positive change), but the constant use of the word “accidental” sounds like minimization.
Or perhaps I’m reading something that’s not there.
I’ll have to ponder this more.
Either way, thanks for sharing this.
@woyblank751
August 4, 2026 at 4:25 pm
So what is it if it’s not an accident? That’s what accident means: you don’t mean to do it. Smh
@snowflake7309
August 4, 2026 at 12:35 pm
Thank you
@FMFvideos
August 4, 2026 at 1:17 pm
Most unintentional killing comes from irresponsibility. That doesn’t mean innocence. Also ask Matthew Broderick how much guilt he felt for killing 2 in a car accident.
@RedNocturne
August 4, 2026 at 2:27 pm
Very personal and vulnerable talk. Not everyone will agree with the message, and that’s okay.
@commoneuropeanstarling
August 4, 2026 at 3:38 pm
Regrets? I’ve had quite a few!!! In every aspect of my life.
@ExistentialWolf
August 4, 2026 at 3:49 pm
When the sun shines too bright , sometimes the shadows that remain only cloak peril not offering sanctuary – in our mind?? 😀 📌🐝🎀
@AmyAndThePup
August 4, 2026 at 4:17 pm
This was so vulnerable. I didn’t expect him to fight tears like that. I respect and appreciaqte the openness of admitting what happened, how it’s shaped him, and how it continues to shape him still.
@robertmoss8598
August 4, 2026 at 5:30 pm
Definitely on the path to redemption.. it’s not always clear why these things happen, but we must take responsibility for our actions. All compassion to you. 💙💜💙
@pattycakes5
August 4, 2026 at 5:30 pm
Sir, your high school sweetheart would not have wanted you to beat yourself up about it the rest of your life. She loved you and she would have wanted the best for you. Always.
@useradldkk
August 4, 2026 at 7:03 pm
Please tell James Simons:
🆘 Money traffic was to choose people, there will be new money. Cancer, khaos, all the strength that we lost was because of alien attack. Eurovision 2026 has the colors. The chosen people are help.
2.02
@ChristianWackers
August 4, 2026 at 9:18 pm
Unintentionally.. but you knew you need to pay attention to the road.. you didn’t have the discipline to act responsible over impulsive. And the talk doesn’t address that.