Multihyphenate entertainer Keke Palmer has mastered the art of performing — on stage and off. But she realized the skills that carried her family out of poverty might be the very thing keeping her trapped. In this powerful talk, she unpacks the hidden cost of hyper-functioning and what it really means to stop acting and start living. (Recorded at TED2026 on April 17, 2026)
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@SuperRONDALE
May 19, 2026 at 1:39 pm
Man, I love this girl
@AiNEDuE20
May 19, 2026 at 2:40 pm
Can’t wait!!!
@NataleiFoster
May 19, 2026 at 5:03 pm
Omg yesss! Can’t wait 😮
@dianacuevas5058
May 20, 2026 at 12:27 am
I cant wait to hear her and do my TED talk paper about her.
@daniellekennedy7895
May 20, 2026 at 5:32 pm
Wouldn’t miss it. Love KeKe.
@caroleastmond9064
May 21, 2026 at 8:48 pm
Good for her!!🥇💐💐💐💐💐🎀
@ct580
May 21, 2026 at 8:49 pm
This was wonderful. ❤salute to you Ms. Palmer
@tonijohnson5606
May 21, 2026 at 8:55 pm
Lauren Palmer
@TheHigherFlow
May 21, 2026 at 8:55 pm
Absolutely excellent! So thankful I could see this❤
@ViViihAires
May 21, 2026 at 8:55 pm
Absolutely brilliant ✨
@hinatagirl33
May 21, 2026 at 8:56 pm
Wow… this was a phenomenal watch! Lauren, you are SEEN
@LatishaSmithDailyMoves
May 21, 2026 at 8:58 pm
That was beautiful 😢
@lie395
May 21, 2026 at 8:58 pm
Generational wealth breaking generational curses 🎉🎉KEEKEÈEEEE🎉🎉
@cyrellroberson9698
May 21, 2026 at 9:00 pm
What a performance. We see you Lauren.
@deannasalazar9903
May 21, 2026 at 9:02 pm
Keke is such a gift to this world 💖
@EduardooRocha
May 21, 2026 at 9:03 pm
She is SO charismatic… Whenever she talks I can’t help but stare silently, just enjoying her presence and talent. I’m happy for her, she seems like such a genuinely cool person
@samanthaaymara
May 21, 2026 at 9:03 pm
YES Ms. Lauren Palmer 😁👏
@lonisamari
May 21, 2026 at 9:05 pm
Thank you for this gift Lauren! May more and more presence and rest flood your life, as you grow your empire with your family. In Jesus name, Amen.
@sonnyo1989
May 21, 2026 at 9:06 pm
Bravo 👏🏾 truly inspirational and an authentic.
@Activelugtu
May 21, 2026 at 9:09 pm
Im so moved❤
@blackorchidv8
May 21, 2026 at 9:10 pm
WORD.
@TheNextThirtyFive
May 21, 2026 at 9:13 pm
Dang, her name is Lauren 😢❤ nice to meet you, girl, you’re doing the darn thing! So proud of you 🎉
@burbbrain5377
May 21, 2026 at 9:13 pm
“Moving forward, mattered more than being healed”. @7:44 👏🏽
@YeahmynameKiara
May 21, 2026 at 9:13 pm
❤❤️🩹😢
@bettyglick2679
May 21, 2026 at 9:14 pm
That was so profound touching. Incredible job ❤️💐
@SamuelBrown-o8u
May 21, 2026 at 9:22 pm
I just saw an angel 🙂
@angelabarr868
May 21, 2026 at 9:24 pm
It’s a pleasure to meet you, Lauren Keyanna Palmer!
Can’t wait to see what’s in store for you and Leodis in the future 😊
@Ziva.lafleurviii
May 21, 2026 at 9:24 pm
Love her ❤
@Reflectionsofacuban
May 21, 2026 at 9:24 pm
Love KeKe Palmer. Outstanding TedTalk. Amazing stage presence, eloquent on the mic, poise, humor, and a genuine ability to connect. Way to go and congrats to you on your many accomplishments- so deserving! ❤️❤️
@Bridgettlare
May 21, 2026 at 9:25 pm
Lauren Keyana Palmer! I’m Bridgett LaRé Hatch and it’s nice to meet you! I talk about those systems and beliefs we grow up in and with in my TedX talk entitled “It’s Not You. It’s Your Beliefs.” Funny enough, it was on my trip to Bali that I discovered the power of my beliefs and I mention that as well. You also mentioned the years of performing and I’m currently working on my 3rd book. The First 33: One Woman’s Journey From Trash To Treasure. Part 3 -The Performance Years”! Our stories align in so many ways. I feel like we should collaborate on some things! Great job sharing your story with so much authenticity that the world knows and loves. ❤
@mpatreece2726
May 22, 2026 at 8:15 pm
👏👏👏👏👏
@JAZZnMOTION
May 22, 2026 at 8:15 pm
Her differentiating “KeKe Palmer” the brand and Lauren Palmer .. the person 😭😭
@sanoldc
May 22, 2026 at 8:16 pm
Wonderful job Keke!
@WoodsheddingBK
May 22, 2026 at 8:23 pm
Each human is the best that humanity had to offer the time they were born. Blessings.
@annbentham9624
May 22, 2026 at 8:24 pm
Love you girl 😘😘😘 Thanks for sharing ❤️😘❤️❤️😘.
@layd8865
May 22, 2026 at 8:26 pm
She used AI to write this. Count the amount of times she used the “it was this NOT that”
@aS-qu1vp
May 22, 2026 at 8:29 pm
SO proud of you girl
@sandzimhlanga4762
May 22, 2026 at 8:29 pm
So beautiful Keke ❤. I loved everything about your TED Talk.
@moniquejohnson2465
May 22, 2026 at 8:30 pm
Great job Lauren Keyana Palmer!!! I’m happy she found her way back to self!
@annbentham9624
May 22, 2026 at 8:32 pm
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@Elizabeth-wz2cj
May 22, 2026 at 8:33 pm
Congratulations…you have transformed. Now your real work begins. You’re not alone…you’re walking a new spiritual path. 🙏
@s.g.6957
May 22, 2026 at 8:33 pm
Awesome testimony how to break free from a system mindset of poverty and survival and live free. Enough is enough. Rest, girl rest.
@delmiamaris
May 22, 2026 at 8:34 pm
Love her energy ❤
@luisalbertomiercisneros8207
May 22, 2026 at 8:41 pm
Strong !!!
@tonithedivinegoddess8026
May 22, 2026 at 8:44 pm
This was excellent Lauren Keyona Palmer I hope I spelled your name correctly respectfully @kekepalmer 🎉🎉🎉
@haniffahasan8701
May 22, 2026 at 8:45 pm
This hit different. Deep ;’(
@Auronomi
May 22, 2026 at 8:52 pm
Was stuck in the achievements auto-pilot for almost a decade and then, around age 28/30 I started changing that and realized that I needed to settle down and stop working myself so hard. Discover others meanings of life and start LIVING! It’s a balance. Only thing that makes me feel icky is when she saw the contrast of normal life vs wealth and saw she could never go back and that sucks. But that’s truth and bless her for escaping it.
@Mama_22-g3c
May 22, 2026 at 9:00 pm
I felt each and every word to my core.
@meyou-789
May 22, 2026 at 9:01 pm
Dope
@sheilapaul1553
May 22, 2026 at 9:09 pm
Beautiful!!! Thank you for teaching us how to be Authentic and move from Survival to Our Real, Amazing, True Selves❤
@LovingWorldTraveller
May 22, 2026 at 9:11 pm
👍🤩💝🏆I love Keke. I’m so happy for her success. May God continue to keep her & bless her. 🙏💝
@yagirl39
May 22, 2026 at 9:11 pm
Wow❤
@kariskakekreates
May 22, 2026 at 9:16 pm
she is an absolute Gem of our time. I. can’t even. ❤
@AndreaJackson-8
May 22, 2026 at 9:20 pm
Beautiful, captivating, and revelatory! 👏🏾❤👏🏾❤👏🏾
@sportsfamilytherapist
May 22, 2026 at 9:24 pm
I’m giving a standing ovation in my bonnet! I feel seen.
@toccaradorceya
May 23, 2026 at 7:26 pm
Wow this Is My life but a different Journey, The Masking the Performing, dancing around, the Fake it to you make it!! This message is soo needed! I pray I can one day speak on this stage
@ArtAscension-m9e
May 23, 2026 at 7:29 pm
Hello Keke .
@neish1863
May 23, 2026 at 7:40 pm
Wow I am moved thank you Lauren Palmer ❤
@everydaistyle
May 23, 2026 at 7:41 pm
Professor Palmer!!!!!! This was beyond and so epic!
@domo201
May 23, 2026 at 7:41 pm
She’s such a role model for every young woman in the world. Great advice, presentation and story Lauren ❤
@nurtureandnature
May 23, 2026 at 7:50 pm
As someone who has recently become aware of my own Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and is also a parent, that final statement resonates deeply with me. My child is also guiding me in how to experience life.
@jo2337
May 23, 2026 at 7:52 pm
She is as incredible now as I’ve always believed her to be. I am just amazed by her ✨️
@jillkoenig1691
May 23, 2026 at 7:55 pm
I went to school in Robbins, IL and a lot of my friends and classmates are from there. Have been a fan since Akeelah and the Bee and still am inspired by Ms Palmer’s ascension in life and career. This was beautifully told. You are a light ❤️
@danielrebora1350
May 23, 2026 at 7:55 pm
I’ve always had the biggest crush on her and she just keeps getting prettier, funnier and more insightful, my heart can’t take it!
@antwanthompson556
May 23, 2026 at 7:57 pm
BRAVO 👌 KEKE…!!! This was amazing and the delivery articulation was spot on. Excellent 👍
@mayasmith650
May 23, 2026 at 8:06 pm
🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾💙
@mayasmith650
May 23, 2026 at 8:06 pm
FREE ✨
@blossomtheblackcat
May 23, 2026 at 8:13 pm
😭😭🤧🙌🏽❤️
@RogerTillmon
May 23, 2026 at 8:26 pm
I needed this. I have voted all my life and after the 2024 cycle I felt defeated, unheard and at the point of “why bother” for the first time in my life. This hit me right where it hurts. I’ll shake off my butt hurt and get back in the game. Thanks Sis ❤❤
@3am917
May 23, 2026 at 8:28 pm
“ONCE YOU’VE SEEN THE LIFE ON THE OTHER SIDE OF POVERTY, YOU CAN’T UNSEE THE CONTRAST!”
@LuvvsAlora
May 23, 2026 at 8:33 pm
💐💐💐💐💐🫶🏽💞
@JuicyRealTalk
May 23, 2026 at 8:40 pm
GEMS!!!!!
@kelliereiger8170
May 23, 2026 at 8:41 pm
Sobbing this is so good
@jah8778
May 23, 2026 at 8:45 pm
“Now regarding the questions you asked in your letter. Yes, it is good to abstain from sexual relations. But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband. The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. But I wish everyone were single, just as I am. Yet each person has a special gift from God, of one kind or another. So I say to those who aren’t married and to widows—it’s better to stay unmarried, just as I am. But if they can’t control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to burn with lust. But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband. But if she does leave him, let her remain single or else be reconciled to him. And the husband must not leave his wife. Now, I will speak to the rest of you, though I do not have a direct command from the Lord. If a fellow believer has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to continue living with him, he must not leave her. And if a believing woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to continue living with her, she must not leave him. For the believing wife brings holiness to her marriage, and the believing husband brings holiness to his marriage. Otherwise, your children would not be holy, but now they are holy. (But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.) Don’t you wives realize that your husbands might be saved because of you? And don’t you husbands realize that your wives might be saved because of you? Each of you should continue to live in whatever situation the Lord has placed you, and remain as you were when God first called you. This is my rule for all the churches. For instance, a man who was circumcised before he became a believer should not try to reverse it. And the man who was uncircumcised when he became a believer should not be circumcised now. For it makes no difference whether or not a man has been circumcised. The important thing is to keep God’s commandments. Yes, each of you should remain as you were when God called you. Are you a slave? Don’t let that worry you—but if you get a chance to be free, take it. And remember, if you were a slave when the Lord called you, you are now free in the Lord. And if you were free when the Lord called you, you are now a slave of Christ. God paid a high price for you, so don’t be enslaved by the world. Each of you, dear brothers and sisters, should remain as you were when God first called you. Now regarding your question about the young women who are not yet married. I do not have a command from the Lord for them. But the Lord in his mercy has given me wisdom that can be trusted, and I will share it with you. Because of the present crisis, I think it is best to remain as you are. If you have a wife, do not seek to end the marriage. If you do not have a wife, do not seek to get married. But if you do get married, it is not a sin. And if a young woman gets married, it is not a sin. However, those who get married at this time will have troubles, and I am trying to spare you those problems. But let me say this, dear brothers and sisters: The time that remains is very short. So from now on, those with wives should not focus only on their marriage. Those who weep or who rejoice or who buy things should not be absorbed by their weeping or their joy or their possessions. Those who use the things of the world should not become attached to them. For this world as we know it will soon pass away. I want you to be free from the concerns of this life. An unmarried man can spend his time doing the Lord’s work and thinking how to please him. But a married man has to think about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife. His interests are divided. In the same way, a woman who is no longer married or has never been married can be devoted to the Lord and holy in body and in spirit. But a married woman has to think about her earthly responsibilities and how to please her husband. I am saying this for your benefit, not to place restrictions on you. I want you to do whatever will help you serve the Lord best, with as few distractions as possible. But if a man thinks that he’s treating his fiancée improperly and will inevitably give in to his passion, let him marry her as he wishes. It is not a sin. But if he has decided firmly not to marry and there is no urgency and he can control his passion, he does well not to marry. So the person who marries his fiancée does well, and the person who doesn’t marry does even better. A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. If her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but only if he loves the Lord. But in my opinion it would be better for her to stay single, and I think I am giving you counsel from God’s Spirit when I say this.”
1 Corinthians 7:1-40 NLT
@sugwilliams6257
May 23, 2026 at 8:46 pm
Thank you TED. Thank you God for helping us understand the importance of taking the time to share our stories and precious moments with each other, like blood and oxygen, it supplies life to our lives ~Revelation 12:11~
@rivkaflower
May 23, 2026 at 9:12 pm
Lauren! I’m sitting here weeping while listening to this. I resonate so deeply with your story and I feel like this healed a little piece of me that I always knew was there, but never could name. Thank you for being vulnerable and for sharing in your joy. Here’s to breaking free of cycles and allowing our bodies and families to heal and go forth truly living, not just surviving. ❤
@debracurry4159
May 23, 2026 at 9:15 pm
AWESOMENESS 💯 🙌 💙
@poalaaa
May 23, 2026 at 9:20 pm
👏
@rosalynlee2441
May 23, 2026 at 9:24 pm
“When adaptive intelligence outlives the conditions it was built for, it turns into compulsion, productivity without presence….some of the functions that saved you may be keeping you from the very you, you were trying to save”
Why’d she have to make me cry…this message came right when I needed to hear it. Thank you Lauren ❤❤
@r7mangm313
May 23, 2026 at 9:24 pm
was this written by chatgpt
@troutreznor
May 24, 2026 at 6:54 pm
do you think her and Maya Higa were there at the same time…
@afriqueEventsUSA
May 24, 2026 at 6:54 pm
❤I love this for you Ms Palmer
@reginagigitv5301
May 24, 2026 at 6:57 pm
Hello single mom here this was soo important and I’m glad you shared overtaken by emotions but so motivated to keep pushing
@paintedlotusyt
May 24, 2026 at 6:59 pm
Genuinely crying after watching. I love her so much. Thank you for sharing your truth, Lauren. 🙏🏻✨️
@OgeOkpala
May 24, 2026 at 7:01 pm
Wow, this is powerful and needed for so many of us to do for ourselves as we untangle our childhoods 😢
@Chickenbate
May 24, 2026 at 7:11 pm
Wow she did great thanks for speaking about this. After having my daughter something similar happened to me. Wishing you all the healing and present moments.
@cherrysIushie
May 24, 2026 at 7:25 pm
Idk why I feel like I can’t really relate to this story
@jerrelmccoy9094
May 24, 2026 at 7:34 pm
🔥🔥🔥
@lucbrv123ily
May 24, 2026 at 7:43 pm
So beautiful and heartwarming.❤️🥲
@TheAspenCavalliShow
May 24, 2026 at 8:14 pm
I love this!
@tiffanywilliams3019
May 24, 2026 at 8:14 pm
11:07 i need a break but can’t afford it😢
@margaretcromwell4820
May 24, 2026 at 8:20 pm
GOD BLESS YOU KEKE!!!!!
@SherrianMorgan
May 24, 2026 at 8:21 pm
Well spoken❤
@Its_Time_11.11
May 24, 2026 at 8:21 pm
Beautiful Keke! ❤you’re a true Gem. Blessing to you your Bebe and you family. 😊
@Rodriguezkuba80
May 24, 2026 at 8:26 pm
brilliant!
@thatpart7777
May 24, 2026 at 8:30 pm
TED needs a dress code
@Adrienne-wv7qo
May 24, 2026 at 8:49 pm
Nice! Very nice speech!
@jake_a.lien_
May 24, 2026 at 8:50 pm
Great Ted talk!
@amyr1209
May 24, 2026 at 8:57 pm
❤❤❤❤ Keke
@celanimaddr
May 24, 2026 at 9:13 pm
I cried. The message of learning how to live, not just survive, really touched me. I will give myself a break, too.
@kingkid3publishing660
May 24, 2026 at 9:16 pm
This is great!
@babeyteeef
May 24, 2026 at 9:17 pm
keke!!!! im finally outgrowing survival mode- this is just what i needed to hear at just the right time
@royaltybydivine
May 24, 2026 at 9:19 pm
So proud of who she became & is!!!
@samsopretty
May 24, 2026 at 9:19 pm
Wow. 😢 This is incredibly beautiful. I have no words. I love you Lauren, thank you for sharing your story. 💓
@KikiKiki-ft9ps
May 24, 2026 at 9:22 pm
This was sooooo good!!! I felt like I met Lauren for the first time. It also gave myself and so many others permission to set ourselves free from survival mode. Very impactful !!!