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How To Fix a Broken Heart | Guy Winch @TED #tedtalks #shorts
Guy Winch asks us to take our emotional health as seriously as we take our physical health — and explores how to heal from common heartaches. Watch his full TED Talk:
Guy Winch asks us to take our emotional health as seriously as we take our physical health — and explores how to heal from common heartaches. Watch his full TED Talk:
@belaytriks
February 14, 2024 at 12:10 pm
For the classic greeks Hope was an evil, that is why it was in Pandora’ box. Hope stoped men to acept their reality and work to change it.
@rizkafitrianabdillah4184
February 14, 2024 at 12:11 pm
Gonna leave a comment here for remainder
@onnensr2190
February 14, 2024 at 12:24 pm
bookmark
@quantumleap777z
February 14, 2024 at 12:24 pm
I’ve been heartbroken many times and each time I’ve learned to just let go and move on…when the breakup is at the point of no return, don’t let the false hope eat at you mentally and waste your time
@ws521
February 14, 2024 at 9:40 pm
u r so clever
@PhoebeFayRuthLouise
February 14, 2024 at 12:28 pm
Looks like an excellent TED Talk!
@sbshnkv
February 14, 2024 at 12:47 pm
Я на секунду подумал, что Соловьев выступает
@user-oe8jx8nx7c
February 14, 2024 at 1:15 pm
😂
@potapotapotapotapotapota
February 14, 2024 at 12:57 pm
codependence is 💀💀
@a24396
February 14, 2024 at 2:08 pm
The “breakups” aren’t the problem… I’ve got an unbroken track record of those.
For me, the problem is still always going to be the one that slowly withdrew to try and make me the one to end things.
I’d ask if anything was wrong and get told everything was fine – I was reacting poorly for some reason, seeing things that weren’t there, etc…
And then, after months of that, of my believing what was so clearly in retrospect nothing but lies, I got a “my life is better without you” as an explanation for why “we needed some time apart.”
After being reassured that entire time it left me unwilling to trust my instincts, unwilling to risk myself… Every memory I have now feels like a fraud; I thought we were happy when we visited London, or Paris, or Barcelona… Spent holidays together, spending time with family…
But at some point the lies and pretending started… I still don’t know but how did I miss it? It’s hard to “fix” a problem if I can’t even identify what it was.
Pathetic to feel both betrayed and responsible at the same time… Even worse is the shame I feel to have let that destroy me so thoroughly. All for someone that I’m quite sure hasn’t spared a moment’s thought on me since.
I’m quite sure none of it ever mattered…
Except to me…
@ws521
February 14, 2024 at 9:44 pm
do not think about it.let it go.Its over. past is past.Look forward.U r painful because your brain but not your soul.
@erdiaz13
February 16, 2024 at 1:20 pm
So well-put, this sounds devastating. Sorry you had to go through that. 😔
@robyn7287
February 14, 2024 at 5:01 pm
Hits right to the heart 💓
@muzzybeat
February 14, 2024 at 5:38 pm
Drama queen.
@cactustree505
February 14, 2024 at 6:05 pm
accept and let go of hope to really let it all go
@dejab3589
February 14, 2024 at 7:38 pm
Hope will disappoint you every time
@Vegesaurus7
February 15, 2024 at 10:42 pm
Only Jesus can fill your heart ✝️ = ❤️
@KennyHBCA1
February 16, 2024 at 3:26 am
It is dopamine withdrawal
@j.5908
February 17, 2024 at 4:57 am
Fucking mood killer
@georgiabessie
February 18, 2024 at 12:14 pm
Perfectly released on Valentines Day. Best Ted talk ever done. Thank you Guy.
@Claus-dx2qy
February 20, 2024 at 9:56 am
Objection: Despite DSM 5’s (odd) terminology, there’s no such thing as a Broken Heart or Burn Out. For various reasons Psychosomatic Medicine suggests, a lethal Heart Attack may prove an expression of Psychogenic Death, rather than stemming from cardio-vascular overload (Biology/Chemistry Lessons, Grammar School ’82).