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How to Confront Your Inner Critic (W/ Anu Gupta) | How to Be a Better Human | TED

How do you quieten the judgmental voice in your head? Educator and entrepreneur Anu Gupta suggests you actually listen to it.Anu joins Chris to discuss the effects of human biases on our psyche and how to combat self-destructive habits by swapping out harmful emotions with constructive thoughts. They also talk about how individuals, when they…

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How do you quieten the judgmental voice in your head? Educator and entrepreneur Anu Gupta suggests you actually listen to it.Anu joins Chris to discuss the effects of human biases on our psyche and how to combat self-destructive habits by swapping out harmful emotions with constructive thoughts. They also talk about how individuals, when they come together, can create a society that is anchored around a loving, not critical, culture.

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  1. @TheShellyHansenShow

    April 8, 2026 at 1:43 pm

    This is such an important conversation because most people try to silence their inner critic without realizing it’s often a learned pattern rooted in fear and conditioning, not truth. When you start observing it instead of believing it, you create space to respond differently. A lot of that criticism is stored in the body and nervous system, not just the mind, which is why awareness and regulation matter so much. Real change starts when you stop fighting yourself and start understanding what’s actually driving those thoughts.

  2. @arturopadilla7817

    April 8, 2026 at 3:00 pm

    Very Interesting Informatión..THANK YOU!!

  3. @alejandrocurado5134

    April 8, 2026 at 4:12 pm

    Stoicism drives me to self knowledge. Observing myself and how others may / do see me makes everything unimportant. Life is very different from stereotypes. In fact, it’s often the opposite

  4. @johnnyjones5385

    April 9, 2026 at 12:51 am

    Bias does not mean stereo types, pattern recognition being racist or sexist. These words have distinct different meaning yet he uses the word interchangeably.

  5. @juliefahnestock7391

    April 9, 2026 at 11:12 am

    Yesss, Anu!!! Thank you, thank you for offering your expertise, vulnerability, and wisdom for how we work toward equity and inclusion. Your work has changed my life—I use PRISM every day!!!!

  6. @SkyLong-m6u

    April 10, 2026 at 9:22 am

    I used TinaMind’s TubeLens to extract the video highlights. I hope this is helpful to everyone.

    1. 00:00 Anu Gupta shares his personal experience as an immigrant facing racial prejudice, detailing how he contemplated suicide due to the weight of negative stereotypes and societal exclusion.
    2. 02:16 Gupta explains that he now views his work as a form of ‘inner development,’ advocating for warm-heartedness to counter global polarization, a perspective endorsed by the Dalai Lama.
    3. 03:43 The conversation shifts to the ecological dimension of bias, where Gupta argues that ‘biophobia’ and the exploitation of nature are root causes of global crises, necessitating a shift in how we relate to the living earth.
    4. 12:46 Gupta introduces the PRISM framework as a mindfulness-based, somatically-informed practice designed to rewire the brain and nervous system away from deep-seated biases.
    5. 16:32 Bias is defined as a learned habit that distorts perception and decision-making; however, Gupta argues that these habits are not inherent survival instincts but are socially conditioned and reversible.
    6. 20:00 Discussing the role of language, Gupta notes that multilingualism provides access to different cosmologies and ways of imagining humanity, which helps in breaking rigid binary stereotypes.
    7. 29:43 Gupta addresses the challenge of resistance to these ideas, suggesting a strategy of building ‘critical mass’ among the indifferent 60% of the population rather than focusing solely on those strongly opposed.
    8. 33:42 Concluding with a reflection on human nature, the discussion highlights that compassion is just as innate as aggression, referencing the cooperative social structure of bonobos as a model for human potential.

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