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Couples Therapy: Hurtful Things Aren’t Helpful
Psychologist and psychoanalyst Dr. Orna Guralnik joins WIRED to provide some couples therapy to the lovebirds of the internet. Still haven’t subscribed to WIRED on YouTube? ►► Listen to the Get WIRED podcast ►► Want more WIRED? Get the magazine ►► Follow WIRED: Instagram ►► Twitter ►► Facebook ►► Tik Tok ►► Also, check out…
@momofautism52005
February 14, 2025 at 4:45 pm
Update t up
@Adam_Le-Roi_Davis.
February 14, 2025 at 4:50 pm
This seems a very wise and balanced view.
@wiewahr4516
February 14, 2025 at 4:55 pm
Asking a framed question and giving an answer to that, not hearing the other site or if it is even true, doesn’t help either
@MsSamareh
February 14, 2025 at 7:58 pm
I didn’t think this format is conducive to anything better.
@JaNouWatIkVind
February 14, 2025 at 5:10 pm
“The grass is green” is true. It’s not a reason to throw it into every conversation you have, just because it’s “true”.
@edwardblair4096
February 14, 2025 at 5:33 pm
But it is not always greener on the “other side”. It IS possible to both admit that the grass is green on the other side of the “fence” and to be perfectly content with the green grass on “this” side of the fence.
I have a feeling that misunderstandings of this, in several different ways, is what drives controlling and jealousy related behaviors.
@lvalesic-bralo2478
February 14, 2025 at 5:54 pm
♡
@bastipear2864
February 14, 2025 at 6:40 pm
Amen
@illuminatusdeus3051
February 14, 2025 at 8:06 pm
No matter how bitter, truth is better than the sweetest lie… but how you state the truth is what matters. So how and when the truth is shared makes big difference!!
@illuminatusdeus3051
February 14, 2025 at 8:06 pm
No matter how bitter, truth is better than the sweetest lie… but how you state the truth is what matters. So how and when the truth is shared makes a big difference!!
@zezezep
February 15, 2025 at 1:04 am
that is my belief
@constanterratic4252
February 15, 2025 at 2:46 am
A lot of people think their opinions are the “truth” and some opinions should not be shared period. Authenticity is living your truth and not being an insufferable “truth” teller. 😂
@illuminatusdeus3051
February 15, 2025 at 3:01 am
@@constanterratic4252 Again… time, place and the motivation can go a long way. But nonetheless, personally, bitter truth is better than the sweet lie. Pain is temporary… but eventually, truth results in actions that will rectify a lot of these things.
@escaptivist
February 15, 2025 at 5:40 am
Define truth?
@illuminatusdeus3051
February 15, 2025 at 9:37 am
@escaptivist that which is consistent in all states of life.
@MohamadAminPajuhanPayam
February 16, 2025 at 6:13 am
Truth is only whats constructive? I beg your differ
@vultureculture7707
February 16, 2025 at 6:21 pm
Those who are “brutally honest” are often more interested in the brutality than the honesty. Wheres your compassionate honesty? Your friendly honesty?
@ashjoben
February 17, 2025 at 4:07 am
-she cheats
“that is not helpful or interesting to speak the truth”
@AlfaBeta-nt9qv
February 17, 2025 at 8:24 am
You will create a world with people having flower feelings. And that is now how the world works.