Conflict is an unavoidable part of any relationship. But what if the point of arguing isn’t to win, but rather to grow from the experience? Facilitator Darya Shaikh presents a powerful framework for managing conflicts, showing how you can navigate complex conversations and identify pathways for mutual progress despite differences. (Recorded at TED Countdown: Overcoming Dilemmas in the Green Transition on October 29, 2024)
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@SnehaParvin-wp8ny
April 21, 2025 at 11:04 am
Such a great video ❤❤
@FahadButt-m6l
April 21, 2025 at 11:07 am
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@sooma-ai
April 21, 2025 at 11:11 am
Darya Shaikh presents the Three Horizons framework for managing conflicts, showing how to navigate complex conversations and find mutual progress. She explains how this tool can transform adversarial relationships into collaborative ones by recognizing the value of different perspectives.
@RickLambert963
April 21, 2025 at 11:12 am
One consciousness is experiencing itself subjectively. In that, I know I’ve won. Never give in. Never give up. The psychopath overlords lose in the end.
@YouTubeFreeSummary
April 21, 2025 at 11:12 am
00:00 – 03:09 : Introducing Better Conflicts and the Three Horizons Framework
03:09 – 06:12 : Understanding the Three Horizons and Their Dynamics
06:12 – 07:42 : Applying the Three Horizons to Foster Positive Change
Structured Summary of the Video:
**(**00:00**) – Introducing Better Conflicts and the Three Horizons Framework**
• The speaker introduces the concept of improving conflicts to foster innovation and collaboration, emphasizing the importance of trust and transformation in contentious situations.
**(**03:09**) – Understanding the Three Horizons and Their Dynamics**
• The Three Horizons model illustrates three distinct patterns of change—horizon one (current reality), horizon three (future potential), and horizon two (innovation bridge)—and explains how they interact to create positive or negative outcomes.
**(**06:12**) – Applying the Three Horizons to Foster Positive Change**
• Using a corporate merger case study, the speaker demonstrates how the Three Horizons framework helped participants shift from adversarial mindsets to a shared vision of purposefulness and innovation.
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@spacetimeranus
April 21, 2025 at 11:14 am
Is there an approach that gets me bricked up?
@oKOMAPo
April 21, 2025 at 11:24 am
Imagine wanting to change your mindset towards a conservative regressive one…
@presbiteroo
April 21, 2025 at 1:35 pm
Many people say that it happens naturally with age.
I feel the older I get the more progressive I become but it’s not what I hear from others XD
@JE4-1
April 21, 2025 at 11:28 am
She is my colleague and we worked together for the same assignment last year very closely. She is very positive ! She knows every bit of what she is saying here.
@happy_go_lucky420
April 21, 2025 at 11:29 am
Did this make sense to anyone?
@BonnieShadow33
April 23, 2025 at 12:25 pm
It made sense to me.
@stevesmith4901
April 21, 2025 at 11:30 am
Did she say she used the 3 Horizons tool to resolve the Israeli-Palestinian conflict?
@BonnieShadow33
April 23, 2025 at 12:26 pm
She said she worked for 10 yrs there. She didn’t specify whether or not she used this tool there.
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April 21, 2025 at 12:13 pm
I am here for improving my English skill
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April 21, 2025 at 6:35 pm
Me too, I’ve understood a few words.
@rikkafe6050
April 21, 2025 at 12:15 pm
It’s takes a great deal of energy over much time to forge our opinions and beliefs. Therefore before our brain will expend more energy to unwind those neural structures it has to see the cost benefit in doing so. It appears to me that when people have an epiphany the feeling in the mind of enlightened euphoria is due to the brain suddenly deconstructing years of imbedded neural structures. It’s akin, but far more amplified, to the feeling we have when we finally complete a task that we have been procrastinating over for a long time.
@presbiteroo
April 21, 2025 at 1:37 pm
I think real empathy makes this change a lot less costly, but that’s hard during conflict.
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April 21, 2025 at 1:00 pm
I am at the beginning of my “investment journey”, planning to put 385K into dividend stocks, aiming for up to 30% annual returns I’d appreciate any recommendations for strong, high-performing dividend stocks..
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April 21, 2025 at 1:01 pm
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April 21, 2025 at 1:01 pm
The difficulty given the current market mentality, is determining when to buy or sell , which is quite easy for professionals. My portfolio has grown to $2,240,000. thanks to diversification and portfolio restructuring using growth companies, S&P 500, and quality ETFs. Entry and exit orders are chosen by my advisor.
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April 21, 2025 at 1:01 pm
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April 21, 2025 at 1:02 pm
how would you suggest i enter the crypto market? I am also looking at studying pro traders and using their strategy than investing myself . whats your take on this?? How can i reach her please?
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April 21, 2025 at 1:02 pm
Do a quick search with her name for her website.
@presbiteroo
April 21, 2025 at 1:33 pm
I wonder if there really is innovation in solving conflicts between people. I feel it’s a centuries old art that has always been practiced and always will.
What’s new is in the recognition of its necessity.
@Xandercorp
April 21, 2025 at 2:19 pm
The fact that you needed a chart to explain a basic concept is ironic.
@BonnieShadow33
April 23, 2025 at 12:28 pm
Um, no, a chart helps *visual* learners like myself understand the information better.
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April 21, 2025 at 3:45 pm
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April 21, 2025 at 3:51 pm
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April 21, 2025 at 3:51 pm
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April 21, 2025 at 4:07 pm
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April 21, 2025 at 4:07 pm
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April 22, 2025 at 3:23 am
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April 22, 2025 at 5:08 am
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April 22, 2025 at 9:40 am
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@Thinkmax_19
April 22, 2025 at 5:00 pm
Wow
@BonnieShadow33
April 23, 2025 at 12:25 pm
But it didn’t work with Israel & Palestine…
@everestmuoghalu4379
April 23, 2025 at 12:48 pm
2030????