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By educating young people about the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships, Katie Hood hopes to derail abusive behavior before it starts and impact the relationship health of an entire generation. Watch her full TED Talk:

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By educating young people about the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships, Katie Hood hopes to derail abusive behavior before it starts and impact the relationship health of an entire generation. Watch her full TED Talk:

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  1. Yam Yefet

    December 19, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    I agree

  2. MC shaggs

    December 19, 2022 at 5:18 pm

    Yes and love is not simply love. There are different kinds of love. A Lot of people confuse it with lust.

    • Dimitros

      December 20, 2022 at 11:49 am

      Lust is a sign of love tho, in a romantic relationship at least, it would be a major issue if you didn’t lust for your partner

    • MC shaggs

      December 20, 2022 at 12:58 pm

      lust towards your partner without love yes

    • Dimitros

      December 20, 2022 at 1:06 pm

      @mcshaggs6449 
      ok, let me rephrase it not all lust is love.
      But all romantic love should contain at least some lust in it.
      How does that sound?

    • MC shaggs

      December 20, 2022 at 1:11 pm

      @Dimitros umm….lol I am agreeing with you. You don’t need to reword it.

    • Dimitros

      December 20, 2022 at 1:15 pm

      @mcshaggs6449 
      No, don’t take it personally. Maybe I just rephrased it for myself to make it clearer in my head.

  3. Pikavid Pachuau

    December 19, 2022 at 6:41 pm

    Everything is temporary but love outlives us all.

  4. In doct fool

    December 19, 2022 at 7:35 pm

    Will not happen before you engage in the love of Christ????????

    • Don Doodat

      December 20, 2022 at 3:14 pm

      That maybe true for you but absolutely isn’t for other people.

    • In doct fool

      December 20, 2022 at 7:41 pm

      @Don Doodat Aaa then try the 33 degrees then..

      Every badass has a spot ????????????

    • In doct fool

      December 20, 2022 at 7:42 pm

      @Don Doodat Holmgång is near you… Don’t be upset.

    • Don Doodat

      December 20, 2022 at 7:45 pm

      I hope you get the help you need.

    • In doct fool

      December 20, 2022 at 7:49 pm

      @Don Doodat

      Lovely kind and funny and lovely. ????????

  5. Joshua W

    December 19, 2022 at 9:21 pm

    Love is a gift and a gift is something you give expecting nothing in return. If you are expecting something in return for your “gift” then it’s not love but rather a transaction. And a transaction requires consent from both parties. If you give “gifts” without people’s consent then what you are actually doing is manipulating them.

    • Meist Syans

      December 21, 2022 at 5:15 am

      Yes, but we all give love expecting at least a little of love back. Unless you have Stockholm syndrome or something like that. I’m all for don’t expect anything in return, first because is the right thing to do, and second so you don’t feel disappointed, but if that person really is just using you and never does anything back, like drop that person.

    • Joshua W

      December 21, 2022 at 2:16 pm

      @Meist Syans you don’t understand

    • Meist Syans

      December 22, 2022 at 1:05 am

      @Joshua W is that all? Ok thanks for the insight lol

  6. Meme Merchant Freddy

    December 19, 2022 at 11:06 pm

    I think i’d have preferred the snippet where she said the most salient point of her talk. Not the last feel good sentence of the talk…

  7. mntngeek

    December 20, 2022 at 12:28 am

    Please publish these inane shorts on a separate channel.

    • Dimitros

      December 20, 2022 at 11:48 am

      * insane ????

  8. Paula Diana Barrett

    December 20, 2022 at 3:20 am

    Love is not an emotion. Love is a decision!

    • Sadie Lapiers

      December 20, 2022 at 7:30 am

      I’d say it’s both 🙂 sometimes, and hopefully often, it’s an emotion, but it’s also always a decision.

  9. Dan Miller

    December 20, 2022 at 5:15 am

    This short provides no tools to identify unhealthy signs, nor does it teach us the art of being healthy. Please stop with these. The shorts are bad. They don’t even link to the main Ted Talk.

    • nabila1379

      December 20, 2022 at 10:57 am

      Gotta agree with this. While Shorts may help with viewership, for videos like this Shorts may take away the context and main points of the topic, creating misunderstanding and misinterpretation. You’re right, they should at least put a link to the full video.

    • J A

      December 20, 2022 at 7:40 pm

      @dan Miller the link is in the description box

    • Dan Miller

      December 20, 2022 at 8:10 pm

      ​@J A I didn’t even know shorts had descriptions, but after digging three levels in I found it thanks.

  10. COSMIC PSYOPS

    December 20, 2022 at 6:16 am

    We don’t care if you’re convinced. Science isn’t based on conviction, but data. There is a difference between knowledge and belief. You can only love something to the degree you understand yourself and that thing from a systems-level, and empathize both emotionally and cognitively with the love object. Epistemic responsibility.

    • Dimitros

      December 20, 2022 at 11:47 am

      Yes she is a scientist herself as well

    • Dimitros

      December 20, 2022 at 11:47 am

      What is “epistemic responsibility?

  11. Jawad Jak جواد جاك

    December 20, 2022 at 11:06 am

    Gooddd

  12. Don Doodat

    December 20, 2022 at 3:13 pm

    Love is like a fart.

    If you have to force it, it’s probably excrement anyway.

  13. Leonard Siebels

    December 21, 2022 at 11:21 am

    Please, can you Link the full Video? ????

  14. Dragon maid

    December 21, 2022 at 1:23 pm

    People so traumatise those they love. Usually through being traumatised themselves. Learning to break this cycle is essential. Utterly essential. Otherwise whole generations could fail.

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