“Optimism is not what exists in a vacuum on your best day, but how you’re pulling through for yourself on your worst days,” says actress Yara Shahidi. Yara is known for her sitcoms Black-ish and its spinoff Grown-ish. She shares what she learned from creating a “Hard Yes” list, why she chose to attend Harvard after acting, and why she thinks anyone can find their highest order if they pay attention.
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@mahima2007-mj
April 15, 2026 at 3:03 pm
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@ioanarcalean7870
April 15, 2026 at 3:24 pm
Foarte fain.
De ce acestea nu se traduc și în limba română?
@elin_
April 15, 2026 at 4:01 pm
Not enough people speak romanian, just like they don’t speak my language.
@ioanarcalean7870
April 16, 2026 at 12:14 am
@elin_😢
@madsisak
April 15, 2026 at 3:44 pm
Zzzzz
@elin_
April 15, 2026 at 3:58 pm
How to be a better human? Abandon abrahamic religions.
@tlwest1
April 15, 2026 at 4:14 pm
I thought this was about finding your purpose
@elin_
April 15, 2026 at 4:20 pm
Nah just rambling from a celebrity
@elin_
April 15, 2026 at 4:20 pm
This is so cringely tiring.. Yet another video saying the exact same thing as the others have done in the past.
Also very easy for a celebrity without severe mental illness to sit and talk about optimism…
@PharaohGomez
April 15, 2026 at 5:15 pm
She’s so smart and yet so elegant and beautiful wow 🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵😍😍😍😍😍😍
@siiiomaiiii
April 15, 2026 at 7:49 pm
I want her to keep talking, she has such insight, I want her wisdom to never end
@Gharial555
April 15, 2026 at 8:11 pm
A highly successful actor decided that everyone else needed to hear their opinion on why we should all be happier about our sh*tty lives? Stfu😂
@BehavioralCapital-c1m
April 15, 2026 at 9:38 pm
I’ve recapped Yara’s ideas into short, actionable steps for you to follow below.
1. Follow multiple interests → don’t force a single path.
2. Replace “either/or” with “and.”
3. Act before you feel fully certain.
4. Choose optimism → it leads to action.
5. Stay curious → you don’t know enough to limit yourself.
6. Build a “Hard Yes List” (what truly brings you joy).
7. Define your “Highest Order” (core drivers of your life).
8. Go deep on what matters → ignore pressure to comment on everything.
9. Allow yourself to be bad at new things.
10. Redefine yourself continuously → purpose evolves.
@pashaveres4629
April 15, 2026 at 11:58 pm
Nice! Thanks. 🙂
Wondering “How does this have only 2 likes??”
Oh, it was posted two hours ago.
@BehavioralCapital-c1m
April 16, 2026 at 1:08 am
@pashaveres4629 Appreciate it! Yeah, still fresh 😄
@DivorceThrivers
April 16, 2026 at 6:15 am
🎉
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April 16, 2026 at 2:26 pm
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April 16, 2026 at 9:25 am
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