Former FBI agent and body language expert Joe Navarro answers the internet’s burning questions about body language. Why is being stared at so intimidating? How do you have a good poker face? Can body language be admitted as evidence in court? How can you end a conversation politely? Joe answers all these questions and much more!
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July 1, 2021 at 12:02 am
I am American, and i *DESPISE* shaking hands..
Stergoose
July 1, 2021 at 12:08 am
Did I miss the part where Khloe Kardashian asked a question?? cuz there sure was no question mark there.. lmao we get it shes famous, but what was the point of this?
PS Joe is the best
slinzerthegod
July 1, 2021 at 12:13 am
He got all this knowledge of body language, yet can’t read leetspeak :/
Shelley K
July 1, 2021 at 12:18 am
Lots of people with ADHD jiggle their legs; lots if autistic people look at lips instead of people’s eyes. I advise you to learn more about psychology.
lisalily
July 1, 2021 at 12:20 am
8:43 see this is why I barely talk to people, I always keep it short and I don’t approach people. I don’t like making people feel stuck in a conversation.
Jonathan Shank
July 1, 2021 at 12:26 am
When I take my glasses off during an intense conversation it’s usually to make myself blind so I focus more on my thoughts. Like turning down the volume to see better.
TheWackerly
July 1, 2021 at 12:34 am
“Always deal with the person in front of me, however they manifest.”
ONCE MORE FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
Carlynz
July 1, 2021 at 12:35 am
One thing about the hello gestures. Where I live we have many differents nods and waves. Sometimes I unconsciously use different ones for different people, but whenever the other person doesn’t do the same movement as me, for example, they wave and I nod, it feels like I disrespected(?) their salute in some way. Or, vice versa, if they just give me a nod and I wave I feel like I acted over excited to see them. So yeah, I’m wondering why now.
gogolaygo
July 1, 2021 at 12:39 am
I love the way he reads the questions 😂😂😂 k grandpa you’re funny
Arcanum
July 1, 2021 at 12:40 am
Did this man call me an ape
sproutpits
July 1, 2021 at 12:44 am
The Terry stop is the most abused construct SCOTUS ever created.
Lynn Hamilton
July 1, 2021 at 12:50 am
I don’t think the question about autism was answered sufficiently. I’m neurodivergent myself, adhd, autism, and anxiety, but most people would not see or notice that unless I told them. But, what does happen is my body language and vocal tone often could be read as “oh, that’s a lying tell” when it’s not. For example, I constantly have random thoughts and connections running through my head, and my body language is often three or four steps ahead of what my mouth is saying, so it looks like asynchronicity (a lying tell) when it’s actually not, it’s synced up with my thoughts which are going much faster than my mouth is. One notable thing, adjacent to this, that got me into trouble was I was caught in an uncomfortable situation and let out a nervous laugh (nothing flamboyant… just like a “heh heh…”) and was chastised for “making light” of the situation. This bothered me because I thought that certainly they know what nervous laughing is… but apparently mine doesn’t sound that way… or something? So yea, what I think he should answer here is how do you make sure someone like me doesn’t get falsely accused based on criteria used for neurotypical people?
CertifiedVelociraptor
July 1, 2021 at 12:50 am
My dad would always stare directly at me while speaking and I would get nervous and begin looking away or would start to fidget- one day he called me out on it, and ever since then, I’ve honed my skills of eyecontact out of pure unadulterated spite.
Ggangpae
July 1, 2021 at 12:50 am
“I don’t play the odds. I play the man” -Harvey Specter
Victoria Rue
July 1, 2021 at 12:53 am
Growing up, my mother always told me NOT to make eye contact because it was “aggressive.” Now I can’t do it to save my life, even when it’s recommended, like during an interview. Welp.
NefariouZ
July 1, 2021 at 12:55 am
The way he read SHIIIEEDDD 🤣😅😆
DSS
July 1, 2021 at 12:56 am
I always start to get nervous or space out whenever I need to make direct eye contact. I’d rather just hear what they’re saying
the Golden Spider-Duck
July 1, 2021 at 12:58 am
You know the intergenerational gap means something when Joe Navarro misses Hello Kitty.
Natalie W
July 1, 2021 at 1:01 am
Are these body language positions gender specific? Can a woman use these power positions with the same results?
Katie Littell
July 1, 2021 at 1:11 am
Him saying “shidddddd” was perfect.
Austin Meyers
July 1, 2021 at 1:13 am
Did this man just roast the entire Midwest by saying they have weak handshakes?
Thom Curry
July 1, 2021 at 1:16 am
I find this guy so interesting. He talks effortlessly about this language that I know intimately but have terribly difficulty describing. Every time he makes a point in one of his books, or in one of these videos, I’m over here going “YEAH!” I just think it’s so cool.
Jack Ford
July 1, 2021 at 1:20 am
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Coocoo Takie
July 1, 2021 at 1:20 am
why is that person asking about megahn markle…plz get a life lady
MJ Jabarian
July 1, 2021 at 1:28 am
I love how he passed the vibe check with shiiiiiidddd
Kariss king
July 1, 2021 at 11:32 pm
I would disagree. I would say that people take their glasses off to focus. Weird I know, but kinda like when you turn the radio down to look for an address.
Ola Bella
July 1, 2021 at 11:33 pm
Question for Joe, why are some people very touchy – freely when talking or communicating?
Ola Bella
July 1, 2021 at 11:34 pm
Another question, why do some people disliked being touched when being talked to or what I mean is they dislike simple body contact like touching of the arm or shoulder.
Anonymous Pentagon
July 1, 2021 at 11:47 pm
I get really fidgety whenever someone makes me look them in the eye and it makes me feel vulnerable and weak.
Kuziwakwashe Chikwete
July 1, 2021 at 11:49 pm
Malcon Gladwell says all this is BS
(talking to strangers)
Jamie Ok
July 1, 2021 at 11:52 pm
I don’t like eye contact because of the saying “the eyes are the window to the soul” and I don’t want people staring into my soul.
Rajeeb Barma
July 1, 2021 at 11:54 pm
Body, the rope vibrates infinite
Rajeeb Barma
July 1, 2021 at 11:55 pm
Eyes, windows the body. Noise go in and come out
Samuel Cho
July 1, 2021 at 11:55 pm
I am so self conscious about whether to stare at someone’s eyes in a conversation or not. Then again…I’m self conscious about everything in a conversation, so that’s not saying much.
BOT Chad
July 1, 2021 at 11:58 pm
And remember kids: always trust a Fed
B-314
July 2, 2021 at 12:04 am
2:04 Lower Graphics = Higher FPS duh
kaan secilmis
July 2, 2021 at 12:09 am
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Clayton Bigsby
July 2, 2021 at 12:10 am
Guys he didn’t mention the most important part about eye contact. If your trying to pick up a girl in a social setting and she consistently makes eye contact and y’all find yourselves locking eyes she’s seriously into you and waiting to give you her number
superficialposer
July 2, 2021 at 12:15 am
This guy is so interesting!
Damion Betters
July 2, 2021 at 12:31 am
😂😂😂when bruh said shiiiiiiddddd🤣🤣🤣. I know not why that tickled me so.
amanda ostuni
July 2, 2021 at 12:37 am
I want a whole version of this about flirting — specifically reading if someone is signaling interest or is simply a physical/affectionate person.
Lukanacious D
July 2, 2021 at 12:51 am
We are humans not apes.
Aerin X Shamy
July 2, 2021 at 12:52 am
my cat looking at me in the eye: 🐱
me starring back: 👁 👄 👁
my cat: 😸
me: 😆
Dan Furtado
July 2, 2021 at 12:54 am
I worked with a really cool slightly impaired guy. I always went over to help him when it was slow but he couldn’t pick up trying to end a conversation.
I would just have to say I gotta go back. No anxiety no bs try it some time
Tae Orion
July 2, 2021 at 12:56 am
If he reading body language than he obviously knows he was shooting everyone he was pointing that finger at. Mixed with his words he knew he just shot so many people. On top of that he #fed so he obviously knows that the entire thing he described is part of the #mkultra program.
swagmiester??
July 2, 2021 at 1:07 am
0:29 i could never get off of my mattress 🚶♂️
David Freeman
July 2, 2021 at 1:10 am
He is great!! I love his poise, wisdom and ability to simulate multiple situations given a single prompt!! We need more of him
x spice
July 2, 2021 at 1:17 am
fbi agent who cant decipher her name was actually hello kitty.
C: ana
July 2, 2021 at 1:21 am
I don’t mind making eye contact but I reduce my eye contact cause I feel like most people don’t like it . Sometimes I do it on purpose and look like a psycho. Sometimes people think I am flirting with them when I am just staring for no reason while they talk. 👁👄👁
Connor Granth
July 2, 2021 at 10:34 pm
I’ve on several occasions continued shaking my leg as I fell asleep
Mr. Scott!
July 2, 2021 at 10:35 pm
Honestly, I hope the handshake goes away. I’m not a toucher, and I hate being around people who insist on it.
erosinnit
July 2, 2021 at 10:38 pm
i dont have patience to watch the full video so idk if he like addressed it but
what if i l o v e eye contact
Anna Grace Odom
July 2, 2021 at 10:39 pm
I hope this is the FBI man who watches my computer
Mysticangel
July 2, 2021 at 10:41 pm
Nice to know I’m not being rude intentionally. I just randomly got this on my feed. I have a hard time making eye contact I’ve always been really shy. This honstly made me feel better.
Fide Nemini
July 2, 2021 at 10:46 pm
Random guy:”why does eye contact intimidate me so much?”
FBI:”All primates are afraid of eye contacts”
S T
July 2, 2021 at 10:49 pm
Read his book a couple years ago. Cool stuff
Kiuan
July 2, 2021 at 11:09 pm
I lived to see an FBI agent not being able to notice “hello kitty” on a user name. weird.
Splotch the Cat-Thing
July 2, 2021 at 11:12 pm
If eye contact intimidates the crap out of you, it’s probably because you’re a really cat in a human costume, and nobody told you.
‘Cause, you see, it’s a natural instinct for a cat, to feel threatened when somebody’s staring at them like a hunter. Being a natural hunter yourself, you fully understand that it means they want to eat you.
If you turn out to be a particularly small cat, that might mean you’re standing on another cat’s shoulders under the trenchcoat.
Sam McKinlay
July 2, 2021 at 11:26 pm
Irish and Scottish folk have a tried and tested phrase for ending conversations: “I’ll let you go now”
At no point did the other person say they had to go, however by instigating the exit with this phrase implies you are concerned with taking up too much of the other person’s time.
Joanna Bulik
July 2, 2021 at 11:32 pm
So disappointed he didn’t mention the “triangle” method when wanting to leave a conversation. Basically you look at the mouth then one eye and then the other eye. Keep repeating until conversation subsides 🙂 subconsciously the person will pick up that you want out.
Ruchama Joseph
July 2, 2021 at 11:39 pm
i like him alot lol
I never look at replies lol
July 2, 2021 at 11:49 pm
lol what subtle propaganda. trash.
Joanna Bulik
July 2, 2021 at 11:50 pm
More obvious when a person is lying is that the person will shake their head whilst saying something positive. Subconscious always give us away. Paranoia isn’t an illness, it’s just hyper active sensors x
Cody Dewey
July 3, 2021 at 12:00 am
It’s crazy how body language can be used against you when it’s just movement of your body in a non hostile way.
watch_me_do this_bro
July 3, 2021 at 12:03 am
Great. Now I know how to manipulate people
I’m joking
I’m a good person
Or am I?
KaddieHeartsArt
July 3, 2021 at 12:12 am
I avoid eye contact because my eyes are gigantic and people become entranced therefore forgetting that they’re on my face.
robynloveschocolate
July 3, 2021 at 12:30 am
9:43 as I’m sitting here twirling my hair 😅
TriggK4T.011
July 3, 2021 at 12:32 am
no wonder people dont like talking to me. i give direct eye contact.
Ari6lle1nWonderl2nd
July 3, 2021 at 12:44 am
@17:26, no one gonna tell him it says “1 hello kitty??” 😂
Benjamin Jones
July 3, 2021 at 12:55 am
My dad taught me that real men always maintain eye contact and have a firm handshake
Abigail Marks
July 3, 2021 at 1:11 am
i thought it said irritate not intimidate
Korpid905
July 3, 2021 at 1:13 am
why you gotta make the video political…
Brick Bros
July 3, 2021 at 1:19 am
I feel uncomfortable because he made eye contact with me during the whole video
Michael M
July 3, 2021 at 1:20 am
We all want more Joe Navarro
E
July 3, 2021 at 8:39 pm
Maintain eye contact to show dominance.
Nameless King
July 3, 2021 at 9:02 pm
When I did eye contact… they followed me in the toilet. So not anymore hahahahaha.
Kai Tetsujin
July 3, 2021 at 9:05 pm
Is it strange to not be intimidated with eye contact but rather just not care about it?
Mehnbuhn Kneckbeerd
July 3, 2021 at 9:07 pm
can read bodies can’t read internet
Gachagames Suck
July 3, 2021 at 9:17 pm
This guy a freak and I mean no disrespect I can just tell. He knows to much not to be.
Gachagames Suck
July 3, 2021 at 9:20 pm
If you’re having trouble making friends let me give you a tip. I used to be a social butterfly so I can promise this has worked for me. If you like someone, walk up to them, and tell them that the two off you are now friends. They will have no choice… because of the implications 😈
Erich
July 3, 2021 at 9:29 pm
Lip reading? never did that lol
Zetsuke4
July 3, 2021 at 9:35 pm
Not so good
Zetsuke4
July 3, 2021 at 9:38 pm
restless leg syndrome is neurological not psychological.
Zetsuke4
July 3, 2021 at 9:40 pm
no dont make eye contact with everyone
Mr Daddy Meosky
July 3, 2021 at 9:45 pm
I once in a blue moon feel insecure wit looking at a.woman. but mainly can stare them down and get.them in to a mood of maybe we should do more then look.at each other.
Van Hattfield
July 3, 2021 at 9:46 pm
These are things that can be learned, just like he has, and once its understood how the interviewer is going to interpret “body language” it can be used to “lie” or mislead the same as words can. There are studies and classes on these types things and once learned it is something that can benefit individuals on both sides of the interview.
Computer Cat
July 3, 2021 at 10:03 pm
Honestly, I automatically will try to make eye contact with everyone I meet/talk to. It’s not intentional at all, I was just taught to do that. It’s also way easier for me to get a read on someone’s emotions that way.
Happy ClamGuy
July 3, 2021 at 10:18 pm
Can you have an episode in which psychologists discuss how big of a socio-psychopath you have to be to join the FBI?
Thomas Mendez
July 3, 2021 at 10:33 pm
*starts doing gang signs* read this body language
MemerDogs
July 3, 2021 at 11:03 pm
I Love this guy, very informative and only talks for about 20 seconds before moving on to the next question
Bernie Slippers
July 3, 2021 at 11:10 pm
I can’t make eye contact if I dislike or hate a person. I personally feel like looking someone in the eye is giving them respect and I’m unable to give someone that respect if I don’t like them or they make me uncomfortable.
Tana •
July 3, 2021 at 11:35 pm
Here in my country looking at someone’s eyes when they speak (to you) is a sign of respect, attention and education, so naturally i look at people in the eyes when they speak to me or i speak to them, obviously this is a problem when I go to other countries cause some people think that I’m flirting or I’m being rude o I’m being weird LOL 😂
pandoraheartsvd
July 4, 2021 at 12:16 am
🙄
Javier Vazquez
July 4, 2021 at 12:19 am
If I don’t like you. I’m not looking in your eyes. Rather not want to see into that mess.
Daniela Chamorro
July 4, 2021 at 12:24 am
he didn’t guess the language of the last tweet meant Hello Kitty hahaha 😛
Bitch
July 4, 2021 at 12:32 am
I tend to make eye contact a lot so I can seem more confident and ‘formal’ when in the inside I’m the complete opposite and I’m uncomfortable lol
Ameer Achikzai
July 4, 2021 at 12:36 am
Making eye contact with someone your romantically interested in works just let your eyes wonder every now and again so your not just hard staring into their soul😂
F L
July 4, 2021 at 12:43 am
This is what “Using your powers for good.” looks like.
Roeanne Smith
July 4, 2021 at 7:17 pm
Am weird…I love making eye contact😂
Antonina Szczerba
July 4, 2021 at 7:42 pm
Eye contact is intimidating
Literally every authority: LoOk aT mE wHeN I’m TaLkiNG tO yOu.👁👄👁
EinweitererGoogleBenutzer
July 4, 2021 at 8:26 pm
After watching this I want to put my new gained knowledge into reality, but I surely know that I already forgot half of it
John Doe
July 4, 2021 at 8:27 pm
Be embarrased of talking like that, you are not any FBI.
John Doe
July 4, 2021 at 8:42 pm
are you trying my patience subliminally, old lady?
John Doe
July 4, 2021 at 8:43 pm
Agent? I’m former director of the FBI, and I don’t know you…
John Doe
July 4, 2021 at 8:44 pm
Sausages and clocks.
John Doe
July 4, 2021 at 8:45 pm
Do you know you are a clone?
John Doe
July 4, 2021 at 8:45 pm
1986, was 1000 years ago… Cryogenation…
John Doe
July 4, 2021 at 8:45 pm
culopsick
John Doe
July 4, 2021 at 8:50 pm
when do you finish primary school?
Vinicius Sousa
July 4, 2021 at 9:38 pm
My man spelling letter for letter each @ is gold. The h3ll0k1tty one KILLED me.
• Spiral_Studios •
July 4, 2021 at 10:10 pm
Please tell me I’m not the only one who just came across this randomly at midnight and decided “I’ve got nothin’ better to do…”?
codycast
July 4, 2021 at 10:13 pm
0:30 “a lot of us are intimidated by eye contact”
So he clears it up. Betas can’t maintain eye contact.
codycast
July 4, 2021 at 10:14 pm
1:29 amazes me that some people actually wrote that way.
Lil'
July 4, 2021 at 10:23 pm
The long + direct eye contact thing (the first one) is something Girl Scouts/Guides use to get you to buy their cookies!😂
Mav
July 4, 2021 at 11:42 pm
lol so I’m one of the few who is not intimidated by eye contact – then again my job demands that I keep everyone in line….so it makes sense.
Mishka Stennett
July 4, 2021 at 11:44 pm
I’m a scorpio i have to look someone in there eyes when talking to them
SimpleMoneyDrop
July 4, 2021 at 11:50 pm
Joe Biden used to be a FBI agent? Wtf
MEGAAIDANEXPLOSION !
July 5, 2021 at 1:26 am
That isn’t Joe biden
Ester Meireles
July 5, 2021 at 12:30 am
As a Writer, this is the most useful video I’ve ever watched
Eli Sa
July 5, 2021 at 12:50 am
I usually look at people’s mouths more than their eyes while they speak, and i have been told that i was like that since i was born, but sometimes i feel people find it kinda creepy
SpaceCat86
July 5, 2021 at 12:57 am
The FBI and the CIA are absolute clowns. They are not cool nor smart. They’re basically the same level of dipshit that you get at the DMV except worse because they’ve been profiled and recruited based on their level of potential psychological manipulation.
manicpepsicola
July 5, 2021 at 1:11 am
I have autism and i dont like eye contact but ive had to practice it so much im really good at staring at people until they get uncomfortable lol
foxybabyroxy
July 5, 2021 at 1:13 am
I don’t mind eye contact. It lets me know they’re listening to what I’m saying, and vice versa, I want them to know that I’m giving them my full attention. I’ve noticed a lot over the years however, that people tend to look away a lot while speaking. If I’m talking to someone, and they look away, I try to look away a few times during the conversation so they don’t feel so awkward. If they don’t look away, I don’t either. I will admit however, that once at a job, I had a higher up tell me it made them uncomfortable. I made sure to make as much eye contact as possible 😂 To be fair, they made lots of other people uncomfortable, so I figured they needed a taste of their own medicine 😬
Emma Grace
July 5, 2021 at 3:17 pm
I grew up during a genocide and my parents taught us as children to never look someone in the eyes (because as a child if you saw a soldier killing someone you could easily identify them…) and even as an adult it’s extremely hard to reverse my thinking on this
ActionAlligator
July 5, 2021 at 5:14 pm
Oh, that’s terrible…what genocide if you don’t mind me asking?
Ryan Makarski
July 5, 2021 at 3:33 pm
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Nikita Shakur
July 5, 2021 at 3:37 pm
see, i always thought foot or leg shaking was like misplaced energy type thing. see, all this, is why im no expert!!
Jess M
July 5, 2021 at 4:36 pm
Been hearing a lot about Terry v Ohio lately… Even his one note on it was a hint of how it’s problematic.
Corey Chambers
July 5, 2021 at 5:24 pm
100% eye contact is unnatural. 0% eye contact is unnatural. Maintain medium strong eye contact, and smile!
Teletubbies Tune Twister
July 5, 2021 at 5:36 pm
I love how he read out the spelling of HelloKitty… hahah
TJ
July 5, 2021 at 5:43 pm
so we just established that within the United States we have different cultural body language behaviors AND YET we then go on to say the courts allow cops to discriminate BASED ON BODY LANGUAGE that they may very well NOT EVEN UNDERSTAND, this is why America kinda sucks sometimes :/
Fromholtz12
July 5, 2021 at 5:48 pm
As a man with Asperger’s I didn’t know body language was a thing till I was 20 this video fascinates me because I still to this day have to gauge people’s mood based off of their voice because I can’t read their body language
ToolforOffice
July 5, 2021 at 5:48 pm
My dog thinks eye contact is a love language cuz she stares at me anytime we are in the same room. Always. It never stops
Ruben Octave
July 5, 2021 at 5:56 pm
Is it weird if I enjoy eye contact?
viktoriyarts
July 5, 2021 at 6:58 pm
any tips for when the person is cross eyed , should I just look at their nose or something?
Happ Pretzel
July 5, 2021 at 7:37 pm
Lol, I realized that I was looking this dude dead in his eyes while watching the video.
N Harber
July 5, 2021 at 7:56 pm
I take my glasses off during an interview and such because I’m focused on doing a decent job amd forget that im nearsighted and don’t need them any more. I just take my case out of my purse, open it, take off the glasses, gently close it and put them back in my purse so I don’t forget them. I’m mostly just trying to prevent losing them and avoiding giving myself a headache because they fit snug.
Jimmy
July 5, 2021 at 8:55 pm
The intro 🤣
Ernesto Marrero
July 5, 2021 at 9:02 pm
Personally I make eye contact to make sure I tell the person I’m listening to them.
Ostium Images
July 5, 2021 at 10:05 pm
Former for a reason…
D She
July 5, 2021 at 10:16 pm
Years ago I was told that I didn’t get a teaching job because I didn’t maintain eye contact throughout with my THREE interviewers.
Turns out it was a bit of a pet idea of the Head.
Some time later, two members of staff were dismissed in separate, unrelated incidents of inappropriate behaviour with pupils. Obviously the eye contact method failed in their recruitment.
Sadly, education is full of random misinformed ‘experts’
Brianna Lenneman
July 5, 2021 at 10:23 pm
My mom always told me to make constant eye contact when talking to someone to be polite but I feel like constantly looking at someone when they’re talking during a convo comes off as creepy.
Just Pette
July 5, 2021 at 11:11 pm
Hand shaking was a way to show you didn’t have a gun in your hands
PrincessOfTheYew
July 5, 2021 at 11:11 pm
I wonder how much the police used body language as admissible evidence for the Central Park 5 and other wrongly accused Black and POC people 7:07
Dee B
July 5, 2021 at 11:20 pm
I’m lifting my eyeglasses off my face and placing my right elbow forward and down as I say this was quite elementary.
justin jin
July 5, 2021 at 11:50 pm
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Paula Daunt
July 6, 2021 at 12:54 am
Specialist dumping piles of useless nonsense in our cyberspace again. No. Strong people love eye contact. We also don’t consider FBI agents a valid source of information.
Logan Wiggins
July 6, 2021 at 1:12 am
Everytime I look somebody dead in the eyes when I’m talking to them and they’re doing the same back to me, it feels like a competition and that will be one I won’t lose🤣
Derek Lawson
July 6, 2021 at 1:12 am
That’s so interesting I’m always about eye contact, I constantly am making eye contact if your talking. I wouldn’t imagine people taking it as intimidating
Psychologist Gaurav Gill
July 6, 2021 at 11:20 am
It was fabulous..insightful and riveting..
Shreya Rawat
July 6, 2021 at 11:36 am
I like making eye contact with people, and the first thing that I notice is if they make eye contact or not!
For some reason I happen to notice it every single time.
Eeee
July 6, 2021 at 12:55 pm
Spring/summer – do they change their approach? Sitting here being innocent and fighting all the hayfever symptoms and sinus headaches of July fearing I’ll be shunned by my family because of my body language guilt.
Isaac Valentin
July 6, 2021 at 1:28 pm
I literally look everyone I pass’ face to read their intentions, state of mind, and to register my surroundings in detail, down to the person. If I make eye contact I soften my stare but I don’t turn away. If someone stares back I assume they’re doing the same. It’s also pretty interesting to note, that when I pass people and turn around, a lot of them have turned around to look at me too.
Mz Clementine
July 6, 2021 at 1:28 pm
Stares you down… 😏😈
Absolutely I love it. The sign of dominance is a sign of power. It’s a sign of I don’t give a crap what you say and I see through what you’re trying to tell me you liar.
I intimidate many. I don’t care. I walk with confidence. I look directly in your eyes when I speak to you. And trust me I am reading you I can read you very well by your mannerisms as well as by your energy.
If I intimidate you good. Am I sorry, no. Are you weak, yes.
Do I consider myself an apex, yes.
Some people are just born with certain traits. Some are born to be leaders. Some are born to be followers. Can you learn these different traits, yes but can you follow them through with your energy and your stance and your mannerisms? It’s a lot to accomplish. But can be done.
Yeah it comes to second nature for those of us that are the Apex.
I truly believe it falls in line with intelligence. As well as those that are gifted. It’s not wrong or bad for one to be one or the other.
It’s just who You are.
Isaac Valentin
July 6, 2021 at 1:32 pm
I do the same, not with the intent to dominate, subjugate or intimidate. I just enjoy deciphering people and being right
jun
July 6, 2021 at 2:05 pm
Interesting
Carly Taylor
July 6, 2021 at 2:34 pm
This woman was trying to “help” me find my confidence or some crap like that and she had me look at her so she could stare in my eyes for like 30 seconds to “read me” because she was an “expert” and it was the most uncomfortable thing in the world and I’m to shy and quiet to say anything so I dealt with it…Never saw her again
joey
July 6, 2021 at 2:38 pm
i burst out laughing when i look someone in the eyes for too long
Neb Noida
July 6, 2021 at 2:54 pm
It’s fine if others make eye contact with me but I would never do it. Makes me feel like I’m being mean to them.
Aadi Dude
July 6, 2021 at 3:08 pm
Former alien answers questions about coming to earth.
Gi Gi
July 7, 2021 at 12:37 am
If he wasn’t willing to explain it, how would those of us new to earth ever learn to pass as human?
He’s doing a great service for the people of Mars- & beyond
Dani Leopardeye
July 6, 2021 at 3:28 pm
I absolutely HATE making eye contact. Cursed with (nearly blind) hazel eyes, people stare into them INTENSELY. It makes me so freakin uncomfortable. 😫😫😫
jacob butcher
July 6, 2021 at 3:29 pm
It’s funny he couldn’t read the last handle. Spelling it out instead of seeing , hello kitty. Generation gap I think.
Alex Marian
July 6, 2021 at 3:38 pm
Dhis is cool
gun nick
July 6, 2021 at 3:42 pm
Feds are pigs
C Leigh
July 6, 2021 at 4:00 pm
Watching this video just so my FBI agent feels like an underachiever.
Rose Crystal
July 6, 2021 at 5:03 pm
During the pandemic I always found it so difficult to hear people through their mask and the plexi glass shield between me and the other person. So many sound barriers. I was always asking people politely to repeat themselves.
Maybe Maybe not
July 6, 2021 at 6:08 pm
I’m 38 and still get nervous around people I don’t know and eye contact is super uncomfortable for me. I try not to be rude and keep eye contact but I end up just fumbling my words and looking down.
I am just a mom doing the best I can
July 6, 2021 at 6:33 pm
I just hit this to see if I can help reach myself more to understand my autistic son more.
I am just a mom doing the best I can
July 6, 2021 at 6:36 pm
Also I was raised in fostercare so was taught to look at them when they are speaking to me in some and to look down in others. Both it was about control over me and perceived disrespectful behaviors.
I am just a mom doing the best I can
July 6, 2021 at 6:52 pm
I think that “handle name” you were saying you can’t make up was ment to be read as 1 hello kitty
Marianne Kisthinios
July 6, 2021 at 8:40 pm
A lot of people with ADHD also shakes their legs.
Nora Adora
July 6, 2021 at 9:56 pm
is that THE 1h3llokky???
Apple Gal
July 6, 2021 at 11:39 pm
Why don’t I find eye contact intimidating? To me, I find loud speaking and aggressive gesture more intimidating than eye contact.
Diah Rea Jones
July 6, 2021 at 11:47 pm
Is this true? I never break eye contact, ever. Even during sess, I just stare into her soul and thrust. I talk dirty ‘you like that you bad bad woman’ while never breaking eye contact. I coom in her eyes, but, I stare into her eyes when I do.
Some Guy With A Mustache
July 7, 2021 at 4:21 am
Me leadning to be social
Jackie
July 7, 2021 at 4:40 am
Anyone else pause this video to randomly learn the phonetic alphabet before finishing the video? just me?
Anna Stewart
July 7, 2021 at 4:48 am
lmao the way he said shiddddw
Lois Mensah
July 7, 2021 at 4:49 am
Lol he avoided that Meghan question so cunningly
Piyik GRD
July 7, 2021 at 5:27 am
4:30 i think i saw jojo reference
The T
July 7, 2021 at 11:51 am
9:00 same
As The Name Suggests
July 7, 2021 at 12:57 pm
I take my glasses off when I don’t want to see annoying people 😊👍
Joshua Ogunlolu
July 7, 2021 at 2:34 pm
C’mon Tango tango Yankee!! 18:29
Henry Steeze
July 7, 2021 at 2:57 pm
This dude is stupid
Dominic
July 7, 2021 at 5:05 pm
Just remember they can’t prosecute you based on body language lol!
Anne Katrine Thusgaard
July 7, 2021 at 5:20 pm
Cries in autism, who cant read body language. No wonder communication tends to go wrong, lol
rodney
July 7, 2021 at 5:29 pm
Hmm never realized that whenever I’m speaking to somebody I’m not fully acquainted with, I’m almost always standing at an angle.
Random Exploring
July 7, 2021 at 5:30 pm
Stare into someone’s eyes for at least 10 minutes! Out of body experience!
/sz
July 7, 2021 at 5:51 pm
shiiiiid, i like him.
WeirdOne
July 7, 2021 at 6:08 pm
This is absolutely perfect! I do all of this and never knew why it worked so well. Now you are explaining it and making me feel like a genius hahaha. But seriously, I appreciate you and how you talk. It makes this information so easily digestible so thank you!
Jumps
July 7, 2021 at 6:11 pm
1 hello kitty
nat
July 7, 2021 at 6:47 pm
i love how he said the autism spectrum
Khadijah Ghilzai
July 7, 2021 at 7:51 pm
Your so right thooo
xxxxSOSEXYxxxx
July 7, 2021 at 9:55 pm
I shake my leg when I’m bored. I don’t necessarily need to calm down. Like he said, it’s just a self soothing tool. I’m I also have ADHD. It helps for something to be in motion while I try to focus. It’s like it takes the excess energy and filters it out while I zone in with focus.
Maeve Karla
July 7, 2021 at 10:26 pm
The few fierce tea gully tip because phone spectacularly pop including a tender tense hydrant. giant, unequaled diving
Michelle Wei
July 7, 2021 at 11:05 pm
The current VP of the US is the QUEEN of “duping delight”!
Daisy Lazy
July 7, 2021 at 11:21 pm
Just came here to say f the first, bunch of maniacal asses. PS Epstein didn’t kill himself
Carboncrossroads
July 8, 2021 at 12:09 am
Joe Navarro is a champ
Cisco The Great
July 8, 2021 at 12:41 am
😂 at 1 hello kitty almost took him out
Lunera Scura
July 8, 2021 at 1:17 am
I make eye contact with everyone and there is definitely no love cause Shiddd involved for me 🤣. I was just raised to make direct eye contact.
Kesia Shani
July 8, 2021 at 1:41 am
1:31 He’s a pro lol
debbie holts
July 8, 2021 at 2:57 am
this aint no real fbi agent
Migaya
July 8, 2021 at 4:11 am
Thank you for the person who asked about interviewing people with autism 💖
Sgt Beef
July 8, 2021 at 7:09 am
This the same FBI agent who scammed the people with the Papadopoulis/Trump administration on behalf of the Clintons/DemonRat Party? We don’t respect the FBI, CIA, ATF, DEA, NSA, et al anymore. Federal agents are worse than pedophiles and I wish cancer on them and ALL their loved ones including their progeny.
Ariana
July 8, 2021 at 7:29 am
Related to cultural differences a huge interesting difference can be seen between East Asia and North America/Western Europe. In the west people tend to look at the mouth/lower face to read emotions, and in East Asia people tend to look at the eyes/upper face. This can also be seen in the differences in emojis! Western emojis also tend to have the biggest variation in the mouth vs East Asian emojis tend to have the variation in the eyes.
Sophie
July 8, 2021 at 10:40 am
I wish for a channel with that guy explaining that stuff for ever
The TopShottah
July 8, 2021 at 12:22 pm
I don’t like making eye contact because the last time I did it I put my friends in a genjutsu
Charlie Pashayan
July 8, 2021 at 1:41 pm
Mastered body language, baffled by l33tspeak.
thatamazingkid
July 8, 2021 at 1:54 pm
The way my boy said “shiiiiid” 😂😂🐐🐐
HONEY A•S•M•R
July 8, 2021 at 1:54 pm
The way my boy said “shiiiiid” 😂😂🐐🐐
Cartel de Bellamy
July 8, 2021 at 2:12 pm
so interesting
Angiebear
July 8, 2021 at 3:47 pm
So when my parents taught me to always make direct eye contact when speaking to people they were really teaching me to intimidate others? Interesting 🤔
Linus,Please Dont
July 8, 2021 at 4:48 pm
I thought it was another FBI agent when he wore glasses
Gabriella M F
July 8, 2021 at 5:17 pm
How do you tell the difference between a date and an interview when the people in the interview find each other incredibly hot?
Mathew Haynie
July 8, 2021 at 5:30 pm
I never realized I have subconsciously angled with people in conversation like that for a few years now, wonder when I picked it up.
Alexie T
July 9, 2021 at 5:49 am
I was an Airline Ticket Counter Agent for 25 years at a major hub airport.
I could look at the people in line infront of me and could point out with a 90% plus correct assessment which one will be a “Problem” “Difficult” “Drama” Customer, lol.
Madd Dr. Ew
July 9, 2021 at 7:02 am
i wonder why khloe kardashian is interested in interrogation videos…….
Topo Rosas
July 9, 2021 at 8:03 am
“This question is super difficult”
“oh thats easy”
Kristin A
July 9, 2021 at 8:24 am
When I look at the mouth, I’m judging the person’s teeth.
Jennifer D
July 9, 2021 at 11:35 am
As my grandma started losing her hearing she would say, “look at me while you’re talking, please” just because she lip reads sooo much. I find myself doing the same as I get older, too.
LB
July 9, 2021 at 1:43 pm
So interesting! Growing up I didn’t realize that I had significant facial blindness. I was an adult before I realized that I recognize almost everyone, if I am lucky enough to recognize ppl, through body language alone. I can’t tell you what people look like, but I can describe how they carry themselves.
Wanessa Silva
July 9, 2021 at 2:07 pm
All the things he said about what people that wear glasses do, doesn’t fit me at all. I never did any of those moves when taking my glasses off, and I use it since I was a kid!
Bunnylove314
July 9, 2021 at 3:43 pm
Lol, I purposely make direct eye contact with people. Then again, I usually feel I am the boss.
Anthrax Anthrax
July 9, 2021 at 3:56 pm
That police part is disgusting.
Wtf…..
Drunken Octopus
July 9, 2021 at 4:18 pm
Doesn’t bug me at all. I try to avert my gaze to avoid making others uncomfortable. But, if they don’t reciprocate, it’s a STARE DOWN then. 😳
Ana Scarlet
July 10, 2021 at 6:09 am
Pretty much same here, except *some* people make really intense eye contact and *that* is weird.
WY M
July 9, 2021 at 5:10 pm
I trained myself to not be intimidated by eye contact. When you are bullied throughout primary school to senior high one way to protect myself is to lock eyes and becomes.intimidating when bullies try to take you down. It works and I love it.
Charles Runthesum
July 9, 2021 at 5:51 pm
Throw a dart please before telling me you know what your doing. Profiling is dangerous, people are made to suffer because of people like you. You know nothing….you guess and call it fact.
Dynamic Gorgon 39
July 9, 2021 at 8:19 pm
“Why isn’t it taught in schools? I would argue that better schools do.”
-_-
Intiom
July 9, 2021 at 10:06 pm
17:24 I’m 42 and even I lnow that’s “1HelloKitty”. I’m still young… right? I’m still young?
#1 Shawol
July 10, 2021 at 4:01 am
So eye contact is uncomfortable and intimidating, unless you’re in love 😍
R Bau
July 10, 2021 at 6:03 am
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Raj Kishore
July 10, 2021 at 6:05 am
Some fbi agent, he wasn’t able to read hello kitty lol…. Just joking
Azrira Threesixty
July 10, 2021 at 6:50 am
Him: Perfect Poker Face™
Me, an intellectual: The Gendo Ikari
Dragonsoul123
July 10, 2021 at 7:30 am
Oh gods the lip reading makes so much sense. Like. I did notice that I tend to have a harder time understanding people who are masked. Now I get why
Wray
July 10, 2021 at 9:19 am
2:04 Because my eyes/nose bridge/side temples hurt.
You have no idea how many people get glasses that are too tight fitting, or even have the wrong prescription. And since glasses are expensive, and most companies don’t offer returns (some offer you the opportunity to change for a different frame for a fee) you’re just kind of stuck.
My current frame is uncomfortable and too small for me, but they were fine while I was in the shop. You really only realise after having to spend 8+ hours in them daily.
Wray
July 10, 2021 at 9:22 am
Even with glasses that fit perfectly, you would want to take a break every once in a while
Razear
July 10, 2021 at 9:29 am
“In some cultures, 👍 is considered a phallic symbol.” Lol
Thenfin
July 10, 2021 at 12:08 pm
Is it just me or is his example with eye contact and apes not a question of, intimidation by the dominance hierarchy and or your superior/person capable of violence rather than an unaware subconscious intimidation of which is a product of the “too intense” eye contact?
Rara
July 10, 2021 at 1:10 pm
Not me thinking that the tweet was refering to megan thee stalion
TheTekknician
July 10, 2021 at 3:22 pm
Take the Dutch approach if someone keeps talking. “Look, I have to go – it was nice talking to you, cheers”. I know it can be scary, but it’s friendly and to the point.
honey eyes
July 10, 2021 at 6:53 pm
17:50 “well congratulations”😂😂
Francescadbg
July 10, 2021 at 9:34 pm
How about if you’re not leaving the place, you just want to end talking to a specific person? I can’t say, I’d love to stay but I gotta run…. Heheheh.
Jon Brown
July 10, 2021 at 10:21 pm
Hostility ^ forgot clinched fists or clenching the jaw together tightly, Puffing your chest out
Rachael McCann
July 10, 2021 at 11:14 pm
The one about lip reading is really interesting. My dad actually was able to find out that he’d been slowly losing his hearing as a result of the masking because he hadn’t realized before how much he’d been relying on lip reading.
Matthew Swenson
July 12, 2021 at 4:53 pm
I have an auditory processing disorder, so when there’s a lot of background noise it takes a lot more dedicated attention to listen to someone.
Misao
July 11, 2021 at 2:31 am
As a Misao I can proudly say that I will reverse everything here and cause comfort through controversy because I love stuff that ceases my boredom
Misao
July 11, 2021 at 2:35 am
I never look at people. It that I completely avoid looking at their body. I look right somewhere to the wall but i still see them obviously. Am i the only one?
Mika Misaki
July 11, 2021 at 2:54 am
I avoid eye contact in fear that looking in their eyes will scare and intimidate them.
saikosocial
July 11, 2021 at 7:05 am
Lmao. Esrahamood backwards is doomaharse.
12thDecember
July 11, 2021 at 10:39 pm
I take off my glasses when discussing an important point because it removes a barrier between me and the person to whom I’m speaking, that’s all.
Gulnar Zeyn
July 12, 2021 at 7:01 am
Just do what your body tells you and others will synchronise you
FBI Surveillance Van
July 12, 2021 at 9:25 am
Statistically, to avoid Asian hate attacks avoid b males.
George Duba
July 12, 2021 at 10:43 am
Why do I feel uncomfortable with arms parallel to body?
Nick Carter
July 12, 2021 at 11:42 am
As a person with Asperger’s/PDD-NOS I’ve made this observation about my own body language: I have the same nervous tics as ‘neurotypical’ people (pacifying behaviors, eyes wandering down/away during conversation), but they’re so prevalent and numerous that it doesn’t take an FBI agent to notice them. I believe people should view Autism Spectrum Disorders as a set of observed behaviors, not personality disorders. The social contact is usually more disconcerting for other people than the Aspie themself: we’d be fine if people could just accept us as-is.
Charrlie IF
July 13, 2021 at 10:06 am
Great content. The part where he agrees body language should be taught in school & pushes up his glasses….now I am wondering what that indicates🧐…😆
Aquasurge
July 13, 2021 at 1:14 pm
awesome
Tosin
July 13, 2021 at 2:19 pm
This guy as an actor would be phenomenal. #opinion I wish he would take me along for the ride. Yeeehaw!
Lilith Mauloni
July 13, 2021 at 8:57 pm
More info on why we handshake –
Most people think the handshake developed as a gesture to demonstrate being weapon-free. Not so, says UK paleoanthropologist Ella Al-Shamahi. She reveals an alternative history to the common gesture.
thejmeister
July 13, 2021 at 8:59 pm
Joe! That says “1 Hello Kitty”. The way it’s typed is an internet (gamer) language known as L33T (leet).
Sami Elyas
July 14, 2021 at 2:24 am
Love the idea of Q&A 👍
Khalilah Thomas
July 14, 2021 at 3:57 am
Cause shiddddd 😂😂
Dakota Reid
July 14, 2021 at 6:48 am
This guys wife must hate him.
AgentJones09
July 14, 2021 at 7:34 am
Nobody:
Litterally nobody:
me and a random guy in minecraft staring at each other: 😐
treebles
July 14, 2021 at 8:14 am
thanks for another great, informative vid mr navarro!
benjamin
July 14, 2021 at 8:34 am
I could look in my girlfriend’s blue eyes until I die
Ginger Ninger
July 14, 2021 at 9:59 am
Realising you were on a date 2 years ago and she kept moving her feet closer and you to her, but you didn’t know if she liked you at all so you kept retracting when you realised how close you were.
Wish I knew this sooner, she was a catch
WHITE LION
July 14, 2021 at 3:21 pm
Where do I get training for this in NYC?
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Blitz
July 14, 2021 at 3:54 pm
17:30 Joe you can tell that’s hello kitty right?
Kenneth Franklin
July 15, 2021 at 12:58 am
Hello Kitty
bibia
July 15, 2021 at 1:19 am
skinner?
NEWSHOO
July 15, 2021 at 3:10 am
How can I stop sounding shakey when I’m nervous or angry?
Stephanie Gabrielle
July 16, 2021 at 6:33 am
I’m not an expert but “practicing” breathing helps. When you’re nervous your body and vocal chords seem to constrict so adjusting yourself into a confident posture and taking deep breaths may help. It helps me. 😅
Henry Martinez
July 15, 2021 at 3:27 am
Right… “Former FBI” Lol.
Wen Pa
July 15, 2021 at 6:23 am
I had an interesting experience recently with someone who wouldn’t stop talking. I kept smiling and nodding, but stepped into his personal space, and he took a couple steps back. So I took a couple steps back, then he took the hint and wrapped it up.
SHINeeMINHOney
July 15, 2021 at 8:11 am
Guys its Creed!
MissManaged
July 15, 2021 at 10:44 am
Honestly, I’d like to figure out how to stop reading _so much_ into body language, because I’m constantly thinking someone is disinterested/irritated/judging me and I’m just not picking up on it correctly.
Midnight
July 15, 2021 at 1:44 pm
Wait… I know those wooden figures… I have two of them
Viomaliha
July 15, 2021 at 4:56 pm
17:27 somebody tell him that the 1h3ll0k1tty was just hello kitty 🤣
Nurauq Stallings
July 15, 2021 at 6:58 pm
Thank you for sharing! Such great knowledge!
RogueWhiteWolf
July 15, 2021 at 9:17 pm
Me who cant make eye contact due to autism: 🤡
Brnman
July 15, 2021 at 10:05 pm
I simply adore that he is so oblicious to the usernames like hellokitty
Maugra Luna
July 15, 2021 at 10:26 pm
🙂
ScienceHelpUs
July 16, 2021 at 3:21 am
His body language says to me he’s talking complete bollocks.
Shreya Mohapatra
July 16, 2021 at 11:19 am
Him spelling out the hello kitty username 😂
SkotKash
July 16, 2021 at 6:12 pm
I like this guy.
Josip Marić
July 16, 2021 at 6:13 pm
I think that body language gives a lot of meaning to words that was actually sad
scott chaney
July 17, 2021 at 5:45 am
Having a minor hearing loss I look at lips. Didn’t realize how much until masks
Blumix 5
July 17, 2021 at 11:29 am
Give us more of him pleeeeaaaaseeee
Josh Head
July 17, 2021 at 11:46 am
I’m waiting for him to tell me that I have the chance to win 5000 dollars of his money.
James Taylor
July 17, 2021 at 4:36 pm
A friends 16 yo child was tackled by a cop and sentenced to juvie for “cracking his knuckles”, the cop took it as a “preparation to fight with the officer”.
The problem the Terry v Ohio precedent is that the cops have since trained themselves to exploit meaningless gestures or habitual behaviors as “threatening”.
That precedent must be challenged, because that child has had arthritis since infancy and pops his knuckles constantly for pressure relief.
James Taylor
July 17, 2021 at 4:38 pm
Your AAPI answer was great BTW. I have trained many friends on those exact behaviors to avoid exploitation tactics.
Cindy Winfield
July 17, 2021 at 7:53 pm
Yooo give my man the “shiiiddd” award!
Mike Harper
July 18, 2021 at 9:17 am
This got me thinking, what it would be like to date with someone whos bodylanguage expert🤔
Shumitha Ammu
July 18, 2021 at 10:47 am
17:27 take another look…
it’s hello kitty
Heather O
July 18, 2021 at 12:42 pm
Joe Navarro is amazing. If you haven’t read his books you should 💯 they are very informative
June Bug
July 18, 2021 at 1:58 pm
“Shiddd”
saywhatnow comon
July 19, 2021 at 7:40 am
I have seen poker players do what he said to the T that is crazy
Die Welt stinkt
July 19, 2021 at 10:06 am
17:23
He can read body language but he can’t read leet 😁
Steven Savoie
July 19, 2021 at 10:23 am
2:03 I think the actual answer to this question is that the interviewer is likely wearing reading glasses. Removing them could be either to signal that they are done looking at the document for now or to remove them so they aren’t a distraction to either party.
Another possibility is that the act of removing their glasses allows the person to exercise control over their environment, thus just removing the glasses might be an adapter in itself.
I liked Joe’s explanations too though.
Kitt Jy
July 19, 2021 at 11:23 am
Like the way he politely shutdown the Meghan comment.
5tay Tuned
July 19, 2021 at 1:34 pm
4:28 and that my friends is why people get divorced
B M
July 19, 2021 at 6:25 pm
The eye contact thing….
When someone overuses eye contact I think it’s creepy, or the person is manipulative. But it doesn’t intimidate me. I think it’s more irritating. Is that a common thing? I get equally irritated when people avoid eye contact. Both come off to me as disingenuous.
Linda C
July 20, 2021 at 1:24 am
I don’t shake hands. I don’t owe anyone that kind of submission.
I need my hands and I protect them.
Tango Charlie
July 20, 2021 at 3:17 am
3:24 the same thing those dehumanizing face diapers do.
P Seguin
July 20, 2021 at 4:27 am
I don’t mind eye contact but it’s weird when people don’t look away then it’s like are you trying to fight or talk?
Maisan :v
July 20, 2021 at 8:28 am
I feel like I want to overcome my fear of eye contact. Cuz I want to stare back at a baby
Yuh Huh
July 20, 2021 at 9:02 am
he scared me when he talked abt the twirling of the hair bc I was doing exactly that
lnc1210
July 20, 2021 at 12:22 pm
I could watch him all day long!!
Dijana Djuranovic
July 20, 2021 at 1:13 pm
Cause shiddddd hahah he did that so well
ptit ange
July 20, 2021 at 3:32 pm
15:27 : in Queen’s Gambit the pose Beth always do when she know she as won the game THE POWER POSE
elfie bird
July 20, 2021 at 5:11 pm
well I’m curious bout smth what if someone consciously believe their own made up lies and literally believe them as they are the real truth then what happens?
Ethan Coyne
July 20, 2021 at 9:42 pm
I carry a pocket watch specifically so I can make a point of checking it when I want to end a conversation. It’s a much more noticeable gesture than checking a wristwatch and most people get the hint very quickly. They also don’t usually notice that I’m wearing a smartwatch and the pocket watch I carry has had a dead battery for years.
Sebastian Anderson
July 21, 2021 at 2:17 am
lol at 1h3ll0k1tty hello kitty 😉
Visiden Visidane
July 21, 2021 at 4:09 am
To improve your poker face, one must become Ikari Gendo.
Youtube person
July 21, 2021 at 9:35 am
His glasses are really clean. I can’t trust a man without a single mote of dust or a smudge on his lenses
chrissy teeters
August 1, 2021 at 4:35 pm
So i find in interesting that majority of people find it uncomfortable to look someone in the eyes when engaged in conversation…what about people like me who prefer to look people in the eyes when talking to them, studying them or listening? Does that mean I’m more dominant in personality or what? I’m genuinely interested.
Cassandra Karamanos
August 1, 2021 at 8:20 pm
Glad you pointed out that what’s behind the camera plays a role in the person in question’s body language.
Also, I wonder if some reasons “they” don’t usually teach body language in school is because: 1) They don’t want everyone to be able to read body language. 2) They don’t want everyone manipulating their own body language. 3) Many teachers wouldn’t be as knowledgeable and expressive as this ^ guy, and could be putting incorrect information out there.
Some criminology or psychology classes might offer a bit of this.
Anyway, I love this guy
best time
August 2, 2021 at 8:34 am
Hi
Brigita Pimenova
August 2, 2021 at 9:39 am
Is that really khloe who asking? 😂
Jeffrey B
August 2, 2021 at 10:37 am
YES! I look at the mouth all the time went talking to people. I am a mechanic and do it because it’s hard to what and I can kinda lipread. I’ve had bosses tell me stop looking at my chin and look me in the eyes. It’s hard not because I’m intimidated just easy to hear better.
Alexa López Morales
August 2, 2021 at 10:14 pm
I use eye contact in school with teachers so i intimidate them 😂
Sama_ Shvaa
August 3, 2021 at 10:35 am
Some sources say that crossing fingers on table isn’t good but he does it actually. Now I don’t know if I have to do it or not 😅
Good Bye
August 4, 2021 at 12:39 am
How he casually just went over Khloe Kardashian’s question as if she was a normal person that’s not special is how I want the whole world to treat that entire family. Shouldn’t even be in the news. Same with the Paul brothers. Who cares.
CH1M !
August 4, 2021 at 3:00 am
Burgir
TheNativelatina
August 4, 2021 at 12:00 pm
When a person shows a stoack look what does this mean?
I've forgotten how to fly
August 4, 2021 at 7:24 pm
I stare at people’s foreheads because trying to choose between two eyes is too intimidating
johnrtrucker
August 5, 2021 at 1:08 am
Great now ill be overly conscious of my body language to be sure my body says the same thing i am which is gonna be dead obvious 😂
Jessica R.
August 5, 2021 at 2:46 am
This guy definitely has AT LEAST one gen-zer that he’s close to in his life.
BP Lup
August 5, 2021 at 2:59 am
I can’t see four inches in front of my face. So if I take my glasses off it means you no longer exist to me. I’ve done this when feeling pressured.
Semih the Vegan
August 5, 2021 at 10:06 am
Watch this short documentary on youtube 👉 The Connections (2021) 👈
Acharich Speaks
August 5, 2021 at 12:25 pm
Hmm, he addressed Khloe like a completely regular citizen, which one could argue she is.. 🤣 But I wonder if he knows who she is..? 💭
He also missed Hello Kitty surprisingly, but this was really interesting & I do love eye contact, especially with friends or the special someone.. 😏✨
– @Acharich
Alexander the tomcat
August 5, 2021 at 2:26 pm
3:20 Queen’s Gambit vibes
Stephanie Vasquez
August 5, 2021 at 3:50 pm
I’d like to note. I take off my glasses when talking about something I care about or if I want someone to “see me”. It my way I guess to be more personal or engaging.
Phineas Campbell
August 5, 2021 at 10:09 pm
Duping Delight
It sounds like it should come in chocolate, banana and strawberry flavour
Cayson Markham
August 6, 2021 at 3:28 am
I like that tie. Nice colors.
You’reGay
August 6, 2021 at 10:19 am
Eye contact never made sense to me. In fact I think it’s much more appropriate to not stare into peoples eyes. I respect peoples privacy. I don’t believe anyone is hiding anything. A lot of people are insecure about eyes. If they’re symmetrical or not, lazy eye, cross eyed. Because that’s what goes through my mind. It’ll never be a sign of dominance either. Try looking at a certain dog in the eye for too long and he’ll come biting your neck off.
Theodora Roosevelt
August 6, 2021 at 11:01 am
This is the guy to listen to when he nailed the shiiiddd because now you know thats a man that’s constantly on the pulse
Orhan
August 6, 2021 at 6:43 pm
Most of humans: avoiding eye contact
Indian people: staring at you
Millionaire Hoy - HoyPRO App
August 6, 2021 at 9:25 pm
17:24 – Master at reading body language. Novice at reading leetspeak.
Trophy Boiii
August 6, 2021 at 9:26 pm
He read the “shiddd” in perfect tone, but was totally stumped by the “h3ll0 k1tty” 😂
Stane Less Shorts
August 7, 2021 at 6:00 pm
The BULLY: AY YO! DO MY HOMEWOR…
Me: _Covers my face with my hands and looks down_
The BULLY: *wHaT tHe HeCk! WHERE DID HE GO?*
Bushcraft North of 60
August 8, 2021 at 12:25 am
Former FBI agent:
“I don’t make these names up!”
Fails to notice the alphanumeric representation of Hello Kitty.
Maybe he’s just yanking our chains on that one.
sinosi benne
August 8, 2021 at 2:40 am
15:50…funny bodylanguage+comidment
Age of echo chambers !
August 8, 2021 at 5:27 pm
Body language = bs
Sarah Baker
August 8, 2021 at 6:49 pm
The most uncomfortable conversation I had with a stranger. While he was speaking with me he constantly rubbed the surface of the counter with his fingertips in a circular pattern. I just wanted to leave. I have no idea why. It was really weird to me.
Shaina Starlin
August 8, 2021 at 7:50 pm
Sometime id like to see an expert on fallout touch upon the reality vs fallout4
Marte P
August 8, 2021 at 11:34 pm
10:36 pfff 😒
Preston Parks
August 9, 2021 at 1:42 am
This dude would be useless if all spies had Parkinson’s or turrets syndrome
Cliff Cruise
August 9, 2021 at 8:39 am
I have repetitive behavior but I will not tell you! Cells will be wasted!
Ahmed Ghazal
August 9, 2021 at 11:06 am
I like his shinny glasses.
P6
August 9, 2021 at 11:16 am
This man is so unintelligent. Clearly one of many, who joined the force to boost their power and self worth.
1.25 x speed will get you at least the speed of speech of a person of average intelligence.
kim jong unnie
August 9, 2021 at 2:08 pm
Eye contact is so uncomfortable for me. It feels very intimate
genghis kanye
August 9, 2021 at 2:08 pm
Eye contact is so uncomfortable for me. It feels very intimate
Emily A.
August 9, 2021 at 4:54 pm
I don’t know how I feel about teaching body language because body language is a natural thing we all do and its a more authentic expression of our confidence and interest, so if you teach people certain things they could lead a life of manipulation. I understand there are certain situations where you might want to manipulate like a job interview, but in general I don’t know how much people could keep it up.
surreality
August 9, 2021 at 5:43 pm
It’s good to understand how body language, tone, and eye contact are used to read a person. It’s easy to lie when you know what they’re looking for.
SeniorCharry
August 9, 2021 at 10:29 pm
I keep on hearing about Asian’s getting verbally or physically abused on social media and the news, but I just don’t see the evidence. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but this so called rise in violence towards the Asian people seems to be more political BS. Well it’s not like my opinion matters anyways because I’m a white straight male who also likes nerd culture like Anime. Twitter calls me a man baby when I don’t like a film, I’m a racist if I don’t like Lebron James, and apparently I’m a sexist no matter what. Yeah seems fair and balanced to me, poor Asians.
Zoey Dulce
August 10, 2021 at 4:14 am
I agree body language should be taught in ALL schools!
Drummer Naut
August 10, 2021 at 6:27 am
Hello kitty bro… its hello kitty 🤦♂️
Asmi
August 10, 2021 at 9:31 am
Who else is watching this cause they have social anxiety 😂
Angelo Reyes
August 10, 2021 at 9:33 am
Where is the eye contact question?
Özge Zafer Kurt
August 10, 2021 at 11:00 am
Many years ago I worked in an office as an intern and I was in a not so happy time of my life. One day one of the partners of that firm, an old guy, came near me and said “Dear, you always smile but you are not really happy. The sides of your eyes never wrinkle when you smile.” I was shocked and said everything was ok but he was sooo right. I thought i was fooling everyone including myself. 🙂
Serena G.
August 10, 2021 at 2:36 pm
9:49 oh so it isn’t because of my ADHD well that’s good
John Goe
August 10, 2021 at 3:19 pm
I take off my glasses to make more intimate eye contact when trying to ignite conflict. Works well.
Geco
August 10, 2021 at 6:53 pm
Teacher: Ok class I will call some of you, to answer the question to the board
*I Accidentally made an eye contact
*Eye contact intimidates
Teacher: Ok….
Me: 👁️👄👁️
Law of One
August 10, 2021 at 7:07 pm
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